A source close to Toni Rose Gayda's family reveals to PEP a few details about the tragic death of Edward James Lim (in photo).

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Father of James Lim, Moonie Lim, speaks out: "It was just a plain accident." March 21, 2010 04:31 PM
Toni Rose and Rosa Rosal calmly respond to suicide rumors: "We know kung ano ang katotohanan." March 21, 2010 03:46 PM
Toni Rose Gayda and family try to find solace and meaning in the short, tragic life of James Lim March 21, 2010 02:56 PM
Toni Rose Gayda's youngest son dies in a freak accident March 19, 2010 06:27 PM

What is important is that before one dies, he will make a decision to receive Christ as Savior and Lord of his/her life, and eternty awaits him in heaven..the Bible says, quot;Yet to all who received Him, to those who believed in His name, He gave the right to become children of God.quot; John 1:12

Ms Toni Rose is a born-again Christian, like me.As a true believer in the Lord, though she feels the grief, we or she can't blame God because we believe that everything that nothing happens by accident to a child of God..And He allowed it to happen for a purpose--primarily for the perfect good of His children..It maybe so tragic and seemingly very bad, but it is still the good LOrd Who calls the shot..Romans 8:28 quot;All things work together for good-to those who love the Lord and are called for His purpose..quot;

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i can relate the feelings of toni,na hindi pa ngsisink in ang pagkamatay ng anal nya.napakalungkot iyan pgmrealise nya na wala na ang anak nya.ganyan din ang nngyari sa brother ko ng naksidinti sa motorsiklo last dec.ngsalita pa daw yun kung kamusta ang damage ng motorsiklo tpos napamatay lng din sya ilang minuto kalipas.condolence toni.

dito din sa korea,ayaw na ayaw ng mga tao dito ang numerong 444,444
ayaw din nila sa building na pang 4flr.pero walang pagpipilian,magkaka 5'6'7 and so on kung walang 4flr.kaya ang ginagawa nalang nila,sa bawat dorm number ng 4flr hindi nilalagyan ng 4 na numero,halimbawa dorm 1'2'3en 5'6 etc.
malas daw kase,yun daw ang petsa ng gyera dito at maraming namatay.

dito sa korea puro building ang mga tinitirahan dito,at lahat ng building may veranda.hanggang 25flr.
dati sa 16flr kami,pero lumipat din nsa 3flr nalang kami,.
yung nasa 16flr kami,pag dumudungaw ako sa may veranda kakatakot talaga!buti maliit lang ako kaya hindi ako nakakaupo sa may veranda,..pero sa 3flr,iniisip ko nga na kung sakali tumalon ako mabubuhay pa kaya ako?damuhan naman kase ang binabagsakan,.
pero wag naman natin sisihin ang building na walang veranda,..mas maganda nga na may veranda,kase kung puro salamin at walang harang na bakal abah eh magtutuloy-tuloy ka malaglag!pero kung matangkad ka,may tendency talaga na malaglag!kaya paalala lang,sa mga matatangkad na may veranda ang bahay,wag doon magtambay,kung gusto manigarilyo o magpahangin,andyan naman ang small window..

Dear Toni - Condolence. I am also a mother and I feel with you your sorrows.
Our prayers to you and your family. Also to your Mom.

'Wassup BSB? People cope and grieve in different ways. I'm sure Toni Rose is still in shock, disbelief, and in denial.Please give her a break!

Ganito din ang ikinamatay ni Miko Sotto. Kapag nakatira sa mataas na palapag sa isang building kailangang hwag umupo sa mga railings o pader ng balcony.

...which means the show must go on! uh huh!

...if it was a freak accident and not suicide then condolence to Tony Rose!

...funny after the incident she looks all ssso cheerful and somewhat unaffected on the choob! ...reminds me of Marie Osmond after her son's suicide the next day, she continued her concerts in vivaglam Las Vegas! ...you gggo gggurl break a leg!

...that's Showbiz!

condolence... sayang!!!pero God has a purpose...

Toni Rose said- his son didn't commit suicide. She said maybe he leaned on the railings ng balcony na off balance at nahulog. Si James ay 6'2 kaya posibleng nahulog dahil matangkad siya at mababa ang mga railings.

People tend to judge and ask questions kapag ganitong klase ang aksidente.Its very tragic talaga. Imagine he was still CONCIOUS after the fall? No major head trauma reported but he crushed his liver,massive broken ribs and internal bleeding.My prayers to Toni Rose..

Why Bad Things happened to Good People?
Nakikiramay Po Ms.Toni at kay Mam Rosal..

Desperate Moves na nman,ipaplug ug BoraNG borang Kembot2x Party sa thread na ito.haizt to highest level.
Newi,ang bait ng Family na ito.never heard mga intriga galing sa kanila.bakit pa mgsuggest iautopsy ang bangkay?ano pang silbi?
Tama ka hndi maganda ang Number 4 sa Chinese ang number 8 ang maswerte.pero ako yaw ko tlaga sa mga high rise building bukod sa may potential mahuhulog ka,prone den sa collapse during an Earthquake.Earthquake Hotspot pa naman Pinas.

my condolences to the family. this reminded me of mico's accident years ago.

Accidents happens all the time. Maybe he was tired and sleepy then he leaned on the railings. There was NO HEAD TRAUMA that means he tried his very best to protect his head and he was very aware of it. He even survived for more than an hour which I think it was very hard and traumatic experienced for Toni Rose to see her son in pain and agony.

