Moonie Lim (inset), the former husband of Toni Rose Gayda, says unfounded speculations about their son's death add to the family's grief, but he draws comfort from his good memories of James (main photo): "These past few weeks, we're very happy when we saw each other. Everything he requested, I granted it to him naman. We had a very beautiful New Year together."

Noel Orsal (James) & Screen grab from GMA News (Moonie)

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Toni Rose and Rosa Rosal calmly respond to suicide rumors: "We know kung ano ang katotohanan." March 21, 2010 03:46 PM
Toni Rose Gayda and family try to find solace and meaning in the short, tragic life of James Lim March 21, 2010 02:56 PM
"Mom, I'm in pain" were the last words of Toni Rose Gayda's son before passing away March 19, 2010 11:04 PM

Condolence to the Family.

hindi ko sinasabi na may depression problem ang anak ni toni rose gayda. what do i know, kapareho ko lang kayong usyusero dito, lol. im just talking about depression in general dahil may mga ka pep kasing naguusap about depression. sa pinas kasi parang taboo pa rin hanggang ngayon ang nagpapa phsychiatrist, phsycologist, counseling o kung ano pa mang problemang pangkaisipan. kaya hindi nagiimprove karamihan ang pananaw dahil 'they think inside a box' most of the time. hayyyys ewan!

Maawa naman sana sa pamilyang namatayan at huwag nang gumawa ng mga kasinungalingan.

I DONT WHY PEOPLE WONT RESPECT THE FAMILY OF TONI ROSE, I UNDERSTAND AND SYMPHATIZED THE FAMILY. PEOPL ARE MAKING SPECULATION. dont add the families ordeal this time. toni your in my prayers. i can see how brave you are.

maraming tao ang nagsa suffer sa depression na hindi nagpapagamot dahil alam nila na huhusgahan sila ng sira ulo. so they suffer quietly and live miserably. sana mabuksan ang kaisipan ng maraming tao na ang utak ay parte ng katawan, pwede itong magkaroon ng diperensiya katulad ng puso,atay o ano pang parte ng katawan. walang may gusto nito at pasalamat kayo na hindi nangyayari sa inyo. halimbawa kung nagkasakit kayo sa puso, tama bang maliitin kayo dahil sa pagkakasakit niyo? common sense lang naman di ba.
maraming pilipino kasi ang may ugaling kapag nakita nilang naiiba ang tao ay pinagtatawanan nila. nakaka disappoint talaga.

I cant believe that so many people ae ignorant! Kapag may depression ba isang tao ibig sabihin siraulo? wow! hy don't you read some educational books regarding depression, maybe if depression was acknowledged instead of being denied, maybe... maybe , you could have saved your son's life. Ignorant!

People tend to jugde and ask a lot of questions when accident happens like these. I think it was really a freak accident, maybe James was so tired and sleepy then he went outside he leaned on the railing and fell.

James was 6'2 and probably the railing of the balcony is below his waist. I'm sure it was very traumatic for Toni Rose to see her son in pain and agony co'z James was still CONCIOUS for over an hour before he expired due to internal bleeding.

Napa-cremate ng pamilya ni Toni Rose agad dahil ni-release ng ospital ang labi ng anak. Di ire-release ng ospital kung may suspetsang may nangyaring kalokohan at ire-refer yan sa NBI. Nakaabot sa ospital nang buhay ang bata at halos isang oras pa bago nabawian ng buhay. Routine sa ospital na kumuha ng dugo bago lagyan ng swero para ipa-eksamin for drugs sa lahat ng kaso ng trauma at siguradong ginawa yan dun. Ang aking nakabubunsong kapatid na namatay ay pina-cremate din namin wala pang 24 oras pagtapos niya namatay dahil hindi matiis ng aking magulang na galawin siya ng mga di kilala para ipa-embalma siya. Kaya ang mga taong namimilit na may conspiracy theory sa kasong ito, magtigil na kayo at maawa kayo sa pamilyang ito.

