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Kris Aquino: "I shouldn't admit weakness, but I'm falling apart because ending a marriage is hell."

by Erwin Santiago posted on August 19, 2010  STATS: 96515 Views | 789 Comments

 

"Bimby gave me kleenex & asked what's wrong mom? I was honest & said mama & papa r fighting. Then he said wise words na super wake up call for me, u r brave mama ko. I asked him if he wanted his papa to come back to live w/ us & he said mama dito tayo (then he said name of condo where we live), papa ko sa other house pero friends tayo no more away-away," says Kris Aquino on Twitter.

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"I shouldn't admit weakness, but I'm falling apart because ending a marriage is hell."

Ito ang bahagi ng magkakasunod na tweets ni Kris Aquino sa kanyang Twitter account ngayong gabi, August 19. Ibinahagi ng TV host-actress sa Twitter ang kanyang saloobin tungkol sa pakikipaghiwalay niya sa asawang si James Yap at ang pag-uusisa sa kanya ng kanilang three-year-old son na si Baby James o Bimby.

Sa unang tweet ni Kris ay inamin niyang "totally heartsick" at wala raw siyang tigil sa pag-iyak ngayong araw. Hindi rin siya nakasipot sa live episode ng Pilipinas, Win Na Win! kaninang hapon dahil may sakit siya.

Sabi ni Kris sa kanyang Twitter post: "Yes I was sick today, totally heartsick & crying nonstop. I shouldn't admit weakness, but I'm falling apart because ending a marriage is hell. Bimby gave me kleenex & asked what's wrong mom? I was honest & said mama & papa r fighting. Then he said wise words na super wake up call for me, u r brave mama ko. I asked him if he wanted his papa to come back to live w/ us & he said mama dito tayo (then he said name of condo where we live), papa ko sa other house pero friends tayo no more away-away."

Sa sumunod na tweet ni Kris ay sinabi niyang mag-o-offer siya ng "friendship" sa ama ng kanyang anak sa kanilang paghaharap sa korte bukas, August 20. Bukas ang unang araw ng hearing kaugnay ng petition ni Kris upang mapawalang-bisa ang kasal nila ni James, two-time Most Valuable Player ng Philippine Basketball Association. Nakasaad din sa petition ni Kris ang pagbabawal na makita ni James ang kanilang anak. (CLICK HERE to read related story.)

Aniya, "And so I face tomorrow's hearing w/ that intention, for bimby's sake, I'll offer friendship to his papa. Somebody text me, may angels tread before u sa path u'll go thru tomorrow. My angel baby james already did."

Bilang sagot naman sa inihaing petisyon ni Kris, humingi ang kampo ni James ng visitation rights para kay Baby James. (CLICK HERE to read related story.) Pero base sa ikatlong tweet ni Kris ay mukhang hindi na kailangang idaan pa sa korte ang kagustuhan ni James na makapiling ang anak.

Sabi ni Kris, "That is the truth in my heart & all that I feel. I know I failed as a wife & james also failed as a husband. But we still have a chance to succeed as parents. And our son deserves the best effort I can give. Di ko man nabigyan si bimby ng complete family, but I can still make sure he'll always feel the love of both his parents for him. Good night. Say a prayer for our hearing tomorrow."

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  • 69  solidaridad

    08/20/2010 | 12:01 AM
    tingnan nga natin kung totoo yung sinabi ni James na hindi siya naghahabol ng pera ni Kris. May hinala ako na yun ang dahilan kaya hiniwalayan na nag todo todo ni Kris si James. Ang yabang naman ni Kapunan akala mo kung sino abogago lang naman siya ni Hayden Kho ngayon si James na. Mga toy boys ang mga hawak niya mga gold diggers.
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  • 68  mystic1434

    08/19/2010 | 11:58 PM
    WHo wouldnt panic nga naman when you as a father will be stripped off from your rights just because you separate with the mom.

    That's the main reason why James came out and defend his rights and with that James, we salute to you. We don't condemn your imperfections but we believe in your sincerity to be a father of BB James because since day one you are with the kid every step of the way.
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  • 67  tinkerbell23

    08/19/2010 | 11:58 PM
    dati hindi pa nakakairita mga press releases at statements nito..puro sya ang bida sa mga past articles..but when i heard and read james' lawyers statements, mas humanga ako kay james. despite na ginamit lang sya ni kris for the past election campaign months, he didnt say anyting bad abt this woman. kunwari nagtext pa daw sya kay james tungkol sa sked ni bimby yun pla pakitang tao lang ang babaing ito.. kakasuklam pala talaga ang ugali mo kris aquino... sinungaling ka rin. gusto mo lng ipakita sa publiko na honest and sincere ka pero puro kaplastikan ka rin. pati ung bata sinasali mo..nasa tama k pa bang pag-iisip???!!!
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  • 66  emoterablues

