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Hall of Justiis

Filed under: Features — admin at 12:50 am on Sunday, December 2, 2007

It’s been months since I went to Quezon City Hall of Justice.

I remember the very first time na pumunta ako sa doon. Kahit wala akong kasalanan, feeling ko judgmental ang mga tao. Let me refresh your memory.

I was charged by TMG (Traffic Management Group) of anti-fencing due to a car that my ex-husband and I bought more than five years ago. Four years ago, he sold the car and left. After three years, TMG went to me with this anti-fencing case.

(To those who do not know, fencing is defined as “the act of any person who, with intent to gain for himself or for another, shall buy, receive, possess, keep, acquire, conceal, sell or dispose of, or shall buy and sell, or in any other manner, deal in any article, item, object or anything of value which he knows, or should be known to him, to have been derived from the proceeds of the crime of robbery or theft.”)

All my subpoenas were forwarded to my old house. But the Notice for Guilty or Warrant was sent to my present address. That technicality made the case complicated that I was forced to pay bail.

I’m here again at the Quezon City Hall of Justice. My reason, however, are different this time. Before, there was a case charge against me. Nevertheless, “not guilty as charged” ako. Obviously, ‘di ko nga alam kung saan kinuha yung car. Now, it’s my turn to file a case. Naks! Iba na…

After going through that criminal case experience, I decided to file for my annulment. The details of the annulment cannot be disclosed because…because… ganun yata talaga. Basta!

Iba naman talaga ang feeling when you are confident and know what’s happenning. Dati kasi, wala talaga kasi akong alam.

Parang naging tambayan ko na ‘yang Hall of Justice. Alam ko na kung saan agad ako pupunta.

I stopped in the middle of the hall. Looked around. Walang pinagbago.

1. Mainit pa rin ang paligid.

Kaya sigurado ako bibihira ang nagbabati dito kasi mainit na nga ulo nila, mainit pa ang paligid nila.

2. Masikip pa rin ang mga hallways.

Bakit? Kasi po punong-puno ito ng mga files. Files are piled up at the hallways. Kung may kinasuhan ka ng attempted murder at dito kayo magkikita, hindi malayong mapatay ka dito dahil maliit lang at masikip ang tatakbuhan mo. Mahihirapan kang umiwas.

3. Amoy Luma.

Alam mong aabutin ng 50 years ang kaso mo sa amoy pa lang.

4. Bawal umihi dito.

Syempre, hindi nila binura ang nakasulat na bawal umihi dito sa second floor, sa may hagdanan, sa loob ng Hall of Justice. Bakit?! Bakit may umiihi sa hagdanan ng Hall of Justice? Bakit? Anong nangyari? Akala ko dati sa kalye lang umiihi ang Pinoy. Hindi pala.

5. Wala pa ring upuan.

Ang ngawit ayon sa aking personal experience causes stress and headaches that trigger my right membrane to react accordingly, sending the message to all my nerves regarding the ngawit that this human anatomy feels. This, in effect, causes one person to get mad easily, fuzzy, uneasy, impatient, thus, making him/ her not in the right frame of mind and position to decide on important matters, especially legal matters. Lagot na! Diyan nagsisimula ang unang kaguluhan at ‘di pagkakaunawaan.

6. Papunta sa Fiscal ay let’s gets physical.

Kung sa mga branch ay masikip. Ang opisina ng mga Fiscal ay designed sa paniniwala na mababait ang Pinoy at walang magkakakaso kahit kailan dahil sa liit ng entrada at pilahan ng mga opisina nito. Akala yata ng mga arkitekto ng QC Hall of Justice, never tataas ang crime rate ng Pilipinas. Magandang pananaw, Magandang adhikain, kaso ‘di naman nangyari kaya ngayon, may kaso kaso na let’s get physical talaga. “Sardinas” muna bago mo makaharap si Fiscal.

7. Nakakalito at nakakahilo.

Sa sobrang dami ng tao, nakakahilo at nakakalito kung saab ka pupunta. hahahaha! Bago ka makarating sa kaso mo, nalaman mo na ang kaso ng iba o nakalimutan mo ang kaso mo sa lito.

8. Iisa ang Elevator at ang bagal nito.

Mas mabilis pa kumuha ng lisensiya kesa ang andar ng elevator sa QC Hall of Justice.

Dahil hindi ko kinaya ang aking karanasan, meron akong mga mungkahi para mapaganda at maisaayos ang Hall of Justice. With my suggestions, sigurado akong marami ang magbabati.

1. Magpatugtog ng classical music: calming, soothing, and it clears one’s mind from destructive thoughts.

2. Put live plants inside the building for better air circulation.

3. Uso na po ang computer. Store all the files in a computer.

4. Add Bathrooms para ‘di sila umihi sa hagdanan.

5. Put some chairs para walang ngawit factor.

And so many more suggestions.

Kasi naman, marami pang hindi nagbago. Pero ako nagbago. Wala akong kaso. Ako ang nagsampa ng Kaso. Dito sa Hall of Justice, marami din akong natutunan. Iyan naman ay nabanggit ko na sa inyo dati. Hindi naman pala lahat ng tao dito ay mukhang pera. Merong mga totoong mababait at gustong magsilbi, magtrabaho ng maayos. Marami nga sila. Kaso ang mas tumatatak ay ang iilan na nagpapabulok sa sistema ng hustisya. Building pa lang ang bulok na bulok na. Naisip ko na nga na pwede na rin ito donate sa National Museum.

Marami na ang tumanda sa serbisyo dito. Kung sa itsura ay ‘di nabigyan ng tamang paghahalaga ang hustisya, sana sa mga taong nandito ay nabigyan sila ng patas na sahod.

Sa gitna ng bulok na building na ito ay ako.

Nakangiti. Nakatingala. Isang taong nakakulong sa pamaraan at sitwasyon ng paligid. At ang tanging masasabi ko lang ay: “Kung ang building na ito ay ayaw niyong ayusin, okay lang, building naman ito. Pero ang mga buhay ng tao na pumapasok at lumalabas sa gusaling ito, kailangan niyong ayusin dahil nakasalalay sa mga kamay ninyo ang buhay at kinabikasan ng nakararami dito. Isa na ako dun.”

Mabilisan lang na update:

Nagkita na kami ng ex-husband ko after more than three years. Wala akong naramdaman. Nakita ko pa nga yung babae niya sa labas. Wala akong naramdaman. Hindi ako galit. Hindi ako natutuwa. Wala akong nararamdaman. Hindi naman din ako naiinis. Pwede pala mangyari yun, ang mawala lang basta ang lahat ng nararamdaman mo para sa isang tao. Parang itong building na ito. Nandyan lang. Nakalumaan na. Nagpapasikip lang. Hindi mapaayos ng lubusan, kailangan kasi muna, linisin. Iyan ako at ang pinagdadaanan ko sa annulment case na ito sa Hall of Justiis.

heavensent143, maraming Salamat. Sana nga mahanap na naming pareho ang isa’t isa ni The One. Di naman ako nagmamadali na. Salamat din at na-appreciate mo ako sa mga panahon ng katabaan ko.

Geneskie, Candidly na po ang official title ng blog ko.

Hetchos, si Angeli Pangilinan po ang manager ko. Sabihan niyo rin ang stations na kunin ako. hehehehehe…

angel.26, yes. It’s part of our life being public property. Di naman ako nagagalit. Mas nakakatuwa naman na napapansin ako kaysa deadma ang tao. Ibig sabihin nun wala akong bearing sa kanila. Di na ako masyado tumatambay dahil wala akong time. Pero pag may chance, sa Esquinita or Kafebaresto ako nagpupunta.

pinktulips, carin, eym, skyscraper, I hate hypocrites!

malinesky, bitchy_rhan, mam, mabeth, and everybody else in the house: Thanks for your wonderful and inspiring comments. Nakakagana pong sumulat. Salamat naman at napatawa o napangiti ko kayo sa pagbabasa.

Sa mga nagtatanong kung ako si manager, akala niyo lang yun.

Purita, my son is 4years old. Meron siyang speech occupational therapy, ABA, and so forth.

Guisie. ‘di ka nag-iisa sa maling akala na iyan.

sugar n spice, hindi naman pasaway ang mga bata. Mababait naman sila. Nagkataon lang na bata lang talaga sila. Ganun, eh.

Suzette, heto ang parang city hall experience ko. Second encounter ko naman.

Siomai, tama ka. Puyat yung driver ko nung nabangga kami. Tsk! Kaya di rin ako nagalit kasi puyat din ako. Nakakatamad magalit.

AJ Reyes, bonggang-bongga kong na-appreciate ang comments mo. Nakakataba ng puso at kaluluwa.

sanCnukob, meron akong invitation to do a concert there sa Kuwait. Pero sa December 16, sa Hong Kong kami pupunta ni Eugene Domingo.

Doubledutch, gusto ko talaga ma-experience iyang panagbenga festival ng Baguio.