lol di ko magets ang mga tao minsan. kapag may masaya, di pwedeng mawala yung maninira. kapag asa gitna ka ng pagdadalamhati, di pwedeng mawala yung magpapalala ng sitwasyon. desisyon ng pamilya yan, respetuhan nalang diba? gusto niyo talagang inuungkat pa eh, para naman may mga karapatan kayo kung makapagdemand dyan. condolence po uli sa pamilya ng naulila

continuation:

... if a statement is given, to ridicule MENTAL HEALTH PROBLEMS, then it is right to criticize such IGNORANCE. Hindi po tamang i perpetuate nating mga Pinoy, ang pagmamaliit sa problemang pangkalusugan na kaugnay sa pag-iisip. Gusto pala nila ng ABOVE BOARD report, bakit pinipili nila ang katotohanan. Di hayaan ang isang transparent report. E papaano naman magkakaroon ng transparent report, kung pinaka cremate na agad ang labi? ILABAS LANG ANG KATOTOHANAN NA IT WAS AN ACCIDENT, sabi ng ama. How does this father know? How many children do you know, are honest with their parents, on how they feel deep inside? Kasama ba nila araw araw ang anak nila?

Once a person open themselves up in public, and their statement printed to be read by the public, the readers will will give opinions. If it is a plain family affair, they should not have issued a public statement like the above, and should instead just said, PLEASE RESPECT OUR PRIVACY IN THIS TIME OF GRIEVING.

Pina autopsy man or hindi...it's a plain family affair. It's none of your business!

Hindi ko iniisip na nagpakamatay ang anak nilang 27 years old. Pero sa isang banda, bakit naman pina cremate naman agad agad ang labi. Para above board, sana ay na autopsy, para makita, among others, na walang trace of illegal substance sa katawan. Ang ilang illegal substance, creates delusion, na minsan akala ay nakakalipad siya, at lilipad nga. Hindi ko rin nagustuhan ang sinabi ng ama, na di niya matanggap and kadahilanang DEPRESSION, dahil di niya matanggap na SIRA ANG ULO ng anak niya. IGNORANCE po ang ganyang pananalita, ridiculing MENTAL HEALTH problems. We should stop indifference to mental health issues. Tignan nyo ang report na ito: WORLD MENTAL HEALTH:PROBLEMS AND PRIORITIES IN LOW INCOME COUNTRIES, by Robert Desjarlais, Leon Eisenberg

why do they need to have an autopsy when the family said na it was plain accident? let us just respect their family. i thing they are telling the truth. respeto na lang sa namatayan...

condolence....leave this family alone they are grieving

naku naman po, tigilan na ang intriga, ang sakit na nga ng ngyari sa family eh may intriga pa. let it be kung ano man yon.

my question is bakit ang bilis pina-cremate ang body at hindi pina-autopsy muna?here abroad ,if that happened you can't go near the accident site and will be investigated first.

meron kasing nangyari before sa kamias qc, manor hote yata yon, na may steel balcony. pinataasan yung railing ng balcony kasi madaming tumatakas or tumatalon doon na hindi kakakabayad? e nasunog yun, madaming namatay doon kasi nakulong, hindi nakatalon o nailabas.... tapos eto naman. well...nangyari na yan....condolence na lang kina Rosa Rosal and Toni.

saka sabi nung friend ni tony na yung suot na short ng anak nya medyo silk kaya madulas talaga yun

i don't think na nagsuicide. accident talaga yon kasi kung ako magsuicide siguraduhin kong patay ako at wala akong maramdamang pain or hindi na mag suffer.

unsafe pala mga condo dyan sa Pinas.

Condolence po sa family.Dapat kase kapag may ambulance kasama din ang pulis for under investigation para maiwasan ang suspicious at baka isipin meron foul play.Again Condolence sa family.

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