"...ang pumapasok sa isip ko is they are better off without me. Because I made a lot of mistakes and I think I'm not an ideal mom, which my children would always deny. They always say that 'you're such a cool and good mom.' But during the moments of depression, because I am certified clinically depressed, that's how I think about it, you know? But I do think of them, I always do," says Lyka Ugarte when asked if she thinks about her children every time she tries to kill herself.

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buhay pa ba ito?

kulang lng yata sa pansin etong c lyka.. kulang sa pansin at dasal..

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mas matindi pa ang dinaranas namin kaysa sa'yo kaya mag isip ka ms. lyka.

isang batok lang yan ng realidad para matauhan! iniisip kasi na sila lang ang may matinding problema sa buhay. hindi nila naiisip na mas mahirap at buhay daga pa ang iba.

Ms. Lyka, balikan mulang sa buhay mu, na naiba ka, dahil naging artista ka at nakadama ka naman ng magandang buhay, kung sa ikukumpara sa mga nakakarami mga mahihirap - ipagpasalamat mu parin ang lahat ng mga nakaraan mu, dahil iyon ay grasya.

akala ko ba hindi naging success ang suicide? e bat mukha siyang patay sa pic?
JOKE.

tumawid ka lang sa may sign na 'bawal tumawid dito. Solve na problema mo ms ksp.

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God wont give us what we cannot handle. just keep on praying and believing for in God, anything is possible.

Fabe, kahit anong outside intervention - mapa-rehab o therapy - kung hindi nya gustong tulungan sarili nya, walang mangyayari. Nasa tao pa rin ang pagkikilos at pagdesisyon na they do not have the luxury of having a depression kasi may mga bills na dapat bayaran. E nung una nakapagtrabaho naman sya, ngayon lang naging dahilan ang chemical imbalance at take note na-sesante pa nga.

anu ba yan?! 4th time na hindi pa nya magawa ng tama!!! pagbigyan nyo na....dyusko posible ba yun?
gaano ba khirap magpakamatay?libre naman yun diba?

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I hope she will not attempt to kill herself again.Sabi nya shes been seeking prof help but to no avail,cguro dpat wag lng nya iasa sa medication yun sakit nya,she shud be helping herself too,lalo pa at supportive nman pala yun anak nya.I agree that depression is an illness that shud be treated,but its not as bad as having cancer.My mom died of cancer and our family went through a lot when my mom was sick.Mas may pag-asa pa rin ang taong depressed kumpara sa taong may cancer.I hope Ms. Lyka realizes shes lucky 2 still have a healthy body with all the problems she bears on her shoulders,while cancer patients can only battle and accept their fate.

I know someone who is also diagnosed with clinical depression. It's a very serious illness so doon sa mga taong walang magawa kundi humusga, please lang, maawa naman kayo. Yung iba pag may cancer or heart disease, naaawa kayo. Same goes here. Hindi ginusto ng mga depressed na magkaron sila ng ganitong klaseng sakit. It's from chem imbalance or lahi, or dala lang talaga ng matitinding dagok sa buhay. Hindi ibig sabihin na wala silang gana mabuhay or wala silang appreciation sa buhay na binigay sa kanila ng Diyos. Kung alam nyo lang kung gano kahirap at kasakit magkaron ng depression, baka sakaling maisip nyo na alamin muna kung ano itong sakit na ito baka kayo mag judge. Ang hirap kasi sa ating mga pinoy mabilis tayo humusga kahit di pa alam ang totong sitwasyon. Napakadali magbukas ng bibig at magsulat ng comment kesa pagaralan ang tunay na kalagayan ng mga taong may ganitong klaseng sakit. Sa amerika depression is considered a very serious illness. they have programs doctors support system etc para s

Sugarol pala to....nagbebenta na lang ng gamit para may ibili ng pagkain..