Sa lahat ng galit kay blonde_skinny_bitch at kay blonde_skinny_bitch: mukhang mabait naman siya, malakas lang ang arrive. Steady lang mga repapips. Wag na po nating gawing tayo pa ang maging source ng stress siya. At ikaw naman mismo, wag naman po masyadong pala-sagot. Happy-happy lang tayo. Ako ang na-stress sa inyo. Ako na ang nagso-sorry para sa isa’t isa at nakakapagod magbasa ng comments ng mga nag-aaway. Ay…Oo nga pala, according to the advice of majority, di na kita papansinin, kaya erase-erase ang lahat ng sinabi ko. hehehehehe…

103 Comments

Comment by marjorie panopio

December 2, 2007 @ 2:15 am

hey candy! i’m your fan from houston, tx. o di ba international ang dating mo? sobrang intelligent mo talaga. visit mo naman kami dito sa houston, tx. by the way, di ba ikaw yong kaibigan ni harlene bautista sa movie “dito sa pitong gatang”? favorite movie ko yon dahil lolo ng hubby ko and kumanta ng theme song ng movie. keep up the good work. may sense ang mga topics mo sa blog mo. advanced merry christmas sa yo. tsaka na lang ang chrsitmas gift mo pag-uwi ko sa pinas. take care!

Comment by j panopio

December 2, 2007 @ 2:21 am

hi candy! i’m your fan from houston, texas. visit mo naman kami dito. ang galing mo talaga. by the way, di ba friend ka ni harlene bautista sa movie na “pitong gatang”? favotite movie ko yon dahil lolo ng husband ko ang kumanta ng theme song. you’re very intelligent and super talented ka talaga. ang hirap magpatawa kaysa magpa-iyak. advanced merry christmas. i’ll let you know kung kelan uwi ko para mabigay ko gift ko sa yo. just tell me what you want.

Comment by hollywoodpinoy_13

December 2, 2007 @ 2:46 am

haaaayyy… PILIPINAS, kelan ka uunlad??? di kana tulad ng dati.. namimiss ko na ang dating Pilipinas..

anyway,, hi Candy! si Blonde_skinny_bitch ay suki sa lahat ng blogs dito.. hindi ko alam kung bakit nagtitiis sya sa mga blogs dito para lang ipagsigawan sa mundo na she’s a bitch.. or whatever the hell she is. hahaha.. she’s funny but somehow too straight forward and irritating. (hi blonde_skinny_bitch!)

sana may reunion kayo ng ka-Tropang Trumpo mo!!!! like movie. i really love u as a commediene, ur one of the few that i really look up to.

GodBless to u and ur kiddo…

Comment by rhei

December 2, 2007 @ 2:46 am

(agree) huwag na pansinin pero isang hirit pa niya sa’yo hamunin na lang nya ako hehe… kahit ako;y isang propesyonal hahaha papatulan ko siya…

Comment by heartstrings

December 2, 2007 @ 3:58 am

candy,
nakakatuwa ka talaga. galing mo pang-artista. napanood kita sa “walang kapalit.” Galing mo!
oo nga sana nga magkaroon kayo ng reunion yung “tropang trumpo.”
honestly, big fan ako ni carmina v. and since friends kayo, like ko rin ikaw. napanood ko yung bday special nya sa “SiS.” Kaso di ko natapos, di ko tuloy narinig yung bday message mo for her after nung song nyo with gelli and aiko. cute pati ng kambal nya! =)
Nga pala, i’m from houston, tx din. So pag-uwi ko kita kits tayo..manonood ako ng “SiS.”=)
More power to you.

Comment by Blonde_skinny_bitch

December 2, 2007 @ 4:57 am

…hmmm ….I immediately suspect you’re very new in Blogging! you should research on the world wide web about the “Power of Negative Blogging” …it will help you survive in Blogosphere! John Sweet just turned Pro! imagine close to year at PEP, he broke the all time PEP record! btw cheers queers! :)

…FYI the rest of the civilized world have been Blogging since the Internet started! Blonde skinny bitch about 10 years all around the globe! goodluck Candy shuuuugaaa! :)

…btw your new entry reminds me John Sweets blogging style! :(

Comment by belgianmilk

December 2, 2007 @ 5:40 am

Comment by Blonde_skinny_bitch

December 2, 2007 @ 4:57 am

…hmmm ….I immediately suspect you’re very new in Blogging! you should research on the world wide web about the “Power of Negative Blogging” …it will help you survive in Blogosphere! John Sweet just turned Pro! imagine close to year at PEP, he broke the all time PEP record! btw cheers queers!

…FYI the rest of the civilized world have been Blogging since the Internet started! Blonde skinny bitch about 10 years all around the globe! goodluck Candy shuuuugaaa!

…btw your new entry reminds me John Sweets blogging style!

———————————-
Blonde, there are no rules strictly for blogging. It’s a personal journal.. not a newspaper

You create your own world, ur own “blogosphere”..

Comment by pink_tulips

December 2, 2007 @ 6:23 am

Hello Candy,
Kumusta ka na?

Sana mabasa ng mga taga hall of justice or sinu man ang namamahala duon para maka pag inspection sila at magawan ng solusyon to some of your observation, lalo ang lack of rest room na yan.. huh!!!

Comment by notie

December 2, 2007 @ 7:57 am

hello uli,Candy!
i had a strong sense of deja vu as i read your entry…parang nabasa ko na talaga s’ya,but i don’t mean na kinopya mo lang s’ya somewhere,huh.the way you deliver it and the words…’yung mga lines like “BAWAL UMIHI”(sa hagdanan…heehee!),”mainit na nga ulo mo lalo pang iinit dahil sa init at sikip ng mga hallways”,etc…parang nabasa ko na talaga s’ya.na-weirdo-han talaga ako!it’s been a while since i last had a sense of deja vu…and it’s the first time na na-experince ko ‘to sa cyberspace.

i enjoyed your entry/blog as usual…h’wag na lang talaga pansinin ‘yung mga taong sobra talagang papansin na panay ang gawa ng eksena like i-compare daw ba ang ang pagba-blog mo kay John!(aaaarrgghhh!!!nag-react na naman ako!!!)

nwei…i’ve been living abroad for quite a long time now at natural lang na ma-miss ko ang Pinas.pero pag pauwi usually mixed-emotions ako.s’yempre masaya,pero hindi pa man eh nakaka-frustrate na pag naiisip mo ‘yung “sistema” d’yan sa atin.sa airport pa lang makukunsumi ka na!hindi mo tuloy maiwasang mag-compare na;”bakit dito,ganito…bakit sa Pinas,gano’n?”in a way nakakalungkot and i keep hoping and wishing na sana dumating na ‘yung time na mag-improve na rin ang kalakaran d’yan sa atin.but with what happened the last time in Makati,parang ang layu-layo n’ya pang mangyari…

Comment by Lorie

December 2, 2007 @ 9:52 am

Hi candy! I’m working in Chicago. naaaliw ako sa mga blogs mo.Parang nasa harapan lang kita at kinukwentuhan mo ako. Alam mo in favor ako na dapat ma-legalize and divorce sa atin, or kung imposible naman sana man lang mapabilis ang pag-process ng annulment…like 6 months lang tapos na. I mean,not all unions will make it to the end. Ang daming sad sa isang relationship pero stay pa rin sila for the sake of mga kids daw. The kids will grow up and leave you eventually,di ba? Kung di nagwo-work at di na happy why stay together? Dahil kasal kayo or nagsasama ng 10,15 years? Come on,love fades and a person will love again so why force it di ba? Life is too short to be sad all the time…So,good for you Candy to file for an annulment. Not that I’m happy that your marriage didn’t work…I’m sure you did your best to make it work but sometimes people change,feelings change…o di ba nga sabi mo wala ka ng naramdaman ng makita mo siya? You owe it to yourself to be happy.

Comment by eym

December 2, 2007 @ 9:54 am

Hi, Ms Candy!! Anung new movie mo now?sna show k nman d2 sa AU…goodluck sa career sna mdmi kpa mpsaya s blog mo….tnx a lot..

Comment by chnlsevenuno

December 2, 2007 @ 10:08 am

wow!!! enjoy talga ako sa BLOg mo.. suuuper kulit mo pala!!! MORE POWER TO YOU!!

MARIAN RIVERA este MARIMAR #1.

Comment by antonio

December 2, 2007 @ 10:14 am

d ba kaibigan mo c aiko!bakit d mo idirekta sa kanya1ng may mabalitaan nmn akong nagawa nya!

Comment by julia_25

December 2, 2007 @ 10:29 am

good for you! nangyayari talaga na you won’t feel anything anymore. i think it means that you’ve moved on.

