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Kris Aquino: "I shouldn't admit weakness, but I'm falling apart because ending a marriage is hell."

by Erwin Santiago posted on August 19, 2010  STATS: 96516 Views | 789 Comments

 

"Bimby gave me kleenex & asked what's wrong mom? I was honest & said mama & papa r fighting. Then he said wise words na super wake up call for me, u r brave mama ko. I asked him if he wanted his papa to come back to live w/ us & he said mama dito tayo (then he said name of condo where we live), papa ko sa other house pero friends tayo no more away-away," says Kris Aquino on Twitter.

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"I shouldn't admit weakness, but I'm falling apart because ending a marriage is hell."

Ito ang bahagi ng magkakasunod na tweets ni Kris Aquino sa kanyang Twitter account ngayong gabi, August 19. Ibinahagi ng TV host-actress sa Twitter ang kanyang saloobin tungkol sa pakikipaghiwalay niya sa asawang si James Yap at ang pag-uusisa sa kanya ng kanilang three-year-old son na si Baby James o Bimby.

Sa unang tweet ni Kris ay inamin niyang "totally heartsick" at wala raw siyang tigil sa pag-iyak ngayong araw. Hindi rin siya nakasipot sa live episode ng Pilipinas, Win Na Win! kaninang hapon dahil may sakit siya.

Sabi ni Kris sa kanyang Twitter post: "Yes I was sick today, totally heartsick & crying nonstop. I shouldn't admit weakness, but I'm falling apart because ending a marriage is hell. Bimby gave me kleenex & asked what's wrong mom? I was honest & said mama & papa r fighting. Then he said wise words na super wake up call for me, u r brave mama ko. I asked him if he wanted his papa to come back to live w/ us & he said mama dito tayo (then he said name of condo where we live), papa ko sa other house pero friends tayo no more away-away."

Sa sumunod na tweet ni Kris ay sinabi niyang mag-o-offer siya ng "friendship" sa ama ng kanyang anak sa kanilang paghaharap sa korte bukas, August 20. Bukas ang unang araw ng hearing kaugnay ng petition ni Kris upang mapawalang-bisa ang kasal nila ni James, two-time Most Valuable Player ng Philippine Basketball Association. Nakasaad din sa petition ni Kris ang pagbabawal na makita ni James ang kanilang anak. (CLICK HERE to read related story.)

Aniya, "And so I face tomorrow's hearing w/ that intention, for bimby's sake, I'll offer friendship to his papa. Somebody text me, may angels tread before u sa path u'll go thru tomorrow. My angel baby james already did."

Bilang sagot naman sa inihaing petisyon ni Kris, humingi ang kampo ni James ng visitation rights para kay Baby James. (CLICK HERE to read related story.) Pero base sa ikatlong tweet ni Kris ay mukhang hindi na kailangang idaan pa sa korte ang kagustuhan ni James na makapiling ang anak.

Sabi ni Kris, "That is the truth in my heart & all that I feel. I know I failed as a wife & james also failed as a husband. But we still have a chance to succeed as parents. And our son deserves the best effort I can give. Di ko man nabigyan si bimby ng complete family, but I can still make sure he'll always feel the love of both his parents for him. Good night. Say a prayer for our hearing tomorrow."

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  • 469  ayra1979

    08/20/2010 | 10:20 AM
    hay naku kristita, kung d ka pa anak ng dating presidente ay matagal ka nang na label na 'BALIW' sa showbiz world..kakalurky ka talaga...sarap mo sabunutan!
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  • 468  pinaswheremyheartis

    08/20/2010 | 10:19 AM
    sometimes a 3 year old can say things na maaamaze ka. example my daughter when she was 3 nasa disneyworld kami at nawala ako sa kanila sa dami ng tao tinawagan ko sa phone daddy niya at nakikinig pala ang anak namin. hindi kami magkarinigan sa dami ng tao so sabi ng asawa ko - you're breaking up- so nung makita ko sila ang lungkot ng anak ko i asked her whats the problem sabi niya - mommy, daddy said you and him are breaking up is it true? but i dont want you to break up. - ang lungkot niya talaga. so i explained to her na sa phone yun kasi di kami magkarinigan not mean na magbe break up na marriage namin. hehehehe
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  • 467  jeweltones

    08/20/2010 | 10:19 AM
    dapat hindi na inisapubliko ang ganitong hiwalayan. pwde naman hush hush na lang ang lahat kasi sila sila rin ang masasaktan lalo na yung mga anak nila. hindi ko gets bakit kailangan pa magpa presscon ng mga lawyers, hindi naman ito trial by publicity dapat.

    tuloy, ang nega na ng image ni kris. when if she kept quiet people would just have given her more respect.
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  • 466  drieme

    08/20/2010 | 10:18 AM
    oo, agree ako jan! lukaret na yang babaeng kati-kati na yan. sana hinde na yan umuwi ng bansa. wala rin naman na yang show na mag re-rate pa.
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  • 465  undomesticgoddess

    08/20/2010 | 10:18 AM
    biglang kambyo si kris sa mga pinagsasabi nya kasi negang nega na dating nya sa mga tao these past few weeks.

    sus if i know gusto lang mag-hello sa mga endorsers. wag na wag daw kayo mag-gudbye sa kanya hahahahaha

    naku kris wala ka ng pag-asa..... gudbye showbiz ka na!
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  • 464  ShuttleEndeavor

