Ruffa's Mindspeak

My Bravo Award

Filed under: Features — admin at 2:49 pm on Tuesday, March 6, 2007

ruffa_bravoawardmelobalingit.jpgI rarely go to showbiz events but when I do, I make sure I’m prepared and ready to have a blast! Just like at YES! magazine’s 7th anniversary and PEP’s (Philippine Entertainment Portal) grand launch last February 28 at the NBC Tent, The Fort.

I had a couple of outfits made by two of my favorite Filipino designers—a royal blue Grecian-inspired dress by Randy Ortiz and a blingy hot pink shift by Rajo Laurel.

I asked my makeup artist Steven Doloso to come to my condo at 5:30 PM and I requested my friends to come exactly at 7 PM. After all, this was not only YES! magazine’s 7th anniversary, bibigyan din ako ng Bravo Award. Exciting! What kind of award is that?

Well, according to the Editor-in-Chief of YES! magazine, Jo-Ann Maglipon, “The BRAVO award is named after a section in YES! magazine that features the good work that stars do—not for anything they stand to gain from, not for more fame, not for more money—but for OTHERS. The award is thus given to the star who, those of us in YES! believe, most consistently and outstandingly performed acts of selflessness and generosity for the year. That is you.”

I was beside myself, I just won a KAWANGGAWA award! Ngayon, gusto ko pong ipagpatuloy ang pagsisikap kong tumulong sa kapwa. I will start organizing the 2nd Celebrity Bazaar soon.

I consider myself a Summit Media, publisher of YES! magazine, baby as parati naman nila kong pini-feature on their magazines. (By the way, get the March 2007 issue of Good Housekeeping wherein I talked about traveling tips with kids and favorite holiday destinations).

Going back to the YES! event, as usual, I was running late. I wasn’t even close to being finished with my makeup when the doorbell rang at exactly 7 PM—talk about American time, geez! It was Ella (Ana Roces)! Siyempre, chika-chika kami.ruffagretaannaalmira.jpg

Ana looked so good in her Petite Monde pastel pink dress. Parang hindi nanganak, girl! Sabi ko nga, if I could borrow her body for a day, and she just giggled. Five minutes later, Miray (Almira Muhlach-Alvarez) walked in looking just as stunning in her silver cocktail dress. Ano ba itong mga mommies na ito, parang mga walang anak?!

We chilled out muna by switching channels from 24 Oras to TV Patrol World. At around 7:30 PM, La Greta (Gretchen Barretto), arrived in her sheer Valentino dress whining at how the house seemed so quiet without the kids—Lorin and Venice. Sniff. Sniff. (Yes, I miss them, too.)

Anyway, that was my cue to change my white robe to my Randy O. dress, copper stilettos and jewelry in like five minutes! I don’t like to be the cause of delay naman.

Then, Raymond (my handsome bro) and Nicole (Anderson) also arrived, and made themselves at home in the kitchen while I was getting dressed.

Moments later, we were cramped into two vans and made our way to the NBC Tent. Chika-chika, kwento-kwento. Ana was like, “I always wanna be with you guys. You’re so fun to be with and full of life!”

We arrived at the Tent and the paparazzi were clicking away. Someone quipped, “Dawn [Zulueta] is there! I said, ‘Where?” Siyempre, with my blind eyes and the glare of the camera lights, I couldn’t see a thing!

As an afterthought, along the vein of this whole Pantene thingie, I might as well give my statement once and for all. Walang kamatayan kasi ang mga tanong about this since I was a witness to it all. pantene-pic.jpg

For the record, let it be known that Gretchen and Dawn are both friends that I respect. I’ve known both of them since nineteen-kopong-kopong and have always looked up to them as beauty icons. Whatever happened to them was unfortunate but I firmly believe that there’s always a chance for redemption. I’m so sure that one of these days, magbabati rin sila.

Life is too short, we should love life and value family and friends in spite of our shortcomings and differences. Kaya Gretch, Dawn, and even Tita Angeli (Pangilinan-Valenciano) and Tita Lolit (Solis), magbati-bati na sana kayong lahat!