Comment by texanpinay

December 2, 2007 @ 10:44 am

hi candy,
hope you are doing okay. very ironic but i enjoyed this blog entry. not because i don’t enjoy your blog (i do) but because how you describe the hall of justice. it is very funny. lalo na yung bawal umihi sign na nasa may hagdan. that is freakin hilarious. it reminds me of my hubby when he first visited the Philippines. nakita nya may guy na umiihi sa harap ng poste in broad daylight in the middle of a public place. na shock talaga si hubby. i was not sure if i wanted to laugh or be embarrased. on the other hand, tama decision mo na idedma na lang mga negative comments about your blog ang your blogging style. the important thing is people, like me and other pepsters,
like it and keep on reading it. inggit lang siguro sila kase ikaw me blog na binabasa at pinapasin ng
marami, sila wala hahaha.
hala, nagiging mean na ako hahaha…
tanong lang, ano na ba status ng annulment case nyo ni ex-hubby?
not sure if you can disclose any details about it.
its okay if you can’t. curious lang po.
i’ll be looking forward to your next blog entry.
more power to your career.
God bless you and your son.

Comment by rizagaye

December 2, 2007 @ 11:40 am

oo miss candy i think i read this blog before…at ikaw din yung sumulat i just can’t remember where i read it.

Comment by cecile

December 2, 2007 @ 11:41 am

hi candy i luv your blog together with sweet john lapus and zsa zsa pare pareho kong binabasa ang blog ninyong 3 na update pa ako sa building ng hall of justice dami namang lumang building sa atin eh, about your 4 yr old son bakit sya may speech occupational theraphy ano ba yon? hopefully you find a good guy your still young pa naman im a yr. older than you, happily married with 2 sons aged, 3 yrs, and 4 month old, ngayon pa lang babatiin na kita ng masaganang pasko at manigong bagong taon, mas masaya pasko sa pinas d2 sa canada boring till your next blog luv cecile

Comment by yvetrn

December 2, 2007 @ 12:14 pm

hi candy..i really like reading your blog here..naalis ang pagod ko..keep up the good work..ur a nice person and everytime u’re a guest in the shows that i watch here in gma pinoy tv..u put a smile on my face…

Comment by chnlsevenuno

December 2, 2007 @ 12:42 pm

I LIKE your blog ALot!!! MORE POwer to you!!!! Keep on blogging ha!!!!!!!!!!!

GO MARIAN RIVERA!!!!!!!!suuper galing mo talaga!!

Comment by Pnayilonga

December 2, 2007 @ 1:01 pm

HI Candy! I love ur attitude specially when your reaction when you see your Ex and then yung babae nya. Kung ako yun ewan nalang hahaha siguro ipagbubuhol ko cla specially after what he has done to you.
Question, does he give child support? spend time w/ his son?
I really like you sa Princess Sarah!

Comment by nyah133

December 2, 2007 @ 1:12 pm

Hi Candy!!

Love your blog today. Srap basahin ng mga blogs dito.Makes us, ofws, feel closer to the Philippines. Sna nga may mkabasa nyan blog mo n taga government.

About your ex, maedyo pareho tayo ng experience. D ko p sya ulit nkikita pero annulled n kmi and im sure pag nagkita kmi e wla rin ako mraramdaman khit ano s kanya.

Keep on posting Candy!! Gusto kita s Princess Sarah, once ko lang sya npanuod pero sobra n ko naaliw syo,hehehe!!! Keep up the good work girl!!

Comment by sugar_n_spice

December 2, 2007 @ 1:32 pm

nkakaloka, natawa nnaman akong magisa.

sa kwento mo, naimagine ko yung place, naramdaman ko na parang nandon nga ako, pero instead na ma-stress ako, natawa pa ako. siguro kung mapuputa ako don, di na tlga ako ma-stress, instead mapapahalakhak siguro ako dahil maalala ko ang kwento mo.

ms.candy may pamangkin din akong 4y/o, nag teraphy din sya for 6months now, speach teraphy. kasi before the teraphy di pa sya nagsasalita. puro “aww” (pag nsasaktan) at “yaw” (kapag ayaw nya) lang nasasabi nya. at first medyo natakot nga ako dhil baka autistic, kya pina check up nmin, nirecomenda nga ang teraphy. kaso wla namn ako jan kaya di ko alam kung anong ngyari. yesterday was their last session. medyo nag improve nman kasi nasasabi na yung name ng mga relatives namin. dati kasi pag kailangan nya yun tao, hinihila lang tlga nya para mkuha nya yung attensyon.

Comment by sugar_n_spice

December 2, 2007 @ 1:34 pm

na remember ko din yung “dito sa pitong gatang” diba ikaw yung friend nga ni harlene na nagaddik. tapos umakyat ka sa tuktok ng building at type mong lumipad.

di ko lang matandaan kung natuloy ba yun?

Comment by justme22

December 2, 2007 @ 2:09 pm

hi candylicious,

siguro kahit napagod ka na ng kakatayo sa loob ng justice hindi pa rinn nawala ang pag ka candylicious mo. :) I will pray na matapos kaagad ang annulment mo para maka kuha kana ng bagong mag mamahal at iibig sayo ng tapat. In case wala andyan ang iyung mahal na mahal na anak .. diba .. satisfying na may anak.

Comment by sanCnukob

December 2, 2007 @ 3:58 pm

Huwaaaaa sa lahat ng tinambayan kong blog dito sa PEP, first tym lang na mapansin ang comment ko hehehe
*blush*

Hayss pero open naman kayong mag concert sa kuwait diba? Mostly kasi ng organizer ng mga concert dito eh kilala ng byutipul sis ko.. Sana nga makapunta kayo dito at dadalaw tlga ako sa titirhan mong Hotel since for sure dun kayo itutuloy sa hotel na kng san nagwowork ang sis ko… :D

Comment by turkish_coffee

December 2, 2007 @ 4:33 pm

hi notie. d nman yan deja vu kz iyan din mga lines ni candy sa mga interviews nya during the height of her case against her husband…

Comment by cel

December 2, 2007 @ 4:42 pm

Hey Candy,

Nice blog! I really like the way you write your blog, especially this one, may karakter, may dating, matalinghaga - it shows na tunay kang iskolar ng bayan. Hehehehe…

Korek ka Candy and lahat ng nagadvise dito na deadmahin na lang si Blonde. Sometimes the best way to retaliate to this type of people na papansin (not to mention superficial) is to ignore them completely as in deama.

Maybe one time Candy, you can write about how it’s like to be a single parent. I’m sure maramimg makakarelate. I admire people like you. My mom got separated to my dad when I was 7 but even when she struggled especially financially she still managed to raised us well with unconditional love, no bitterness nor hatred kahit sa dad ko who never supported us and for that I admire her the most.

Do you also read all our comments?

Take care Candy. Wish you more success in the future.

Love,
Cel

Comment by chuchay

December 2, 2007 @ 4:47 pm

I felt the same way when my former husband contacted me. I felt nothing. I feel blessed since I was able to survive through.

I like the way you describe the government office sa atin.It really express the sentiments of people who are “harassed” just by being there. Sabay pa ang mga “buwaya” na gustong humingi ng “under the table” money.

Sana you don’t feel bored updating your blog. Si Mo Twister kasi twice lang after that nawala na parang bula. He is good but I don’t know what happened why he stop updating his blog.

Di ba friend mo si Harlene Bautista? What happen to her? Sorry ala kasi ako sa Pilipinas, alang Filipino channel dito, alang contact sa showbiz news except thru PEP website. Is she still married with Romnick?

Comment by pep_talk

December 2, 2007 @ 6:23 pm

Sarap basahin ng mga entry mo.

Comment by gossiphungry

December 2, 2007 @ 8:15 pm

super! nagbabasa lang ng blog mo, para na kong baliw sa kakatawa.. feeling ko nag-peperform ka.. naiimagine ko itsura mo habang kinukwento mo to lahat.. alam mo yun, yung sinusulat mo, buhay na buhay sa isip ng nagbabasa.. hahahaha kitang kita ko ang Hall of Justiis sa mind ko… Im hoping and praying na huwag na makapunta dyan hehehehehe imagine may nakasulat na bawal umihi dito… hahaha I hope bigyan ng pansin ng gobyerno natin ang mga bagay na yan.. dito sa Japan, sasaludo ka sa mga government offices and services nila… mas mahusay pa ang government office kesa sa private… papangarapin mo talaga na sana ganito sa Pinas!!!! ang masaklap kasi, pwedeng pwede namang mangyari na maayos nila.. bakit hindi nila ginagawa… haaay!! super ang saya ng blog mo! parang govt service dito sa japan.. satisfying!!! yun ang feeling! luv it! :)

Comment by mitchie

December 2, 2007 @ 8:50 pm

hi candy…alam mo sobrang na22wa ako syo!!kc nman wenever i saw u on tv feeling ko tlgang wla kang arte s ktawan as in totoong tao tlga…alam mo nmna ang showbiz db?mga IMPOKRITA!!!!sorry for my word….
anyway,highwaysbi mo ngfile k ng annulment s ex hubby mo?how come na nakakaya ng iba ding ka2lad mo na magdecide ng hiwalay?to be honest .ako din naiiisip ko yan kya lng xempre very much in LOVE ako s hubby ko even my mga d magandang bgay kaming npagkkasunduan…en lagi kc nasaisip ko na ayoko ng wasak n pamilya…en naaawa nman dn ako s anak nmin…hayyy…minsan kla ntin ang taong pinakasalan ntin ang kasama mo for lyf,buhay nga nman…so gudluck en GOD BLESS