People ask a lot of questions when things like these happens. Its very sad and tragic to lose someone you love this way.

Condolence Toni Rose..

and it happened sa 4th floor....di ba sa chinese wala silang 4th floor sa kanilang mga condos, apartments, buildings...etc

number 4 means death sa chinese

anyway, My Prayers to the family.

kakaunti lang silang family talaga. nabawasan pa..

never ko nagustuhan ang condo na may verandah, ako nasusunod kapag nagre rent kami ng asawa ko ... nakakatakot dumungaw...un pa kayang umupo ka sa railings...nginig!

Yung railings inilgay dun for a reason, yun is to prevent someone from falling over. Pero ang problema, ang iba kasing tao, ginagawang upuan ang railings eh Hindi naman dapat, hence, the accident. Ke taasan pa yan, nasa Tao pa rin yin on the end kung talagang gusto nyang umupo. Be it a lesson na, di upuan ang railings.

the fact na he was conscious enough to protect his head from the fall, meant that he's in his right mind. it is in the report that he died due to internal bleeding and broken ribs and not through head trauma, kasi nga na cushion nya yung head nya. and gising pa sya ng isinugod ss hospital.

magagawa kaya yun ng isang na ka drugs.
walang masama magbigay ng comments pero dapat responsible naman.
facts before presumptions.

the incident happened 430am and toni rose gayda told her son not to smoke inside the house lalo na at nasa omputer, kaya DAW lumabas ang anak at sa verandah nagsmoke...ang aga naman pala sila nagigising..

may sinabi ung driver nila na may sakit anak niya? bakit walang news about that?

i admire this family, lalo na kay ms rosa rosal pero bakit in a few hours na cremate na ang body? di ba pag ganyang accident kelangan ng further investigation? normal procedure when things like these happens.

etong c hellokittyhawaii, wla man lng bahid ng awa sa katawan. namatayan na nga ang tao, over assuming pa ng kung anu ano. as if alam na alam mo bawat detalye. tsk.tsk.tsk. kawawa kang nilalang.

I agree with one comment of this pepster- they should come up with stricter rules sa mga building codes. Yung height ng railings..sana taasan pa..

Paki hinay hinay lang sa pagco-comment- kung wala po kayo doon sa place of accident, hwag nyong i presume na quot;stonedquot; yung tao kaya nahulog...kilala ka ba niya? or friend mo ba siya? sana naman spend your time more worthy other than prejudging people...

si miko sotto yata eh naninigarilyo rin ng mahulog sa balcony...dapat kasi ang railings sa isang condo eh hanggang chest ng isang adult...ngayon kung sasampa ka at uupo ka sa mismong railings eh delikado talaga yan

I hope pepsters will just concentrate on the topic involved.Discussed about it. Talking about something elseASAP Boracay doesnt belong in this topic.There are other topics to pepsters can put his/her thoughts on. What does ASAP has to do with the topic on the demise of Ms. Gayda's son? Senseless. It just shows that this kind of person is not thinking and very insensitive.

sus cguro stoned yung anak nya kaya nahulog....im sure nag drugs yan! pano naman yan mahuhulog sa terrace eh yung mga railings nyan hanggang beywang. eh di wala sa sarili yan kaya nahulog. pep dont ever delete my post..may point ako!

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ALL THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON.///GOD KNOWS....CONDOLENCE!!

even in the most painful situation, ang nasa isip talaga ng pamilyang ito ay kung paano makakatulong sa kapwa! nagawa pa nilang idonate ang mga mata sa nangangailangan, what a noble heart indeed! my condolences and sympathy goes to peopole like toni rose and her mother rosa rosal! the world is a better place because of people like you!

Condolence po sa nga naiwan..Isa sa pinakamasakit na mangyari sa buhay ng tao ang mawalan ng anak!..ibibigay mo buhay mo kung maaari para lang sa anak..

hinde man lang na-autopsy? baka may foul play or baka may drugs involve?

condolence po sa family.

RIP Condolence po..

condolence po.

i dont understand bakit nahulog. he was an adult na eh. buti sana if 4 yrs old plng..

condolence po

Rest in peace James..Kakalungkot ang nangyari..Life is too short talaga..

kalungkot nmn.condolence po

Condolence to Ms. Toni Rose Gayda and family.

sobrangs akit talaga ito! grabe naramdaman namin din ang sobrang lungkot magkasunod halos ang pagkamatay ng nanay ko at nephew ko..sobrangs akit talaga sana buhay forever ang mga tao walang kamatayan. condolence toni makkaaya mo din yan. gusto ko si toni sa eat bulaga mabait siyang tao..jologs din.

condolence...

I can't help but cry...my condolences to the family....

They should really check these buildings; isnt this how Miko Sotto died as well?

thats the hardest part for a mother...

bakit nanigarilyo lang sa veranda ng condo nahulog sya? and he was 26 yrs old na at alam nya na ang delikado na lugar na pwede sya mahulog.... just wondering?

anyway, condolence to toni rose and rosa rosal and family.

Diba may isa pang anak si Toni Rose na may sakit?

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satotoopo

Moony Lim a Fil-chinese businessman is the father of ms. Gaida's children. They were married then annulled.

my deepest sympathies to toni rose and tita rosa rosal

condolence toni and to ur family!

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