Bong Revilla and Jinggoy Estrada talk about Daboy's final moments

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Saturday, June 07, 2008 @ 08:37PM  |  28077 views

 

Rudy Fernandez (second from left) celebrated his 56th birthday, which turned out to be the last, last March 3 with best friends Bong Revilla, Jinggoy Estrada, and Phillip Salvador.

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"Nag-iyakan na sila," said Bong. "Hysterical na si LT, umiiyak siya na ‘Papa...papa...!' ganoon. ‘Tapos dumilat mata ni Daboy, ‘tapos sabi niya, ‘Mama...' ‘Tapos, yun yung huli niyang salita.

"Maganda na marinig din sa kanila [Lorna and the rest of the family], but makikita mo talaga yung pagmamahalan ng mag-asawa. Yung care sa bawat isa na ayaw iiwan ng...parang pelikula, e. And yung pagmamahal niya sa anak niya, makikita mo, e, kasi yung mga anak niya lagi nandoon every time na may dadalaw sa kanya."

MORE THAN BROTHERS. Senator Jinggoy Estrada, probably the closest friend of Daboy, was less composed than Bong when Startalk's Lolit Solis interviewed him by phone patch from the GMA-7 studio. The quavering voice of Jinggoy was a barely audible whisper as he recounted the final minutes of his dying friend.

"Tinawagan ako ni Lorna ng mga bandang five-thirty ng umaga," Jinggoy's croaking voice said. "Sabi niya na punta ako kaagad sa bahay. So, dumeretso na ako sa bahay nila sa White Plains. Buti naman at naabutan ko pa si Rudy na humihinga..."

Lolit asked if it was indeed Jinggoy who told Rudy that everything was going to be okay. Jinggoy confirmed this by saying, "Noong nakita ko yung monitor kasi, medyo flat line na. Tinanong ko ang doctor na ‘Bakit ganito?' Sabi niya sa akin, ‘Wala na.' Sabi ko kay Daboy, ‘Pare, pahinga ka na. Ako na ang bahala sa iyo at sa pamilya mo dito.' Yun lang yung sinabi ko sa kanya. "

Lolit observed how close Rudy and Jinggoy really were. They were more than brothers.

"Higit pa sa kapatid ang turingan namin ni Daboy," whimpered Jinggoy. "Twenty years ago, bagamat superstar siya noon at hanggang ngayon, he remained a humble person. Very down to earth. ‘Tsaka madali siyang pakisamahan."

Jinggoy then continued to relate how pivotal Rudy was in his life, especially if he was having problems, or whenever there arguments between him and Bong Revilla. Rudy was the peacemaker, Jinggoy said.

"Siya gumagawa ng paraan para magkaayos," Jinggoy sadly said. "Ayaw niya ng may away sa aming mga magkakabarkada."

Jinggoy's dad, former president Joseph Estrada, visited Rudy before, even if Erap himself could not bear to see Rudy suffer. Like Jinggoy, he was greatly affected.

"Mahal na mahal ni daddy si Rudy," Jinggoy said, giving way to tears. "Nung na-confine daddy ko sa Veterans, siya lang ang kaibigan ko na dumalaw sa akin araw-araw, gabi-gabi...nagdadala ng pagkain...hindi niya ako iniwanan. Noong bumaba kami sa Malacanang, siya po ang lagi naming kasama. Siya po ang laging sumusuporta sa amin. Hindi ko po makalimutan ang mga panahon na yun...na inalay po niya sa pamilya namin. Kaya mahal na mahal namin si Rudy..."

Now that Rudy is gone, will the bonds that the four of them shared continue? Will the remaining three friends—Jinggoy, Bong, and Phillip Salvador—act as fathers to the sons left behind by Rudy?

"Alam mo, sa pagiging tatay lang ng mga anak ni Rudy, e, walang problema yun," said the still quavering Jinggoy. "Nandito naman kaming tatlo. Alang-alang kay Rudy dahil napakasakit ng kanyang pagkawala."

What is his message to the grieving Lorna?

"Tibayan niya ang kanyang loob," Jinggoy said. "Magpatatag siya. Sa mga anak naman niya na si Rafraf at si Renz, at si Mark, ay huwag nilang pabayaan si Lorna, lalo na ngayon na talagang napakasakit na mawalan ng mahal sa buhay. Ano man ang kailangan nila, dito lang kami...Handang handa kaming magbigay ng tulong hangga't kailangan nila kami."
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