Comment by pretty chesca

December 2, 2007 @ 9:22 pm

hi ms.candy love the way u do ur blogs….nga pla..meron lng me question n super tagal na…d ko alam kng knino itatanong…brother mo b c sen.kiko pangilinan or how r u related ba?sana u get to answer my question ha….pls….ingats

Comment by AJ Reyes

December 2, 2007 @ 9:26 pm

Alam mo sobra ako natawa sa blog mo ito. Ang sarap ng pakiramdam ko tuloy.
Di mo naitatanong OFW ako and for 5 yrs na ito ang ginagawa ko sa buhay ko.
Pero sa totoo lang there is no place like home talaga. Kahit ganyan ang pinas sobra ko namimiss parin ang lugar at ang mga tao.
Salamat candy at napapasaya mo kami at nakakalimutan namin na nagiisa kami dito sa malayo.
You are such an inspiration. Natuwa ako nasama ako sa nagustuhan mo na nagcomment at nakakatuwa dahil lumabas ang pangalan ko ( pinagyabang ko nga sa mga kaibigan ko dito sa Qatar )
Good luck until next time

Comment by mel

December 2, 2007 @ 10:26 pm

hi ms candy,

kailan nga kaya magkakaroon ng pagbabago sa pilipinas…kahit na mga building luma na rin…

meron nga ganoong feeling bigla na lang nawawala ang hatred at iba pa…it only shows na you have moved on…good luck sa iyo at sa anak mo.

Comment by Blonde_skinny_bitch

December 2, 2007 @ 10:54 pm

…hmmm what freakin tabloid is he freakin talkin about??? Oh Candy shuuugaaa! do you uuuU cccChoob? coz here in the US of A, some Blogs are morphing with YouTube, started two years ago! its the next generation way of interacting, who knew? hahaha …we’re ssso way way way advance here, we even have online *** for those who wants a quickie without that messy emotional annulment, I mean attachment! Oops! and all legal mind you! hahaha :lol:

…my pet chihuahua “Bruno” who won last years Best in Show in Philly is on UChoob and popular in spanish speaking South America and of all places …Japan! Oops! hahaha :)

Comment by Madayag2007

December 3, 2007 @ 12:05 am

Hello, Candy! This is my first time here but I do enjoy reading your blog since it first appeared. What caught my special interest was that you mentioned your little boy taking occupational speech therapy. My going-on-five grandson used to do that until we decided to stop for certain reasons (btw, he’s progressing quite well). I’m reading a very good book, which may interest you: The Silent Child: Exploring the World of Children Who Do Not Speak by Laurent Danon-Boileau, translated from the French by Kevin Windle (Oxford University Press, 2001). The author works with kids 4-7 years old and uses a 3-pronged approach in his book: psychoanalysis, linguistics and cognitive science. It’s easy and enjoyable to read. He tells stories rather than lays heavy stuff on the reader. I bought my copy at National Book Store, Robinsons Galleria, Ortigas (P479).

Comment by mommy

December 3, 2007 @ 12:39 am

Hi candy, Stay strong. Kapal naman ng girl at sumama pa sa hearing ng annulment case. Hindi na talaga uso ang salitang delicadeza. Will keep on praying for you and your son.

Comment by Blonde_skinny_bitch

December 3, 2007 @ 12:44 am

…we know its too personal Candy dear, we sympatize! hmmm …BUTT! will you be receiving any alimony (all-his-money) and “special” child support (for the rest of your ex’s waking life!) on this messy emotional annulment? since you brought it up!!! Oops! might as well tell us “Candy-dates”, your Candy supporters! :)

…coz here in the US of A, OMG!!! there are ssso many punkass dead-beat-Dads who flee to neighboring States to escape jail terms and hmmm …castration! Oops! hahaha and when you saw his new victim, you didn’t say a word? ooooooh gurl! you are fierce! hahaha! :lol:

Comment by fasyonista

December 3, 2007 @ 1:02 am

hi Candy, i’m also from Houston TX, hope to see you in Houston soon. you’re one of the funniest in showbiz and i like watching the shows you’re in. i laughed so hard when you guested in Doc Aga, and you’re one of the reasons why i watch Princess Sarah.

goodlcuk and all the best to you Candy. sana madami pa ang projects mo with ABS-CBN.

Comment by fasyonista

December 3, 2007 @ 1:04 am

hi Candy, i’m also from Houston TX, hope to see you in Houston soon. you’re one of the funniest in showbiz and i like watching the shows you’re in. i laughed so hard when you guested in Doc Aga, and you’re one of the reasons why i watch Princess Sarah.

goodluck and all the best to you Candy. sana madami pa ang projects mo with ABS-CBN.

Comment by HOLLISTER

December 3, 2007 @ 1:23 am

Ayan, wala ng pumapansin sa’yo. YOU ARE NOW OFFICIALLY BEING IGNORED by Candidly’s readers.

Comment by payatot

December 3, 2007 @ 4:20 am

parang nakikinikinita ko na ang anyo “MO”…nasa madilim at malungkot na bahagi ng iyong selda, tumitipa gamit ang iyong mga pasmadong kamay. may ngisi ang iyong magaspang at makapal ng labi.
tumutuligsa sa mga ayon sa iyong simple at mapanuring salita ay mga dayuhan. punong puno ka ng pait, galit lalo pa, kalungkutan.
ang iyong puso ay puno ng alaala ng lumipas na magpahanggang sa mga oras na ito ay hinding hindi mo malilimot.
nauunawaan “KITA”.
masakit, pero darating ang panahon, makakalimot ka rin sa iyong mapait na nakalipas….

ma’am candy,

nakikiusap po ako sa inyong butihing kalooban.
unawain po natin ang ating isang kababayan na napagkaitan ng sapat na katinuan…tunay na hindi sakop ng kanyang pagiisip ang kanyang ginagawa.

salamat po.

gumagalang,

ginang Blank_iskinles_leech

%U(@#i&!!!&^ kang bata ka!’nganong pumarine ka na’t inintay pa tayo ni madam madonna. maglalaba ka pa ng mga kostyum niya!!! maderhamper!!!

Comment by payatot

December 3, 2007 @ 5:20 am

“….then why still hide inside your stinking rat hole? ooops! hehehe.”

hoy, mahadera ka! bayaran mo na raw un inutang mong speedo kay alam ano…
un bang gagamitin mo na kostyum sa iyong pag parada sa summer jan sa amerika?

haaay, feeling talaga!
aminin mo na kc na inggit ka kay sweet!

Comment by maraya

December 3, 2007 @ 9:33 am

hi notie, you probably felt a sense of deja vu because candy also wrote about the hall of justice some months ago published in the inquirer (?) if i am not mistaken. that was a feature article there (nagcomment pa nga ako). this might be a follow up writeup.

Comment by abscbnforlife

December 3, 2007 @ 10:15 am

hi ate candy,
ganda lagi blog mo laging may-aral…
sana po marinig ng mga tagacity hall yan..
sana rin po bigyan kau ng malaking project ng channel 2 kau nila eugene btw gaing nio po sa apat-dapat lalo na po u sobrang hirap ng role u patay na.. tawa at iyak po ako.. gud luck and god bless po.

Comment by alexis

December 3, 2007 @ 10:51 am

i saw you in Kay Susan Tayo…Laki na nga ng pinayat mo..pero ang pretty pa din ng mukha mo..may iba kasi na nagmumukahang old ang mukha pagpumapayat.lolz Godbless.

Comment by Madayag2007

December 3, 2007 @ 11:36 am

Hi, Candy! Ewan kung bakit hindi lumabas ang post ko kagabi. Uulitin ko na lang. Dahil binanggit mo sa isang PEPster na kumukuha ng speech therapy ang anak mo, gusto kong ipaalam sa ‘yo ang librong The Silent Child: Exploring the World of Children Who Do Not Speak (2001) ni Laurent Danon-Boileau. Baka magustuhan mo kasi mga kuwento ito ng 4-7 year-olds na kliyente niya. Very enlightening. (Nabili ko sa National Book Store @P479 lang.)

Comment by JayR

December 3, 2007 @ 11:40 am

hahaha. i enjoyed reading this entry…keep up the good work candy… your blog now will be my favorite here at PEP…

Comment by nov_8

December 3, 2007 @ 12:32 pm

Pareho pala tayo… kaya lang yun una, 20 years ago pa, sa las pinas(totoo yun observation mo, parang bodega, sa kalumaan pwedeng location shooting ng horror movie) ngayon lang ako nakaapak ulit, sa laguna… gaya mo, nagsampa rin ng kaso.

