As far as Kris Aquino is concerned, her marriage with basketball player James Yap "is over."
Ito ang isiniwalat ni Kris, 39, sa kanyang pahayag sa The Buzz kaninang hapon, June 27, na siya ring huling araw niya bilang co-host ng programa.
Binasag ni Kris ang kanyang katahimikan pagkatapos ng ilang linggong haka-haka tungkol sa totoong estado ng kanilang pagsasama ni James, 28.
Sa kanyang Twitter entry noong June 16 ay inamin ni Kris na nakaapekto sa kanilang pagsasama ang nakaraang presidential elections, kung saan ay tumakbo at nanalo ang kuya ni Kris na si Noynoy Aquino bilang Presidente.
Sa isang panayam naman noong June 22 ay kinumpirma ng kaibigan at co-host ni Kris sa The Buzz na si Boy Abunda na umalis na ng kanilang tahanan si Kris kasama ang kanyang mga anak na sina Josh at Baby James. (CLICK HERE to read related story.)
Pagkatapos nito ay pinili ni Kris na manahimik muna tungkol sa pinagdadaanan nila ni James. Hanggang sa magsalita nga siya kanina sa The Buzz upang ipaalam na sumuko na siya sa pagsasama nila ni James bilang mag-asawa.
Hindi ito ang unang pagkakataon na nagkaroon ng problema sa pagsasama nina Kris at James, ngunit sa pagkakataong ito ay tila wala nang balikang mangyayari.
"On my part, what I'm comfortable saying is, with finality I can say, ako sumuko na," sabi ni Kris.
Nilinaw ni Kris na hindi ito isang biglaang desisyon.
"I just want to say na whatever decision I have come to, it's not a spur of the moment decision. Hindi ito nangyari na nagising lang ako isang araw at sinabi kong ayoko na. Matagal naming sinubukan. James and I both tried to really make this work," pahayag niya.
Pero tumanggi nang magbigay ng detalye si Kris sa sinapit ng kanilang pagsasama ni James. Ang tanging may karapatan lamang daw na humingi ng pagpapaliwanag ay ang anak nila na si Baby James.
"Kung anuman ang dahilan why this marriage, on my part, I'm saying, is over, the only person I will owe an explanation to, and the only person who can demand from me na bakit kayo naghiwalay, is my son," saad ni Kris.
Dagdag niya, "The worst thing I can do for Baby James is, when he's 7 or 8 years old, ang mahanap niya sa YouTube yung explanation kung bakit naghiwalay ang nanay at tatay niya. He deserves much more than that. He deserves to hear it only from me and only from James. Because in any separation, there are two sides to the story. And we owe it to him, James will owe it to him, that I will owe it to him to explain to him."
Pinili raw ni Kris na manahimik muna tungkol sa isyu hindi dahil sa nalalapit na inauguration ng kanyang kuya na si President-elect Noynoy Aquino sa June 30.
"My decision to keep quiet is because I asked myself 'Kapag in-explain ko kay Baby James, number one, mauunawaan ba niya ako? Number 2, rerespetuhin pa ba niya ako? At number 3, mamahalin pa ba niya ako?' At nasagot ko naman kagabi na 'yes.' I know my son will understand me, will respect me and still love me. And I feel that he will love me more, respect me more, and value me more if I keep quiet today," saad niya.
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224 ellajane
If you cannot give a good home environment to your children, I can understand why you have to separate. Even though you separate, I am sure your children will grow up full of love and confidence.
God bless you Kris and James.
223 globalpinay
222 lollipop1
221 myca_bag
yang issue mo matagal nang nilumot sa kangkungan. wala ka bang bago?
220 indiahenretta
219 myca_bag
nakakasawa kamo pero ikaw yata ang pinakamaraming comments dito. asows, style nimo bulok. hahaha
kris huwag mong pansinin ang haters mo. inggiters lang sila sa yo kasi sikat na sikat ka, first sister ka pa.
218 sayaw_kikay
217 perez22
there is really something wrong with you. you clearly have no life but to continuously make negative and rude comments about ppl. clearly wala kang breeding / class. you are full of hatred and negativeness. if you dont like kris aquino then stop reading articles about her. kris aquino is such a kind and generous person. have you helped thousands of poor children study and get an education? maybe we need to ask her to help you get an education as well. or at least some counselling.
216 mrpogiako
215 myca_bag
214 globalpinay
213 sayaw_kikay
212 astrodeus
211 mrpogiako
210 tigerland99
Even her closest friends do not know the real reason of their separation.
Lahat ng lumalabas ay puros hearsay.
Manghusga kayo kung malilinis kayo.
209 tigerland99
Nagbibigay din ako ng opinion ko. Masyado kasing nagmamalinis yung iba dito.
208 astrodeus
207 globalpinay
206 angel_akoni
205 sayaw_kikay
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