Which reminds me, kahapon, on the set of Philippine’s Next Top Model, sobra nang umiinit yung mga eksena! Everybody’s getting competitive! Uy, the teaser is out na for Top Model on RPN-9, but I will save the juicy tidbits for my next blog.

Bye, Girlies!

50 Comments

Comment by deng

March 6, 2007 @ 11:45 pm

Buti naman Ruffa you didnt make kampi to dawn and gretchen. Tama lang that your in the middle. And congrats sa award mo! You deserve it because you are not only beauty with brains pero may puso pa! Bravo!

Comment by loana

March 7, 2007 @ 6:32 am

im so excited about ur new show…ur still gorgeous ,gracious and nice as ever…..ur a true inspiration to a lot of filipinas…never forgetting her roots and also always sharing her blessings…

Comment by May

March 7, 2007 @ 8:48 am

girl youre so down to earth. know how to balance between friendship and family. have a blessed life and happy family.

God Bless

Comment by Mariz

March 7, 2007 @ 11:09 am

Ruffa, you’re not just beautiful outside but inside, too….I always look forward to read your blogs…keep posting!

Comment by Shulamite

March 7, 2007 @ 1:12 pm

When will ‘Philippines Next Top Model’ going to start and what time? Goodluck, ruf! Can’t wait to see the Ms Tyra Banks of the philippines hosts this prestigious reality show! Go GIRL!

Comment by serena

March 7, 2007 @ 1:16 pm

Hi Ruffa! I love reading stories about you. I love your personality, your fashion sense and your wit! I cant wait for Philippines Next Top Model, sounds very exciting!

Comment by Clara

March 7, 2007 @ 4:13 pm

you’re so beautiful as ever!and blessed with good and hondsome husband and 2 little cute princess.God bless u always!!!

Comment by gosh_girl

March 7, 2007 @ 5:44 pm

hello? c ruffa, down to earth? kelan pa!?

Comment by Lurker

March 7, 2007 @ 5:58 pm

You rock, Ruffa!

Comment by betchay

March 7, 2007 @ 9:40 pm

Hi Ruffa! Congrats sa award mo. You looked lovely at Bb. Pilipinas. Sana ikaw nalang nag host ulit. Mas bagay ka doon…kayong dalawa ng kapatid mo. Among the Pantene girls ikaw ang number 1, pangalawa si Angel, then Dawn then Gretchen. Goodluck sa abgong show mo. God bless!

Comment by Mel

March 8, 2007 @ 6:13 am

ang babaw…puro materyal…

Comment by Melito

March 8, 2007 @ 8:46 am

wow! u look fabulous!

Comment by amgirl

March 8, 2007 @ 10:24 am

Heya Ruffa! I’m a fan of Americas Next Top Model. Congratulations that youve been chosen to host the Philippine version. Please write more juicy stories and behind-the-scene moments on your next blog. Thanks!

Comment by gabrielachizmax

March 8, 2007 @ 10:35 am

hi! you moms are very beautiful and fabulous…I hope you could make blog sharing you and your friends diet tips…ana roces really amazes me, I saw her before and she’s really far from her size now…

tama ka, pra kayong walang mga anak… (”,)

Comment by Mrs_C

March 8, 2007 @ 4:03 pm

I enjoyed reading your blog. Sana marami pa from you. Good luck and more power!

Comment by pep queen

March 8, 2007 @ 10:48 pm

buti naman ruffa at hindi ka kumampi kay dawn or gretchen sa away nila. you just proved that you are level headed and even acted as a mediator. i hope that young filipinas will be inspired by your story, hindi ka perfect diba? pulos intriga nga ang buhay mo nung araw pero ngayon naman happy ka at kapiling ang dalawang angels mo. maayos buhay mo. goodluck in everything. dati di kita masyadong type pero after miss world love na kita!!

Comment by LALA

March 9, 2007 @ 12:33 am

You go GIRL! Congrats with your BRAVO award. Its so nice to see that a woman like yourself, who can live in comfort, decided to organize a celebrity bazaar to help the less fortunate. Hope more celebs can be like you! Good luck with PNTM!