Di ko alam na pag may nahuli kang magnanakaw, obligado kang magsampa ng kaso… The fact na hindi ko lang natrap nong una silang nagnakaw kasi mabilis pala silang tumakbo… hehehe!
Second time around, buti nandoon ang kapatid ko, kaya natrap na namin sila(parehong 19 years old)… Bugbog sarado sigurado yun kung wala lang ang nanay kong pakialamera… hahaha!
Tumawag ng barranggay… pagdating ng mga tanod, ako na raw ang magbayad ng pamasahe, papuntang baranggay hall, kasi sira yun service nila.
Pagdating doon… ang haba ng diskusyon, hanggang tinuro nila kung saan binibenta yun mga nakaw nila(anti-fencing), sabat nung isang kagawad “Hoy, wag kang nagtuturo, baka di mo kilala yun mga taong yun, mga mababait at kilalang tao yun dito.” habang yun isang kagawad na babae ay tahimik lang dahil ang manugang naman nung ang buena mano kong nahuli nagnakaw dati.
After mablotter, dinala na kami sa presinto, buti naman may patrol car, AKALA KO, mamamasahe na naman kami papunta sa presinto… hehehe!
Pagdating doon ang daming seremonya, kesyo kailangan daw pa medical bago ipasok… tumawag at pinadala yun mga celphone ng mga magnanakaw sa baranggay tanod sa presinto at pinaghintay din sila… Ito na ang mga parinig. “Gabi na po, wala pa po kaming tulog, di pa po kami naghahapunan” sabi ng baranggay tanod na may service na. “di bale nandyan naman si ako para magpameryenda sa kanila” sabi ni pulis na kumikintab ang singsing at kuwintas. Buti na lang may sukli pa doon sa pinamashe kong una, kaya binigay ko na sa mga barranggay tanod.
Inatake na ng gutom ang kapatid ko at nagpapaalam na kakain. Sabi nung pulis na pabiro kuno “aba eh, pabalot ka naman dyan”.
Nung bumalik at walang pabalot na dala, nakantiyawan pa kami kaya nung magpaalam kami sabi ko “Boss, saka na po yun pameryenda, wala ho akong dalang pera eh”
Humirit si pulis “Babalik pa naman kayo bukas, para magfile ng demanda sa fiscal, hanggang alas 8 am ang duty ko bukas” Ngeeeeeeeeeeee! ANG KAPAL!!!!!!!!
From the scene of the crime to baranggay hall to police station, AKALAIN MO! DI PA PALA AKO NAGSASAMPA NG KASO, puros blotter pa lang pala yun.
Remind you, yun nahuli kong magnanakaw, panghapon pa lang, wala yun grupo ng pang umaga, pangtanghali, panggabi at pang madalingaraw… Ewan ko ba, kung bakit lalong dumami ang Magnanakaw magmula ng bigyan ng pabahay at itapon ni Vice President Noli de castro sa Laguna ang mga iskwater sa Maynila. Doon galing yun mga nahuli namin… at dayo lang sa lugar namin.
Come to think of it, Di na ako magtataka nang sabihin ng Gobyerno na bumaba ang crime rate, dahil sa 100 krimen, masuwerte na kung may isang magrereklamo. Di na rin ako nagtataka ng sabihin ng gobyerno na tumaas ang PISO kontra dolyar, kahit na ang palitan last year ng dollar ay 55 at ngayon ay 43 samantala ang euro ay 62 dati at ngayon ay 63… Piso ba ang tumataas o ang dollar lang ang bumababa.
Di na rin ako nagtataka kung anong baranggay at police station meron tayo, dahil sinasalamin lang nito kung anong gobyerno mayron tayo.
To be continued sa pagsampa ng reklamo kinabukasan….

Comment by rahma_poy

December 3, 2007 @ 1:24 pm

great blog!

nakakatawa na nakakainis kasi nakikita ang realidad sa PIlipinas.hindi lang QC hall of Justice ang ganyan ang kalagayan.makikita mo nga rin sa interview ni Sec. Raul Gonzales ang snatmabak na pers na for sure mga kaso yun na hindi pa yata nareresolve.sana may makabasa sa blog mo na taga DOJ.para naman marealize nila na kelangan na ng pagbabago sa sistema..

meron talaga papansin dito.nakakatawa naman.feeling imported..Pamati gid!nyahahaha!!

looking forward for more great entries from you..
you’re style is very much different from Sweet.nagkataon lang pareho kayong komedyante kaya siguro akala ng low-iqd-earthling jan na pareho kayo ng style..heheheh(peace)

Comment by paminchever

December 3, 2007 @ 1:43 pm

candy-candy! u have a nice blogs! ask ko lang super close ba kayo ni eugene super idol ko kasi ang lola mo nakakaloka sya mag bitaw ng joke i swear… blog ka naman ng mga funny moments nyo ni eugene… :)

Comment by Qtpnay08

December 3, 2007 @ 2:15 pm

Hi Candy, I see you every now and then sa TFC. You are such a witty lady and a superb actress. Sana mapanood ka pa namin sa mga shows ng TFC either sa TV or dito sa Southern California. Good luck to your career and God bless. Kudos!

Comment by ambishosa

December 3, 2007 @ 2:23 pm

@sanCnukob
feeling naman talaga eh noh? nyahahaha..mis u!

candy, parang nabasa ko na toh samwer, awtder…nasabi mo na ata toh sa interview mo or i dunno…basta basta alam ko nabasa ko na toh eh, heheh!! nagpa-annul ka na pala ng kasal nyo, hmm? sabi ng nanay ko mas mahal daw ang makipaghiwalay, kesa magpakasal..totoo ba? hehehe

Comment by Rhon Morgan

December 3, 2007 @ 2:53 pm

HI candy… okay yung blog mo. suggestion po put some sense of humor in there… para mas kwela ang blog. un lang.

Comment by Suzette

December 3, 2007 @ 3:53 pm

hello again candy!!!

thank you sa city hall experience part 2.. sobra akong natawa talaga….this is even better than part 1….

kaya lang parang naging madrama ang last part tungkol sa strange husband mo…
naalala ko tuloy nung nag guest ka sa isang talk show .tinanong ka kung pano kayo ng meet ng asawa mo. According to you, Hindi niya alam na ikaw ay isang artista. (na si candy pangilinan ay isang artista..) kasi sabi mo di naman siya nanonood ng tv! Naniwala ka naman?.. hehehehe. mga lalaki talga, mga sinungaling. saka, i find it rude na kelangan niya pang isama ang babae niya pag nakikipag kita siya sayo!…kainis siya ah!..

Ako pa tuloy ang nagmukhang bitter.. hehehehe..

Anyway… ganda talaga ng blog mo… nakakawala ng stress..

keep it up!

Nga pala, ang galing mo daw sa princess sarah sabi sa akin ni Darlyn officemate ko…

Best regards sayo.. from all of us here in DOHA, QATAR..

God Bless..

Comment by sugar_n_spice

December 3, 2007 @ 4:14 pm

@ Rhon Morgan

sobra ka nman…

well,,, ako ntawa na.
i must admit medyo mababaw lang ako.
pero as you can see, mdami ding pepster na natawa na rin.

kung di kpa natawa, may problema nga.
and i think di sa blog yun.

baka nman masyado kang seryoso.
or may problema kaya.
or masyado kang malamin.
nku, mahirap yan.
kumapit kang mabuti at baka malunod ka.

Comment by nov_8

December 3, 2007 @ 4:52 pm

Continuation:
Kinabukasan, maaga akong umalis ng bahay kasama nanay ko, para siya ang humarap sa mga MAKAKAPAL na magpaparinig pa. Nakakastress yun huh!
Buti na lang, matraffic kaya di ko na inabutan yun pulis. Ibang pulis na ang kasama namin nagguide ng pagsampa ng kaso, inutusan ako na ixerox copy ko raw yun type written na statement ko kagabi(kung may kilala raw ako o kaya nagpameryenda, tiyak na 2 kopya na kaagad ang ginawa nung pulis).
Namputsa talaga, nagmeryenda yun xerox man ng police station sa itaas, kaya naghanap pa ako sa labas…
Punta na kami sa munisipyo. pa-Xerox daw ng 9 na kopya yun 10 papel at magbigay ng picture ng ninakaw, takbo na naman ako, paprint ng litrato sa computer shop… paxerox na naman, nag-away pa kami ng nanay ko sa pagassort nung mga pinaxerox para pagbalik, ayos na.
Pagbalik, mali daw yun picture, dapat daw sa photoshop at hindi sa computer shop printer… buti dala ko yun memory, kaya napaprint ko sa photoshop (imagine yun tindi ng init sa labas from 9 to 11 am para lang sa picture and xerox). Pagdating doon, dapat daw 2 copy ang picture (Anak talaga ng teteng! Sabi mo picture, hindi mo sinabing 2 kopya)BUTI na lang nakompleto in time bago dumating yun fiscal. Tulad mo, may bonding moment na rin kami nung mga ibang kasabayan kung nagdedemanda.. yun isa, puta na naholdap na kung siko-sikohin lang ng pulis akala mo close sila… Buti na lang di ako puta, kung AKO, kinuha ko yun baril at pinukpok ko sa ulo nung pulis. Kahit puta yun, walang karapatan yun pulis na siko-sikohin lang noh!
Eto pa, MAY FILING FEE PALA NA P150.
OH MY GOLLY! NANAKAWAN NA AKO AT SA KAGUSTUHAN KONG WALA NG MAPERWISYO IBA yun mga magnanakaw, nasayang ang 2 araw ko at di nakapagtrabaho, nagastosan ng xerox, print, photocopy, meryenda, hapunan, tanghalian, pamasahe at tindi ng init na sakripisyo, MAY UTANG PA AKONG PAMERYENDA SA PULIS…
Kinabukasan, tinawagan ko yun pulis at humingi ng pasensya dahil hindi ko siya inabutan, wala akong nadalang meryenda at the same time nagtanong na rin… “ngayon ko lang nabasa na iba yun statement ko kagabi sa ginawa ninyo.” sagot nung pulis “ok lang yun, pwede mo naman padala ngayon” ANG KAPAL TALAGA!!!
“di ho ako makakapunta diyan, naghighhigh blood ang nanay ko, dadalhin ko nga sa clinic, saka na lang ho, concern lang ako doon sa bagong statement na nakusulat” sagot ng pulis “binago ko talaga dahil hindi masasama yun isa, kung hindi natin palalabasin na nagpasahan sila” sabi ko “baka ho magkaroon ng problema pagdating ng oras” sagot “Madali na yun, magkasama naman talaga sila, mahirap lang ito mga bata at walang magaling na abugado na makukuha sila, ang importante magkasama sila, mahirap na pag nakawala pa yun isa.
Ganon pala yun??? Sinong nagsabi na pantay ang lahat sa hustisiya??? Pupukpukin ko ng baril sa ulo ng matauhan!
May continuation pa po!