Mental illness is the same as other illnesses. If it is due to chemical imbalance it needs to be corrected. Di ba pag ang taoy ay may diabetes, or cancer or ibang physical illnesses, naunawaan natin sila, naawa tayo sa kanila pero kapag mental illnesses parang kinokondena or kinukutya natin. It is not because she did not die on her first attempts, we would say that the intention was not serious. If I have not visited a mental institution and observed and talked to the clients/patients I would never understand how mental illnesses could be serious sometimes more than physical illnesses. Tulad ni lyka, may iba sa kanila na nakailang attempt na rin ng suicide. The severity of the attempt also depends on their access to equipments/materials to use. I don't think paawa effect yan. It is a disorder, a mood disorder.
Di ba pag may physical disorder or illness tayo pumupunta tayo sa doctor at the same time pray? I believe it would help her, see a doctor/psychiatrist and rehabilitation I think is good kasi med

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Nuong kapanahunan niya siya ang isa sa manga merong magandang mukha. Sana pag artistahin nalang niya ang manga anak niya o kaya ay humingi ng child support sa ex husband. Sana hindi siya nag shoshoping ng drugs.

Tama nasa tao ang gawa, nasa diyos ang awa. Pero hindi nga niyang kayang tulungan ang sarili niya kahit gusto niya kasi nga yung chemical sa utak niya ay hindi tama ang pagkakatimpla, ok...Wala siyang power tulungan ang sarili niya. That is beyond her power!

4 times na pala.. di nya talaga gusto mag-suicide.. yung sa kanya is nananakot lang or nagpapa-awa.. kc kung gusto nya talaga matigok.. sisiguraduhin nya nung first or second attempt e matutuluyan na sya.. bka hiwa2 lang ang style nya.. hehehe

anyways.. sana magbalik- loob sya sa Dyos para magkaroon sya ng peace of mind.. alisin nya ang galit sa puso at matutong magpatawad.. mahalin nya rin ang sarili nya.. pano nyang sasabihin na mahal nya ang mga anak nya kung hindi nya mahal ang sarili nya.. pray lang sister!

35 I agree with your comment. Pinag aaralan ko ngayon yan. Tama hindi dapat husgahan siya. Kahit ayaw niya pero yung brain chemical niya ay hindi balance. For everyone, yan mental disease ok. Kaya huwag na tayong mang husga lalo na at wala tayong ibibigay na pang shopping sa kanya lol.

sana mag-rosaryo silang buong pamilya araw-araw. unti-unti magbabago rin ang pamumuhay nila. sa kanila magsisimuula yan. lahat ng hirap ng kalooban nila gagaan sa pagdasal ng rosary. sana magkapatawaran na rin sila ng nanay niya dahil fourth commandment ng Diyos ang pag honor sa mga magulang. dapat rin siguro yung mga ibang kilala nilang artista na active sa simbahan, ay hikayatin si lyka at buong pamilya niya para sumali sa mga prayer meetings at magbalik loob sa Diyos. makakatulong rin kung pagkaabalahan niya nag pagtulong sa mga nasalanta ng bagyo dahil mas marami pa rin ang mga taong mas higit na nangangailangan bukod sa kanya.

minsan kapag nahihirapan tayo, nakakabuti na tumulong pa rin sa iba dahil doon natin makikita ang mission ng Diyos para sa atin na ang mundo natin ay malawak at mayroon pa rin tayong maibibgay sa ngalan Niya. it's not all about us, ika nga, kaya don't give up and think na wala tayong silbi, dahil lahat ng buhay natin may saysay.

she is into some kind of treatment ata pero isnt it better for her to be in a rehab para continous ang pag eevaluate sa kanya. kasi kung nasa labas lang siya eh madami siya magiging problema lalo na at gusto niya magshopping eh ala namang pera. sa rehab hindi siya makakalabas.

hmm dapat mong kilalanin si snooky serna... lol nakakaloka...

hay nako, walang pang halaga sa buhay.. sana may matutunan ng matinding lesson para naman ingatan ang buhay nila..

walang kwenta yang pa awa effect.. if they admit my problem sila, face it and seek professional help.. minsan personal attitude ang dapat unahin bago makapag move on!!!

cont and psychiatric attention ay nakakatulong. Hindi kailangan ni lyka and condemnation,. She needs help to be able to help herself.Without outside help, it maybe too late.

pero okey pa rin at nagpainterview pa ha.