Comment by sosygirl

March 9, 2007 @ 10:43 am

you rock ruffa!! cant wait to watch you on the buzz!!

Comment by maryknoll homeres

March 9, 2007 @ 12:05 pm

Hi Ruffa!!!
I LIKE YOUR FASHION STYLE.gOOD LUCK GIRL!!!YOU ALMOST HAVE EVERYTHING IN THIS LIFE…

Comment by R_G

March 9, 2007 @ 2:20 pm

u deserve the bravo award! congrats! and i cant wait for Philippines Next Top Model starting this tuesday! and the buzz on sunday!

Comment by La Greta

March 10, 2007 @ 12:32 pm

sounds like ruffa’s bragging again about her clothes and stuff…sana pep will come up with a blog na intellegent ang nagsusulat like kris aquino. and now greta her BFF. whatever happened to donita? dahil ba poor c donits eh di xa pinapansin ni ruffing! hay, talk about fair weather friends!

Comment by sosygirl

March 10, 2007 @ 6:28 pm

when you say BLOG its about ramblings…about your thoughts, your feelings…what you did for that day. Its not an essay about being intelligent and current events! so manjo if you think ruffas blog has no substance then stop reading it!

Comment by rei

March 11, 2007 @ 2:07 am

congratulation in your bravo award
I am really right in calling you “A lady with a golden heart for the masses” Ruffa is well loved celebrity at Dubai Airport…kaya everytime she is transiting Dubai …she is welcome with a red carpet.
Keep up the good work that you have started ..be an example to your fellow celebrities…keep on smiling ..

cheers!

Comment by manjo

March 11, 2007 @ 3:20 am

sosygirl, para mo na ring sinabi na hindi intelligent at articulate si ruffa … and that was not even close to what i meant in my post. i have always maintanined in my previous posts about ruffa’s blog that she’s got this gift of expressing her thoughts and views in writing - only that i expect more of her, to write something more of substance than very showbiz stuff … i know for a fact that she can do better given the right motivation and topic to as a touch point. what i wrote is constructive criticism which i believe she can easily understand … she may even interpret it as a challenge to take on (i do hope). maybe in your so-called “world” where you exist, blog are merely “ramblings” as you say … in my “world”, blogging is a tool to make a difference where you can take a strong standpoint on certain subjects and issues for open forum and discussion. with that said, i can only say that we certainly do not belong to the same league … good luck to you in your own “world” …

Comment by santiago

March 11, 2007 @ 10:27 am

Ruffa, dont mind the detractors. Keep doing what ur doing. I enjoyed reading ur blog and hope you write more entries soon. Good luck with the buzz mamaya.

Comment by loana

March 12, 2007 @ 10:17 am

hay naku manjo…yung mga ramblings mo ba may nagawa para maibsan ng konti ang hirap ng mga pinoy? mga tao talaga feeling high and mighty wala namang nagawa sa buhay…..ruffa has helped more people in her young life than u can in ur whole lifetime …i can bet my life on it…thats how sure i am..

Comment by Babet

March 12, 2007 @ 11:39 am

oo nga manjo!! ayaw mo pala sa blog ni ruffa then why do you keep coming back and checking and adding comments? plastik ka! congrats nga pala ruffa sa successful na hosting mo sa buzz. galing galing!

Comment by martychiks

March 12, 2007 @ 10:02 pm

hi ruffa! napanood kita sa the buzz kahapon! who made your pretty pink dress? maganda bagay sayo! sana ikaw ulit next week. you really deserve all the blessings kasi mabait kang tao.

Comment by gosh_gurl

March 13, 2007 @ 8:57 am

ruffa, tell your bff greta to start hoarding na her wealth and all that stuff and more importantly to start scouting for a new benefactor cause the gov’t is running after tonyboy’s money na seriously this time!!! buti ka pa, humble kahit super rich and dada mo…eh ang bff mo, hanapan mo na ng bagong papa!!!! hahaha

Comment by fasyon

March 13, 2007 @ 3:22 pm

girl, so practical! Ü

Comment by santiago

March 13, 2007 @ 5:08 pm

good job hosting the buzz! sana ikaw ulit next week!