Comment by deanslister

December 3, 2007 @ 4:53 pm

Hi Candy, nakakaloka naman ang blog mo ngaun. Pero true ka talagah jan mare sa mga sinabi mo. Si skinnyblondebitch nakakapagtaka, kc american daw sya, pero nakakasagot sya sa mga comments sa kanya. Mas nakakalokah sya. Talagang gusto nya lang mang-okray, tama lang na wag ng pansinin.

Comment by nov_8

December 3, 2007 @ 5:39 pm

Ayoko ng ituloy yun last part ng kuwento ko, napansin ko, mas mahaba pa sa iyo, hehehe!
Baka, maraming mang-asar na mablogger na rin ako… hehehehe!
Pasensiya na, natiming kasi sa experience, kaya hot magkuwento.
Long story kung bakit inurong ko(anotherP350 fee sa pag-urong iba pa yun attorney’s fee), isa sa mga reason, kukuha pala ako ng abugado ko, bukod sa every hearing makikita ko yun pulis at barangay tanod as my witness… Di ko wish na pakainin sila every hearing at wag magtrabaho para maprevent ang susunod na bibiktimahin ng mga magnanakaw..Tama na yun one month nila experience sa loob ng kulungan, tutal wala pa naman silang record, mga bata pa at nakakaawa ang mga magulang nilang mahirap din sa dami ng anak…
Sorry ulit sa paggamit ng space mo, Candy!

P.S. … Inurong ko na! nagpunta pa sa bahay yun MAKAPAL NA PULIS AT NANGHIHINGI SA AREGLONG BINIGAY DAW SA AMIN. Iharap nila yun nagsabi na nagbigay sila ng perang areglo at inihampas ko nga yun mga binalik lang na ninakaw na damage na. In fairness, siguro sinabi na nagbigay sila sa amin kasi pati sila hinihingan nung pulis . At para matigil na rin sila, binigyan na lang ni nanay(na pakialemera) ng panmeryenda para di na kami kulitkulitin at sumbatan, sila daw ang naghirap sa pagtype ng mga statement sa kaso, binaypass daw namin sila etc… Magpakabundat kayong mga pulis na makakapal manghingi!!!

Comment by buzylady

December 3, 2007 @ 6:15 pm

at least natapos ka na sa isang chapter ng buhay mo at ngayon u are happy, wish ko lang u find the right guy that will going to love & care not only u but also your baby.alam mas masuwerte ka pa rin at least ikaw diyan may kaso kami ng husband ko dto nagkakaso sa middle east at alam mo ba same thing dito katulad din ng munisipyo sa atin at isa pa ang problema namin dito hindi sila marunong magsalita ng english.nung nangyari sa amin na nakulong ang husband ko alam mo di ko alam ang gagawin ko pero mabait talaga lang ang DIYOS hindi niya ako pinabayaan pati na husband ko nakalabas din siya pero it took 1 month siya sa jail
at sa deportation pa siya.gusto ko lang paalam sa inyo na lahat ng nangyayari sa buhay natin ay may dahilan kaya minsan may trial sa buhay natin akala
di na nating kayang lampasan,hindi po totoo yon ano mang hirap at sakit kaya natin yan basta malakas ang paniniwala mo sa maykapal at for sure lahat ng problema dumating at darating ay makakayanan mo…

Comment by fayatollah_918

December 3, 2007 @ 7:16 pm

Para sa lhat…. WAG PANSININ ANG PAPAM-PAM N SKINNY BITCH!!!! ka-irita na yan ha.. di ba peding i-blocked n yan!!! yan ang REAL LIFE TESTIMONY NA TAONG WALANG NI ISANG NAGMAMAHALL. puro hatred ang nasa katawan e.. gusto mo b ng away, punta ka dito s U.A.E. ng matadtad k ng buhay!!!!..

Candy, please dont ever mind her again.. di mo tlga maiiwasan na makalikha si LORD ng MORON n tao… he!he!.. i salute you… ang galing mo..

Comment by iwant2gohome

December 3, 2007 @ 8:50 pm

this is the first time na nabasa ko ang blog mo, natawa talaga ako. sana yung mga nmamahala sa QC eh nagbabasi rin nitong artilce mo para naman matauhan sila. dati rati yung blog ni sweet lang ang inaabangan ko pero ngaun 2 n kayong aabangan ko. para kang si marimar di nakakasawa. at sana sa pagbalik mo hall of justiis ng qc eh makaramdam k nmn ng ginhawa. tungkol sa umiihi sa hagdan… first time ko makarinig ng ganun kwento, muntik na tuloy ako mahulog sa kinauupan ko. sana marami ang kagaya mo marunong maglagay ng ngiti sa aming mga labi… more power!

Comment by Blonde_skinny_bitch

December 3, 2007 @ 11:19 pm

…didya know that toddlers with speech deficiency in early infancy is a sure sign of irriversible Autism! …like Disney’s Peter Pan, the boy who wouldn’t grow up! hmmm quick e-mail info@babybumblebee.com or 1-888-984-5500 for help or check the Son-Rise Program website, these might help you cope, Candy! I mean there are a lot of sources out there on www which I’m “totally-clueless-but-legally-blonde” if you have access to! support groups, programs, teaching tools, schools …everything free info! :)
…most will grow up gifted in Music, buy him/her a musical instrument, a small piano, the only means they can connect with the real world and you! ….ssso unfortunate Candy, anyway our thoughts with you! :)

Comment by ysmael mendoza

December 4, 2007 @ 12:12 am

naalala ko lang yung line mo sa “walang kapalit”

– “kahit sa patintero, malungkot pag walang patotot.”

sana maging title yan sa isa mong blog entry. :)

Comment by solovecandy

December 4, 2007 @ 9:24 am

Hi Candy, nakaktuwa ka. parang sarap mo maging friend. If ever mapadaan ka nman dito sa Melbourne,Aus magmeet tayo, treat kita, kailangan ko ng kausap mga taong katulad mo. At ng mabuhaybuhayan nman ako dito, sobrang lungkot. At ikaw Blonde_Skinny_Bitch tantanan na please. Di ka nakakatuwa, maghanap ka ng ibang site na pwede kang magmaganda, wala kaming panahon sa’yo. You are pathetic.

Comment by mslavender

December 4, 2007 @ 9:28 am

hi,ms.candy.hope di ka mao-offend pero parang nabasa ko na ang content ng blog mo ngayon sa isang broadsheet column na kayo din ang sumulat. Wala naman g problema since ikaw rin ang writer kaya lang parang di na bago. I really love reading your blog, kasi nga, sabi ng iba, nakakawala ng stress. by the way, nung andiyan pa ko sa Pinas, i remember, may candy business ka. Nakikita ko yung kiosk mo sa mga malls e. Kamusta na ang negosyo?

Comment by gleng_gleng

December 4, 2007 @ 9:33 am

Candy, grabe ang gleng gleng mo, nakakatuwa ka ng sobrang sobra. Sana nman kung mapadaan ka dito sa Melbourne, Aus ay mag meet tayo, coffee lang, treat kita, kailangan ko ng kausap ng taong katulad mo at nang mabuhayan nman ako ng loob, sobrang lungkot dito.
Anyways, keep it up.
At you Blonde_Skinny_Bitch, tangtanan na please di na nakakatuwa. Maghanap ka ng ibang site na magugulo mo dahil hindi ka bagay dito. Inarte!!!!!

Comment by tirit30

December 4, 2007 @ 11:17 am

oh my god..ndi ako makapniwala n bangitin p b nmn ni blonde_skinny_bitch n “special” child support…

tao k b, h bitch! if u dont enjoy reading this blog.. wg k n mag react kc super nakaka imbeyerna k! parng wala kng feelings……. meron pla puro kasamaan nga lang!nakakagigil k! sobra!