10 to 15 percent of depressed people commit suicide, I should say.

AS what I read, maraming dahilan and depression at isa na ang central nervous system neurotransmitter abnormalities na kung saan antidepressive medications may help. And depressive syndrome frequently accompanies other psychiatric disorders such as obsessive-compulsive disorder.And about 10 to 15 of depressed people eventually commit suicide.
Sana huwag naman nating husgahan si lyka, obviously, hindi niya kayang lutasin ang condition niyang mag-isa. Kailangan niya ng tulong. Sometimes it does not have to do about having kids or not, having money or not. Depression is even the fourth leading cause of disability in the United States. Kung nasa Amerika si Lyka, may institution na kung saan especially the suicidal ay dinadala at doon ineevaluate sila, may counselling, psychiatric therapy and are given medication to help them deal with depression. Most people if not all, get depressed pero siguro ang kay lyka is a major depressive disorder in which like other medical/mental conditions, medical attention and

ms. lyka try to be strong for you kid's sake. seek God's help especially in times like this. mas kawawa ang mga anak mo pag nawala ka and besides, your soul would definitely go straight to hell once you commit suicide. you'll be damn for eternity. please calling all network, please save ms. lyka, she needed help not just financially but to save her from possible comdemnation. for her daughter, watch out for your mom 'coz she'll definitely try it again. suicidal patients are like that, especially during the times that you think they suddenly have a good outlook in life, from worse and suddenly shifted to being happy. they'll try it over and over again till then become successful. not unless, they resolved their depression and ideation about suicide per se. be strong and pray to God for more guidance. first time to comment on this site, for i really feel we have all obligations to save one onother.

magka-comeback eto.

To lyka ugarte...di ka ba nahiya niyan sa mga anak mo? mas matitino pa ang mga anak kesa ikaw..e kung namana kaya nila yang kasira ulo mo ano masasabi mo? Tumayo ka at igapang mo ang mga anak mo dahil nung binigyan ka ng Diyos ng pagkakataong umangat e di mo sinamantala yung pagkakataon...ngayong bumalik ka sa hirap e magpapakamatay ka? bakit? Di mo na ba naisip ang mga kawawa mong anak? imbes na trabaho ang hanapin mo at ng magkapera ka at may ipakain ka sa mga ank mo e magpakamatay ang iniisip mo!!

suicide is the worst act of selfishness and stupidity.she has to realize that she wants to escape her problems here and her own kids to face eternal damnation.she needs counselling and rehab to be saved from her madness.i feel sorry for her kids..i hope lyka gets well and look at the brighter side of life.i wonder wala man lang naipon itong nung prime nya..that's really sad.God bless

Mahirap kung may mental illness. Who would like to employ her kung ganito pala siya.

hindi ba dapat nasa rehab siya? kawawa naman mga anak niya at nakikita siya sa ganyang kalagayan, nagkakaroon tuloy ng trauma mga bata..sana magpagaling siya muna sa rehab..

halika lyka, magsugal tayo pag uwi ko nyahaahhahahaha.... hindi ka makakapasok sa k a s i n o. banned ka doon...

bakit hindi dalhin ang mga bata sa kanilang tatay? kasi hindi maganda na ang mga bata nasa nanay na suicidal.

magtulungan ang pamilya diba,...magiging malakas ang tao kapag may god sya s alife,.......so,.lyka,..b wid god lagi,..kilalanin mo sya,...lahat ng stars dapt,..

calling both ABS-CBN and GMA7 Management...baka may trabaho kayo for her?

nasa tao ang gawa, nasa Diyos ang awa. praying to God is good, but kelangan mo rin ms. lyka magbanat ng buto imbes na magpadala sa emosyon at maghanap ng dakilang prince charming. daming tao na-dedepress but lalo na me mga anak, they cannot afford depression at self-destruction anymore.there are jobs abroad as caregivers. wag maciadong choosy until you are in a better position at wag umasa sa iba, they also have their burden. you are where you are as a result of your actions, don't blame God or therapy.

take it from ricky reyes, boy abunda na hanggang ngayon kahit 70s na mga nanay nila..sila pa rin ang nag aalaga.