Comment by Rossana

March 14, 2007 @ 12:12 am

Ang cute mo sa da buzz, ang galing mo talaga mag host lagi kita panonoodin kung kaw maghost sa da buzz. love ya

Comment by Loana

March 14, 2007 @ 1:32 am

TO BADING MANJO-I feel so sorry for you. you keep critizing this blog and yet you still keep coming back to check on the comments. what a hypocrite! i guess you ahve nothing better to do than feed on showbiz gossip and ruffas life! who cares about ruffas past and her life as a teenager? what gives? everyone has a past and everyone ccommits mistakes…its how you become a better person after the trials you passed. yan ang mas importante manjo. its not the beginning but what you did to have a happy ending! and everyone in this country knows that now ruffa has a happy ending with her prince charming and her 2 daughters.

Comment by loana

March 14, 2007 @ 1:04 pm

HAY NAKU MANJO IF U THINK SO HIGHLY OF URSELF MAG BLOG KA NG SARILI MO…LETS SEE KUNG MAY MAGBABASA….OA NITO..KALA MO KUNG SINO…EWW…AND IM PRETTY UR A SORE LOSER AND FRUSTRATED,DUMB WANNABE…SIGE NGA MAGBLOG KA NGA ..TINGNAN NATIN KUNG MAY MAGBABASA..HAHAHAHA

Comment by manjo

March 14, 2007 @ 9:04 pm

nakakaaliw ang post mo, loana … for your information, i log on to PEP for my own personal amusement … it is my way of catching up with pinoy showbiz news and i find it the best way for me to practice my tagalog since I have lived abroad for a long time and no one to speak the language with … Reading PEP “news” for me is a breather – it always makes me laugh and frown … it’s very entertaining for me … and it also annoys me to no end when I get to read false and made up news … ruffa for me is interesting since her statements are always contradicting from one interview to the other …it is my privilege to question her integrity and honesty - unlike most pinoys as yourself who take her word with hook, line and sinker (if you know what that means) … ang dali ninyong maloko, so to speak. – you ought to learn how to ask the right questions and demand answers. you’re very typical pinoy na judgemental – always quick to judge another person as loser, frustrated and dumb without knowing the person in question. Be factual … or is that trait something outside your vocabulary and etiquette? Oh yes, I do write blogs, but they are for people with the “head for money” … not for buffs like yourself – you will never grasp the logic and depth of our topics … you’ll get yourself lost in the maze of financial idioms and references. No, my dear … you do not know me … so stick with the topic here and don’t get personal …

Comment by manjo

March 15, 2007 @ 12:08 am

I love this blog! I am a big fan of ruffa!

Comment by oktober_sub

March 15, 2007 @ 9:47 am

19-kopong-kopong. :).nice one ruffa.

Comment by Sugar

March 15, 2007 @ 10:11 am

ruffa ang ganda ganda no! humble pa. huwag kang makinig sa mga naiingit sayo. just keep your chins up and fight for your right! na miss ka namin and were happy your always on tv shows like the buzz. ibinalik mo ang glamour sa showbiz!

Comment by sambo

March 16, 2007 @ 9:55 am

hi ruffa, loved your blogs and yes you are the epitome of beauty and intelligence. you make our country proud of you. you are a good person inside and out. i just wish you can do something about your “shallow” best friend gretchen who is nothing but just another beautiful face but without substance. GAWD! she is so materialistic and so conceited…she irritates me with her tackiness and shrill voice. the sad fact about your friend gretchen…she has everything yet all her money can’t really buy BREEDING. because that’s what she really lacks.