Comment by Caddy

December 4, 2007 @ 3:59 pm

hi candy,

i love reading ur blogs, full of Fun and learnings..i hope i can see you in person

Comment by cadd6=y

December 4, 2007 @ 4:02 pm

hi candy,

i love reading ur blogs, full of Fun and learnings..i hope i can see you in person =)

Comment by Bruno D' Dog Awwww

December 4, 2007 @ 4:17 pm

Dream on blonde-skinny-bitch. Or is it Dumb-shitty-ho? Ooops! Duh! WUT evaH!!

Live your fantasy. I’d bet my tiny dick that you live in Sampaloc, in an equally tiny shack ALONG D’ RILES! WHoaaaa!!! Hollywood Hills? Where exactly? Hmmmmm. Ooops? DUH!!!!

My unsolicited advice to you:

1. Tang na loob, mag aral ka muna ng grammar bago ka mamintas ng ingles ng iba. Wala kang pinag iba sa karamihan dito.
2. Spelling mo tingnan mo ineng. Talo ka pa ng grade two kong pamangkin. Konsultahin mo muna si Lindsay ha. Im sure kilala mo sya. Kada kayo diba?? Pareho kayo e. Waahahahahaha.
3. Wag kang mag french kung di ka marunong.
4. Kung di mo kayang magsulat ng isang kumpletong english sentence, tagalugin mo na lang. Wag mong daanin sa OOppps at DuH. Kairita.
5. Wag kang maglecture about what you know. If you indeed know a lot of things, pwede mong i-share mo ng maayos. Don’t shove it up our throats na kala mo kegaling galing mo. Kahit naman sino pag na force feed masusuka. Kaya ang daming nasusuka sa yo e.
6. Check your information dahil nahahalata kang nagiimbento lang. I search mo muna sa WWW. Punta ka sa wikipedia, sa dictionary, mga librong sinasabing mong binabasa mo. Or better yet call Paris or Britney.
7. Hwag mo kaming lecturan sa UUUUChooob. Matagal na naming alam yan. Sa karamihan, video blog ang tawag sa sinasabi mong morhping ng blog sa uuuuchooob. Tagal na yan neng. Hindi lang sa you tube pwede yan. Mrami pang iba sites. Check mo. Try mo.
8. Mag create ka ng blog mo. Punta kmi dun. bisitahin ka namin at ng makita kung anong ibubuga mo. Ano kaya style mo? Ang tanong may style ka ba???

Yun lang.

LOLZ

Comment by Blonde_skinny_bitch

December 4, 2007 @ 9:17 pm

…hmmm Yo Bruno! doggie! does the Philippines have a robust space program to build satellites to allow broad band, or direct to home, video in demand, free library internet access, technology etc etc??? may I ask! now seriously, If you are stating a Fact! :)

…coz it seems like what Candy mentioned (de facto), if your Hall of Justice is ssso delapidated or detoriated (I could imagine Candy’s frustrations) which protects your Basic Freedoms! ….then i really really really wonder if theres some truth in your pundit, Bruno! tsk tsk tsk :(

…btw Candy’s Blog is ssso Global and not strictly Local, if you haven’t noticed! tsk tsk tsk …as far as my American dream …just to let you know everyone are entitled to it only “IF” (if is a good word) …YOU HAVE THE COURAGE!!!! Oh well! Interesting discussion brings out the bitch in me! hahaha! :)

…You can come to Hollywood too, where real dreams do come true! honest! :)

…NOT! hahaha! :)

Comment by nikoi

December 5, 2007 @ 2:49 am

The funny thing is…whay are you still visiting this blog? Blonde_skinny_bitch

Comment by wannabe ka ba

December 5, 2007 @ 3:27 am

jusko…ngaion lang ako nakakita ang taong ganyan ka wanna be…

at please lang, walang damayan ng anak.. candy is just sharing her thoughts and experiences. bakit pati speech problem ng anak nya e nadamay sa comment mo?

wag ganun! kung gusto mong mag comment, ayusin mo.
di na nga maayos english mo e. para ka pang timang. naiimagine ko hitsura mo. pwede ka sigurong commedianne, nakakatawa ka kasi, pati grammar mo. umayos ka nga

Comment by copymilyuck

December 5, 2007 @ 6:07 am

Hi Candy,

This is my first time reading and commenting on your blog. Impressed ako sa malawak mong pag-iisip.

First, yung story mo about the Hall of Justice. Parang description ko ng most of the system and procedures sa Pilipinas (nakatira ako sa States for almost 2 decades now). Isa sa major reasons yan kung bakit hindi umaasenso ang Pilipinas. Enough said.

Second, yung ex-husband mo. Congratulations! I’m happy to hear na nakapag-move on ka na. Hindi ko alam ang pinagdaanan mo, pero knowing may kabit ang asawa mo, I can imagine. The fact na wala ka nang nararamdaman, that’s major progress. I’m glad na-realize mo na hindi siya mahalaga. I love your comment na para siyang hall of justice, walang halaga, pampasikip.

Nakita lang kita once sa show na “Sis”. Yung nag mura ka. Tawa ako ng tawa kahit na alam kong nagalit si LaGuardia non. Hindi kita kilala kasi nga matagal na ako sa States, pero like agad kita from that episode. Prangka ka, masayahing tao, genuine (hindi plastic), simple, may paninindigan sa sariling prinsipyo. Like kita. Okay lang yung napamura ka. Tao lang. I’m sure hindi mo yon sinasadya.

Like kita. Ingat and more power to your showbiz career.

Copymilyuck

Comment by urfullofit

December 5, 2007 @ 6:52 am

way to go bruno! you obviously strucked a nerve on that dumb bitch’s rotten body.

to the bitch: the philippines may be behind in technology but not with human resources. im in the US myself pursuing a graduate degree in chemistry and the best students in our department are the filipinos. bilib silang lahat dito sa mga pinoy dahil besides na matatalino, masisipag pa. to bruno’s defense he didn’t brag about the “robust space program shit” you were talking about? he, like many filipinos know a lot about internet stuff. naglipana ang mga internet cafes sa lahat ng sulok ng pilipinas and most pinoys in this generation are really up to date with whats going on online. its not about which technology is better this time, its about which brain functions better.

finally: please tell your parents that they have done a real crappy job in raising you up both as a filipino and as a person. they have absolutely failed as parents to teach you the values that any moral person (pinoy or not) adhere to.

Comment by Bruno D' Dog Awwww

December 5, 2007 @ 11:42 am

Wahahahahahaha!! It’s becoming very clear now that you really don’t know anything, do you? Space program to allow broadband??? What the heck… Gurl, boy, bakla tomboy, WHUTEVA, you don’t need a space program to have broadband connection. Have you even heard of fiber optics? DUHHHHHHH!!! Again hija, bago ka mag DON DON (as in dunongdunongan…wahahahahah) check mo dictionary or the internet to know the meaning of broadband. Even modern mobile telephony now rarely uses Satellites. And what’s so high tech about VID??? Goodness ineng!

You watch to much porn on PPV to really know anything. Sigh!!!!

Now bitch, play dead… or better yet DIE!!!

Bwahahahahahahahahahah….

Comment by Bruno D' Dog Awww

December 5, 2007 @ 12:51 pm

Well said ‘urfullofit’. Good luck on your studies.

To Candy, Good luck sa blog mo. I promise to continue reading your blogs. I like you and I always look forward to your next entry. Sorry for instigating an unhealthy verbal tussle with BSB. It’s really unnecessary and uncalled for. I admit I got carried away by my emotions. She’s just so full of herself. I just wanted the entire act to stop. It reeks of poor taste and unmistakable hypocrisy. This blog is not the right place flaunt your imagined status in your so-called vivaglam society, and it is certainly not the place for your illusions of grandeur. If you are who you say you are, the whole world will know about it and you don’t need to say anything. I smell cheapness everywhere!!! Gosh!

Promise, this will be my last comment about BSB. She does not deserve our attention. It is such a waste of time.

Cheers!

Comment by Luscious_Lhyn

December 5, 2007 @ 1:02 pm

hey, great blog site girl! Talagang girl power… I really admire your wit & “nag-uumapaw” na sense of humor…And as your blog title suggests, your candidness delight me all the more.

Your laugh is infectious (tama ba spelling ko?). Minsan nga kahit slapstick ang dating ng comedy (Hint: I HATE SLAPSTICK), I find myself laughing my ass out pag ikaw nagdeliver…

Basta continue sharing the gift of joy & laughter, it will return to you a gazillion folds… God Bless always!!!

Comment by urfullofit

December 5, 2007 @ 5:12 pm

bruno! idol na kita. hehe.

