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Ryan Agoncillo describes "the Judy Ann Santos style" of resolving conflicts

by Jocelyn Dimaculangan posted on March 23, 2012  STATS: 9517 Views | 21 Comments


After seven years of being together, Judy Ann Santos and Ryan Agoncillo recognize the role of conflict in their relationship.

Photo By: Noel Orsal

Judy Ann Santos and Ryan Agoncillo will once again be paired on the big screen for a movie about a married couple.

For this year's Metro Manila Film Festival, they will topbill the Joey Reyes film My Househusband: Ikaw Na!



During the press conference of the movie held at Guilly's Tomas Morato yesterday, November 22, Direk Joey differentiated this MMFF entry from their previous movies that also tackled married life.



Direk Joey stressed: "Kinaklaro po namin na ang My Househusband ay hindi third part ng Kasal, Kasali, Kasalo at Sakal, Sakali, Saklolo.

"Ito ay kuwento ni Rod at Mia Alvarez. It's a totally different story but it's about a couple na may dalawang anak at parehong may trabaho.

"Ang lalaki [nawalan ng] trabaho at eventually, na-pwersa ang babae na magtrabaho.



"It's tunay na buhay. It's not a comedy or a drama—it's both.

"Kung tutuusin po, ang buhay naman natin, nakakatawa at nakakaiyak.

"Is it drama or is it a comedy? I'd say it's real life.



"That it what makes this movie different from all other movies in the festival: it's real life."

WHO MAKES THE FIRST MOVE? During this presscon, both Juday and Ryan were also very open about talking about the dynamics of their relationship, especially when it comes to resolving conflict.



Whenever they have disagreements or "tampuhan," Judy Ann admits that she is the one most likely to make the first move to patch things up.



"Makulit po talaga ako pagdating sa asawa ko kasi pag hindi kayo okay na mag-asawa tapos nasa isang kwarto kayo, parang hindi tama, lalo na kung hindi mo alam kung anong nangyayari.

"Kung alam ko kung ano ang kasalanan na ginawa ko, hindi ko talaga siya kukulitin.



"Pero kung hindi ko alam, hindi naman ako titigil sa sa pangungulit sa kanya.

"'Sige na please, mag-usap tayo,' hanggang sa mabuwisit na siya sa akin, kakausapin na niya ako."



Ryan then revealed that they have switched styles when resolving conflicts.



"Parang nagpalit," he disclosed.

"Seven years together, kasama ang pagiging mag-boyfriend.

"Dati po kasi ako yung ayaw bumitaw at nagsasabi, tapusin na natin ito.



"Parang natutunan ko ang 'Judy Ann style' ng pag-aaway, so ginagamit ko sa kanya ngayon. Medyo quiet na muna, bayaan kitang ikaw ang lumapit. Mukhang ume-effect naman," he said with a smile.

"Mukhang ume-effect naman po kasi matiwasay kaming nagbabati."



"Kung ako dati ang pumupunta sa magulang niya para humingi ng kakampi, ngayon, siya ang pumupunta sa magulang ko para humingi ng kakampi."

THE IMPORTANCE OF CONFLICT. Even though Juday and Ryan do not relish the thought of fighting with each other, they recognize the importance of conflict in their relationship.



Ayon kay Ryan: "Malaking bagay ang tampuhan, in fairness, pero hindi ko siya nami-miss.

"Malaking bagay ang tampuhan kasi, after a while, pag nag-usap kayo, may iba pang issue na nare-resolve, hindi lang yung issue na nag-surface.

"Marami kayong nailalabas na emosyon kasi apat na araw na hindi kayo nag-uusap, tapos lumalabas lahat ng pagkabuwisit mo.



"Pag nag-uusap kayo, nare-resolve na pati yung mga natago mo na. Yung akala mo kinalimutan mo na mga emosyon, lalabas rin yun.

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  • 21  namnam2

    11/24/2011 | 07:18 AM
    perfect couple napaka simple at halatang nagmamahalan sila ng wagas lalo na si ryan.
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  • 20  xxxjmb2

    11/24/2011 | 04:35 AM
    Love them!
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  • 19  profiteroles

    11/23/2011 | 04:01 PM
    4 days silang di nagpansinan I wonder what was the cause of the alitan?!
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  • 18  chaka06

    11/23/2011 | 03:47 PM
    lav yah juday ryan!!!!
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  • 17  Xray

    11/23/2011 | 02:30 PM
    Asus ni hindi man lang umingay ang diana meneses chismis-ek dahil walang kumagat obvious kasing hindi totoo at yung mga nagpupumilit sa kaka-ulit-ulit-ulit nang pagre-recycle sa tsimis na yan ay yung mga gustong masira ang relasyon nina juday at ryan porke't dead end na ang relasyon ng idol nila.
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  • 16  clandestine

    11/23/2011 | 01:38 PM
    love you juday and ryan.. ang ganda ni juday..
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  • 15  flourpower

    11/23/2011 | 12:53 PM
    ganda kaya ni juday sa personal...ganda ng mata...yung tamang kumikislap...si ryan nga ang hindi ka-gwapuhan sa personal...mukha syang matabang harry potter nung nakita ko, probably 8 yrs ago. haha. pero bagay sila...cute couple.
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  • 14  philippa_379

    11/23/2011 | 12:41 PM
    ha ha ha kakatuwa kayong dalawa.. hmmm...gusto ko kayong pisil pisilin.nanggigil ako sa inyong dalawa..
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  • 13  yelena_1225

    11/23/2011 | 12:05 PM
    perfect couple
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  • 12  greatness

    11/23/2011 | 11:56 AM
    Hoy, No.2 alam mo inggit ka lang!!!naka2inggit ano???Mamatay ka na lang sa INGGIT!!!!!
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  • 11  milch

    11/23/2011 | 11:28 AM
    parang mg boyfriend-girlfriend parin kau!! lab you both!! goodluck!!
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  • 10  llzlg0401

    11/23/2011 | 11:23 AM
    awww! i love them both! good luck more blessings!
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  • lefty

    11/23/2011 | 10:52 AM
    I lab dem both!..sana forever na kayo
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  • milch

    11/23/2011 | 10:45 AM
    perfect couple
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  • joie2dworld

    11/23/2011 | 10:31 AM
    sila ay mga normal na nilalang
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  • nisannie

    11/23/2011 | 10:19 AM
    HMMMMMMM..ganyan lang talaga ang life..kahit nga mag kapatid na mag kadugo may tampuhan at awayan din,eh yun pang mag asawa,di na naman kayu mag ka dugo...nagkita kayu malalaki na...so normal lang yan...but then COmmunication is a MUST pa rin,kailangan pag usapan at di dapat mag sigawan at mag ka sakitan kasi may lamat na ehhehe...cool lang..be mature..Keep it UP Judy and Ryan..manonood kami sa movie niyu.!
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  • zgggranada

    11/23/2011 | 10:16 AM
    i meant juday and ryan. good luck to ur movie hope it does well.... the happy couple indeed!
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  • zgggranada

    11/23/2011 | 10:13 AM
    andito na naman ang saltik na si milomilo hahahaha, if i know ur just sooo envious of what juday and have that who ever ur idol is dont have and that is Happiness! that came from a happy and contented life..
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  • minute860

    11/23/2011 | 09:51 AM
    huh! di ko alam yun ah.meron bang other woman
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  • milomilo123

    11/23/2011 | 09:30 AM
    tanggap na siguro ni juday ang relasyon nina ryan at deana meneses.
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