    08/20/2010 | 10:14 AM
    sira ulo itong si Kris, magpatingin ka

    na sa Psychiatrist kasi yung mga tweets

    mo para kang si Sisa, luka-luka!!
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  • 463  aidangel0011

    08/20/2010 | 10:14 AM
    To Kris' friends, family and co-workers: when will you realize and admit that Kris is psychologically challenged and has a personality disorder? Please, make her understand that she has to undergo psychological therapy because she is becoming destructive not only to her husband, but especially to an innocent 3-year old child. What is her disorder? It's called HISTRIONIC PERSONALITY DISORDER. According to Wiki:

    Histrionic personality disorder HPD is defined by the American Psychiatric Association as a personality disorder characterized by a pattern of excessive emotionality and attention-seeking, including an excessive need for approval and inappropriate seductiveness, usually beginning in early adulthood. These individuals are lively, dramatic, enthusiastic, and flirtatious. They may be inappropriately sexually provocative, express strong emotions with an impressionistic style, and be easily influenced by others. Associated features may include egocentrism, self-indulgence, continuous longi
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  • 462  lambakatburol

    08/20/2010 | 10:14 AM
    HPD is characterized by at least 3 of the following:
    1. self dramatization, theatricality, exaggerated expressions of emotions
    2. Easily influenced by others or circumstances
    3. shallow and labile affectivity
    4. continual seeking for excitement and activities in which the patient is the center of attention
    5 inappropriate seductiveness in appearance or behavior
    6. over concern with physical attractiveness
    +++++++++
    JMHO kiri has satisfied at least 3 of the criteria above.
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  • 461  ilurvemahself

    08/20/2010 | 10:12 AM
    As much as i wanted to believe what she's saying now I still can't feel her sincerity... She has to do that because she knows that hte people that used to love and supported her with everything she's been through is beginning to hate her, the karma is starting now, flop tv show... Leave out of court yung visitations rights, in the first place she's the one who asks for it ngayon binabawi nya kasi she knows na nega na ang labas nya... sorry kris, but I think this is your last straw for now... You cant have everyone likes you still.... your friends should realize that if they're true to you they shouldve been the one who tells you right away whats wrong with you... too late kris, a lot of people hates you already and doesnt like to hear you talk anymore.. plus yung pag sagot mo pa sa interview sa mom ni james, as if sila yung nag start magsalita anything against you, haist......
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  • 460  chorva888

    08/20/2010 | 10:11 AM
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  • 459  lambakatburol

    08/20/2010 | 10:09 AM
    Historionic Personality disorder:
    With with HPD usually have good social skills to manipulate other people and become center of attention. It may also affect a person's social or romantic relationships or their ability to cope with losses or failures. They start relationships well but tend to falter when depth and durabilty are needed. They Lack genuine empathy.
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  • 458  pinay_rn

    08/20/2010 | 10:01 AM
    yeah right blah,blah,blah,blah...when are u gonna ever shut up kris???
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  • 457  honeybadger

    08/20/2010 | 10:00 AM
    ending a marriage is hell? eh bakit nung interview niya pagdating niya from the US nagpapacute pa siya and tumatawa pa siya. kumakanta pa nga siya kahit di siya singer di ba?
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  • 456  singpinay

    08/20/2010 | 09:56 AM
    kapal ng fez mo mag lie!! ginagamit mo pa ang anak mo to say those words! we dont believe that a 3 yr old child can say that! gumawa ka na nmn ng story, dapat sayo script writer eh
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  • 455  honeybadger

    08/20/2010 | 09:56 AM
    mahirap pala yung sobrang talino DAW, kasi sa sobrang talino nya iniinsulto na niya ang intelligence ng mga tao. akala ko ba she wants to protect her son eh bakit palagi na lang niya ginagamit. kawawang baby james. noon nga kung kani-kanino niya itinutuksong babaeng artista eh toddler pa lang yun! ano ba ang histrionic personality disorder? will it lead to being a SOCIOPATH?
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  • 454  bulaklak_2009

    08/20/2010 | 09:53 AM
    KRIS stop your kabaliwan. Nag iimbento ka na naman para MAAWA kami. NO WAY. KARMA sa kamalditahan mo. he HE! he HA HA
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  • 453  totoysipa

    08/20/2010 | 09:50 AM
    Kris, huwag pairalin ang pride. Kayong dalawa ni James, ayusin nyo ang mga sarili nyo dahil may isang inosenteng bata sa gitna ninyo.

    Tama iyan, kung hindi na kayo pwedeng maging mag-asawa, maging mabuting magulang naman kayo. Simulan nyo sa pamamagitan ng pagtikom ng bibig para magpa-interview tungkol sa away-away nyo.

    Yung sinasabi nyong pagmamahal sa anak ny, ISAGAWA, hindi lang sa pagsasalita.
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  • 452  mamafanatic

    08/20/2010 | 09:49 AM
    Mga ingetera... Tantanan nyo na si Kris.... Nadadaig ng demonyo ang kabutihan sa puss nyo.... Kung. Alam nyo lang na naka-Plano na ang entire clan ni manyak sa mamanahin Nya!!!! Kayo kaya- ano matatanggap nyo??? Sintensya ng langit.....
    Nagdurusa. Si Kris at para kayong demonyong nangungutya......
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  • 451  birtwal

    08/20/2010 | 09:48 AM
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  • 450  ellajane

    08/20/2010 | 09:48 AM
    Be strong.
    I dont know the complete story.
    But go with God!
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