Comment by payatot

December 5, 2007 @ 8:44 pm

ang galeng galeng naman ni bruno at urfullofit !!!

walang masabi C BSB.

kc naman sumobra sa yabang , ayan tuloy nung may nakabara, baradong barado! hahahahaha

Comment by Blonde_skinny_bitch

December 5, 2007 @ 9:30 pm

…it’s called BLOGGING “pipol”, the same thing as what everybody who placed their thoughts or personal views here! Obviously you all are new in Blogging and shy to admit it!!! except Candy who candidly admits it! (no pun) ,,,That’s the spirit! :)

…the subject of “Autism” is indeed a sensitive topic and should be handled with care! But not here in the US of A, where the rights of that individual is protected! F.Y.I. since Candy brought it up! (DE FACTO) …I guess over there, its “Taboo” to even talk about it just like anything important issues that affects “pipol”!!! …really sad, if you ask my Uncle Sam! :(

…and this is the kicker! …Do you pinoys know that “America” is designed around the “Handicap Person” …we have walkways, bathrooms, elevators, sliding doors, houses, buildings, restaurants, parking stalls, …etc etc anywhere you see that bright blue wheelchair signs that says “your always welcome here!” True! sssso tell me “pipol” whats wrong with talking about “autism” or PDD! :(

… BTW this is a “Global Forum” where ideas flourish! …not your personal toilet! right PEP? …and to copymilyuck, i really doubt it! coz you’re ssso narrowminded, you probably haven’t assimilated with us up to now!!! hahaha :( …Oh Candy shuuugaaa!!! you are a comedian? :)

Comment by Blonde_skinny_bitch

December 5, 2007 @ 9:56 pm

…Oh Bruno dear! I’m sad to say America had abandoned fiber optics technology coz it ssso 70’s!!! Thanks to Americas Space Program. we’ll build satellites for everybody ssso we all learn from each other and see where Iraq/Korea hides their Nuclear facilities! hahaha :lol: right Ate Glo? right! Oh Candy shuuugaaa! , whatever happened to the National Broadband deal with China which Amerca built? …do you know? or you’re just a plain comedian? :(

Comment by dgperez719

December 5, 2007 @ 9:59 pm

Like they say, the opposite of love is not hate, rather, indifference.:) btw, your blog is a great read!

Comment by Blonde_skinny_bitch

December 5, 2007 @ 11:11 pm

…Oops! it should say “…which America HELP built?” whew! …even Blonde_skinny_bitch makes mistake and admits! hehehe! :)

Comment by diebitch

December 5, 2007 @ 11:44 pm

which America help build (not built). boba!

Comment by diebitch

December 5, 2007 @ 11:45 pm

what do you mean “…even Blonde_skinny_bitch makes mistake and admits!” heh! you always make mistake and you convince yourself you’re right. but we know better and we’re not buying any of your crap.

Comment by diebitch

December 6, 2007 @ 12:24 am

huwag na nating talagang patulan yan si BSB kasi di naman pala bitch, eh BASTARD pala yan eh!

Comment by Blonde_skinny _bitch

December 6, 2007 @ 2:11 am

…in cyberworld, the character “Blonde_skinny_bitch” is ssso real! and not a pigment of your naive undeveloped imaginations! …Welcome to BlogoSphere! …bwhahaha :lol:

Comment by bu

December 6, 2007 @ 4:32 am

to blonde_skinny_bitch:

Have you taken your medications yet? Apparently not because you are murdering the English language. Take your medications regularly, ok?

Comment by copymilyuck

December 6, 2007 @ 8:17 am

To BSB,

What was your comment about me for? I didn’t even mention you in my comment. And you call me narrowminded, when in fact, YOU are the one who’s narrowminded.

Now I understand why marami kang kaaway dito. You’re so sad and pathetic.

Magtuturo ka na dito sa States, merong freedom of speech (your comment about “taboo” issues) tapos you can’t respect my opinion when it’s MY opinion and you’re NOT part of it???

Maghanap ka ng kausap mo at huwag mo kong idamay sa kakitiran ng utak mo. Walang na-i-impress sa yo dito. And if you’re so proud about being “American”, what the hell are you doing logging in on Philippine Entertainment Portal? Please do us all a favor and get a life.

Comment by yvetski

December 6, 2007 @ 10:02 am

hello candy!

i like you eversince.. napanuod nga kita sa movie ni FPJ sa ABS last sat un tumalon ka sa building.. un lng scene mo pero naaliw na ako..

request sana ako for your future blog entry: LOVE STORY NIYO NG EX HUBBY MO. hope you don’t mind..I remember, before sa interview mo kung pano siya nga-propose sayo (sa convenient store) kinilig ako dun.. hehe.. i believe matagal un relationship nio prior sa marriage (6 years?) then all of a sudden naghiwalay.. tama ba?? bakit ganun?? hope ma-grant un request ko.. i’m sure marami makaka relate and matututo ng lesson..

I like you as an artist and mas nagugustuhan kita as a read you blog entries.. keep blogging!!!!

Aja!!!

Comment by HOLLISTER

December 6, 2007 @ 10:10 am

Let’s not make patol to the KSP around here. Ignore “IT” na lang, tutal wala naman katuturan ang mga pinagsasasabi.

OFFICIALLY IGNORED!!!

Comment by copymilyuck

December 6, 2007 @ 10:43 am

Cheers to that Hollister! Amen.

Comment by shervie

December 6, 2007 @ 5:26 pm

I think i’m starting to like Blonde_skinny….
it’s just you ( yeah you ) who are all narrowminded or baka kau ang KSP kasi you keep on saying nasty things about her(kahit review nyo lahat blogs nya) kaya sya sumasagot sa inyo. and tama sya mukhang sanay na sya sa ganito.in terms of expressing herself, mukhang may ibubuga at hindi basta basta makapag comment lang,

Comment by Swaymyway

December 6, 2007 @ 10:10 pm

hi Candy! When are u coming to Vancouver? You were the only reason why I kept watching Walang Kapalit (not for melanie, nor noel but YOU)….I would like to meet you in person. God Bless!

Comment by diebitch

December 6, 2007 @ 11:20 pm

shervie: we’re not narrowminded or KSP, if you read BSB’s entries you would notice how IT keeps on bragging about IT’s american lifestyle and how things all suck in the Philippines. tama ba yon? if ganyan pala yung experienced sa blogging then i’d rather be inexperienced then. ayaw ko lang yung nilalait ang mga pinoy at ang pilipinas. buti sana kung wala siyang dugong pinoy.

Comment by Blonde_skinny_bitch

December 7, 2007 @ 3:00 am

…hahaha! Oh Candy shuuugaaa! do you mind Blondie getting the icing on the cake? coz this your Blog! although she doesn’t mind the “rebuttals” if its topic, relevant or to the point! it’s healthy discussion! …but these roaches coming out from no where is simply tacky! hahaha …thank god we don’t have those in Hollywood, but I must admit we do have rats the same number as Rolls Royces and Lamborginis! Oops hahaha …these “pipol” should lightened up, dontya think? :)

…anyway, you must be a fascinating individual for PEP to give you a Blog among the titans the likes of the Divine Zsa Zsa and sweetheart of PEP, John! …ssso what makes you fascinating??? …besides being a comic! detached! a loving parent to an Autistic child! there i said the taboo word again! Oops! hahaha …let your imagination tango! :)

Comment by Riss

December 7, 2007 @ 7:09 am

What’s up with BSB? Slow down girl….

Comment by downunder

December 7, 2007 @ 12:24 pm

Recycle???? nabasa kona to dati??? ms.candy wala po bang bago? hehehe :-)

Comment by rahma_poy

December 7, 2007 @ 3:31 pm

mali mali ang grammar!nyahahaha!!!

hi miss candy! pasensya ka na.may feeling magaling dito.im sure mastress ka na naman.hayaan mo na.kung may nanlalait sa Pilipinas wala tayong magagawa.ok lang sana kung dayuhan.ang masakit pinoy pa man din na nakakita lang ng yelo, nag-iba na ang utak..

SI Gat Jose Rizal ay minsang nagsabi: ‘ANG TAONG DI MARUNOGN MAGMAHAL SA SARILING WIKA AY HIGIT PA ANG AMOY SA MALANSANG ISDA.”
ANo nalang kaya kung isang Pilipino na kung insultuhin ang bayan ay ganun-ganun na lang?

saan nya kaya nalaman na ang fiber optics ay 70’s nadiscover.tsk!tsk!nakakaawang nilalang!

Comment by Hazel Novero

December 7, 2007 @ 6:18 pm

Hi Candy,

sarap din magbasa ng blogs mo nakakatawa at nakakaiyak hehehe …parang kay sweet!!!

try mo din magvisit sa iba pang government agencies…hehehe…matindi pa ang mararanasan mo hay bakit ba ganito dapat serbisyong totoo…

but anyway magpasalamat pa din tayo kay Lord dahil masarap mabuhay at masaya sa Pilipinas!!!!

God bless u

Comment by boy_alabama

December 14, 2007 @ 5:13 am

Hi Candy,
Sobra na talaga ako humahanga sayo, actually the last time na nag usap tayo eh medyo serious kc more on religious activities ang topic natin. Kelan ka pala mag vivisit dito sa US? sana somewhere in Southeast. hay sobra kitang crush promise…

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