Comment by maye

March 17, 2007 @ 4:58 pm

i love ruffa very much in a way that i see myself to her,heheh.i admire her and very happy for her success in life.keep it up girl;-)ahm i hope that she would be hosting again in the buzz since miss kris is not yet around;-)

Comment by loana

March 19, 2007 @ 3:22 pm

keep telling urself that manjo..ur the typical pinoy..naka abroad lang kala mo kung sinong superior race…eww…..magbuhat ba ng sariling bangko…talk about modesty and breeding…kung totoo kang matalino at mayaman..hindi yan ipinapangalandakan….kahit ilang beses ka mag abroad kung magatatabi tayong dalawa im sure hindi ako ang mukhang katulong..hahahah…now back to ruffa…ur interview with ur mom last sunday was so much fun…talagang riot kayong dalawa…

Comment by ulrich eindhart

March 19, 2007 @ 4:58 pm

Manjo ist von Ruffa gerade eifersuechtig. Manjo ist ein einsames faggot

Comment by Emlie

March 20, 2007 @ 12:04 am

I had a nice time reading your blog Ruffa..Hope you stay humble and ever beautiful. For me humility preserves beauty. What is beauty if you are too proud of yourself? Right? Just continue what you are doing you deserve that kind of award. And one thing, hope your friend Greta will be influenced by you even just a bit of humility.

Comment by rei

March 20, 2007 @ 5:21 am

Ruffa and Tita Annabelle ..
Congratulation sa d buzz ….grabe ..worth my absent sa work ko..we have so much fun watching the TFC..doon lang sa portion nyo….the rest never mind ..100% d buzz rating is high ..Tita A ..hats off ako syo everytime mag guest ka to any show ..rating to the sky ..like in Sharon..why not a show with Ruffa together ..that would be great !

God bless ur family …

Comment by jude

March 31, 2007 @ 5:43 pm

ruffa, is it true na gretchen said the word HUMBLENESS sa “the buzz” nung ininterview nyo siya ni boy abunda…baka HUMILITY ang ibig niyang sabihin…

Comment by willow

April 20, 2007 @ 2:53 am

agree with manjo in all its essence..i’m not a hater but everyone is entitled to their own views..no one has the right to question that..hey,that’s freedom of speech.anyway,even ruffa’s term for just simply photographers or ordinary citizens with their personal cameras as”paparazzi”is funny..by the way,she didn’t invent that word cos that’s a very common term in the states.paparazzi is a term for people who clicks on celebrities wherever they are and follow everywhere..house,resaturants,bathrooms..you name it.these kind of people make a living for those shots.our local celebrities are luckier cos pinoy photographers are a lot tamer and respectful than that.i didn’t like ruffa’s gown here cos shocking blue and what’s that olive green belt?c’mon!ciao.

Comment by billy mc.

April 24, 2007 @ 11:24 pm

willow dont be baduy…its not shocking blue! Its called COBALT BLUE! Mag aral ka ng fashion iha! Also Ruffa is not wearing a gown…shes wearing and EVENING DRESS!! Opinions coming from someone who is not in the knowsing about fashion should be quite quiet. ciao!

Comment by willow

April 30, 2007 @ 12:56 am

just wondering what happened to my lovely reply for billy mc??..anyway,billy i live in new york(not a big deal actually)and i may not be paragon of excellence when it comes to all sorts of blue or green..having said that,i don’t think blue and green is a great match.what’s your serious problem with my opinion..!as far as i know,i’m not a celebrity and i don’t have too cos i have good sense of fashion..i’m a fabulous person haha!calm down hater!LOL!it’s a very constructive comment for ruffa so she remembers next time.duh!

Comment by willow

April 30, 2007 @ 1:06 am

i know the latest trends having lived in new york for 17 years..that particular gown(which is long and looks formal in fairness)is not a nice looking one for me and hey,that’s my opinion in which i’m entitled too.i bet jay of fashion e will put that in fashion police category..you know what i mean.?!thanks:0)

Comment by John Maralit

May 28, 2007 @ 1:50 am

Hi Ruffa! Oh my you are so gorgeous! I would like to ask a favor from you. I know this is not the right channel to ask u this. And im sorry if it will bother you. But Ive been looking and searching for my long friend Steven Doloso who happens to be your make up artist. I hope you dont mind if i ask you his number. I am now working abroad and i lost contact with him. I will be very grateful if u could help me. Pleaseee.

Love you heaps and we are always praying for u.

JOHN

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