daming mga stars na super mahal nila mga magulang nila....kaya naman sila pinagpapala ng sobra sobra din.

lahat ng problema natin may pinag uugatan..niwala ako ang pinaguugatan ng problema mo lyka ay ang pagbabale wala mo sa iyong nanay.

kung wala na siya, pede mo siya dalawin...at nandiyan ang Diyos na nag aantay sa iyong pagsisisi...whatever you have done in the past.

parang nabasa ko na sinabi ng anak niyang si kimberley...ung first attempt ni lyka was when she had a fight with her mother? tamad na kasi ako magbasa.... Biblically speaking, kapag wala kang respeto sa mga magulang mo or lets say sa nanay mo, kahit anong gawin mo sa buhay, kahit anong yaman mo, hindi ka pa rin magiging successful. bakit hindi balikan ni lyka ang kanyang nanay at humingi ng patawad? or sabihin na natin na ung nanay niya ang may kasalanan...STILL, nanay mo yun na dapat mong hingan ng tawad. Start from there lyka and everything will be okey. That is a Godly thing to do. ask forgiveness from your mother..sana buhay siya.

yan...ilan sa mag stars ,.ang hina nila,..compra nyo nga buhay nyo sa ilang tao sa mundo....tsk.....pwed iba...wala kase kayoong DYOS,.kaya hina nyo....hina nyo,......tsk..ok lang sana ig mag isa lang kayo e,.may mga anak kayo,tapos ganyan pa nangyayari,...bago mag asawa at mangati jan,..mag isip..kawawa mga anak nyo,..

naku hindi naman sinasadya ang clinical depression and im sure hindi rin gusto ni ms lyka that she'd feel that way di ba?

sana she'll learn to trust God or join a community or support group para ma encourage sya to fight. hindi biro talaga ang depression esp if you feel that you have no one. kaka-awa.

ano bayan...ang hina ni lyka,.sa buhay,...girl,.maging matapang ka...anjan si GOD,..look other pipol ,..mas malaki ang dinadala nila sayo..ok,..wag kang ganyan..maging modelo ka sa mga anak mo .....u submit yourself kay GOD at lalakas ka,..magtiwala ka iha....sana lang lahat ng past stars makita muli s tv o movies diba???

bless pa nga si lyka, dahil may mga anak pa siang buhay khit nasalanta ang bahay at gamit nia ni ondoy... ung iba nga nawalan na ng mga anak, magulang at pati bahay... dapat nga lalo pa siang magpasalamat kay Lord dahil may mga anak pa siang maaasahan... kawawa naman mga anak nito kung ganto ang nanay.. mukang maluho itong si lyka eh...

dalaga na anak nya eh...hindi ba pede mag artista na lang si kimberley? para naman may pagkaka abalahan na lang si lyka..sama sama sa anak... mahirap talaga intindihin mga suicidal....sala sa init..sala sa lamig sila....baka mamaya itong anak pa niya ang maunang matigok sa mga binibigay na problema ng nanay. posible yan! kabata ng anak nakailang suicide na nanay...bibigay yang bata...kailangan din niya ng guidance at therapy.

Alam nyo, it's not that easy. I believe in God and that He is all powerful pero He will not be able to do anything if you are not wiling to reach for the hand He is offering. Who knows, baka professional help is what He is offering pero she doesn't have the strength to take it.

I don't know, baka dahil I grew up sa States where mas accepted ang mga mental illnesses na I think she needs more than just quot;magpakatatag.quot; Clinical depression is not like a normal quot;I-feel-sad.quot; Suicide is a very real threat.

I wish her all the best. Please get help, if not for your sake but for the sake of those who love you like your children.

madalas ko siyang nakikita sa sm nagsa-shoping, tapos may problema sa pera

siguro nagsusugal ka lyka kaya nakilala mo itong tiga pagcor na ito.

baka naman kasi ginagamit mo mga lalake para pagka kuartahan? hindi naman ganoon kalaki ang sueldo ng mga dealers or agam. lalo na may pamilya din sila...tapos ikaw masyadong gastador iiwanan ka nga..

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