    08/19/2010 | 11:57 PM
    Coming from her she's been to hell already...Literally! Ewan ko ba sa kanya kung sabagay sa isang pamilya may black sheep talaga at sya na yon! Educated naman di ginagamit utak...BB pa rin. GG na BB pa!
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  • 65  rhecobz

    08/19/2010 | 11:55 PM
    she's really annoying.... paawa effect as usual. if i were james i'm gonna revenge kris in a nice way for her to regret later. look for a nice woman, marry her, build her a house, make a happy home and a wonderful family... let her regret for what she did to you by having a contented, peaceful and harmonious family... and be a good provider, a father and a husband. for sure she couldn't have all that coz she destine to be alone and losser...
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  • 64  mystic1434

    08/19/2010 | 11:55 PM

    again...ALAM NAMAN NATIN HINDI PERFECT SI JAMES..SO OKAY LANG MAG SEPARATE SILA. PERO SI KRIS GUMAWA NG MGA DAGDAG SA PETITIONS NA VERY UNFAIR KAY JAMES AS A DADDY.

    HINDI KA naman perfect Mom Kris, dinadala mo kaya si BB James sa mga soap mo, the kid witnessed the sigawan or fight scenes sa KUNG TAYO AY MAGKAKALAYO, i pity the kid when i watched those scenes na may sigawan or fight scenes nandoon mismo ang bata...not healthy for a kid to be in that environment..if ako si James magagalit na siya noon...

    Imagine 2 days lang naman ang request ni James na bonding nila just to maintain their closeness as father and son. You are lucky Kris kasi ang papa ni BBJames ay nandyan pa rin for your son sana...so wag mong gawing BASTARD ang anak mo kasi meron siyang father na willing to be his dad forever.
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  • 63  lupine

    08/19/2010 | 11:54 PM
    i cannot finish the latest story..omg she sounds like a insane person.
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  • 62  rhecobz

    08/19/2010 | 11:53 PM
    she's really annoying.... paawa effect as usual. if i were james i'm gonna revenge kris in a nice way for her to regret later. look for a nice woman, marry her, build her a house, make a happy home and a wonderful family... let her regret for what she did to you by having a contented, peaceful and harmonious family... and be a good provider, a father and a husband. for sure she couldn't have all that coz she destine to be alone and losser...
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  • 61  anekatri

    08/19/2010 | 11:53 PM
    Kris, if you're reading this, please SHUT UP once and for all...mag news blackout ka muna sa sarili mo...meaning no Tweeting, no FB, no media interviews... the court of Public Opinion is soooo negative against you. If you are crying because your marriage is falling apart it is because of your own doing... and now this is the effect.
    You have a choice and this is what you want so deal with it privately and with dignity. People would respect you more
    if you cease from talking every little petty details of what you are going through in your life and in your household. Naiinis na ang mga tao sa'yo and whatever sympathy they had for you nawawala na and it started about you talking about Junjun Binay as your possible next prospect, blah blah blah Please Zip your mouth.... for once, listen to your kuya and ates.


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  • 60  lupine

    08/19/2010 | 11:53 PM
    i thought na walang marriage na nangyari, now may marriage na?
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  • 59  MrsFBI

    08/19/2010 | 11:51 PM

    sabi ni kris naka pagmove on na siya sa failed marriage nila ni james eh bakit ngayon cry cry ang drama niya . hahahaha siguro na basted ni JJ Binay at wala na siya choice kundi ask niya baby james kung ok lang ba daw na patirahin ulit si james sa bahay nila hahahahahaha wala ng papatol sa babaeng ito, kung meron man baka baliw na.
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  • 58  giordano

    08/19/2010 | 11:51 PM
    Those who do not use the proper names of Kapamilya, Kapatid or Kapuso, will be DELETED!
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  • 57  mystic1434

    08/19/2010 | 11:50 PM

    Magtagalog tayo kasi may mga tagalog dito na supporters si Kris :

    Akala ni Kris, hindi lalabas si James eh, akala niya mauuto pa niya si James. But the moment James nagpa presscon kasi nataranta si James sa petition ni Kris na I-REMOVE ANG YAP's name kay BB James and sa PAG CUT OFF NI Kris sa bonding ni James and BB James so napilitan tuloy si James lumabas, doon sinabi lahat sa atin kung ano ang ginawa ni Kris about PARENTING ISSUES. Wala tayong problema sa SEPARATION nila...but the PARENTING ISSUES doon nagalit mga tao eh...kinawawa masyado si James so tuloy the public sympathize with James just for PARENTING ISSUES.

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  • 56  sillygirl

    08/19/2010 | 11:48 PM
    college, have been married to 30+ years and going strong.
    Things will not settle for a long time. You will do a lot of thinking, crying, blaming. What you had just gone through being so heartsick will happen many more times. Sometimes you'll be satisfied with your choice, other times you will regret it. It's all part of the healing process.
    People have been throwing harsh words at you and though some may be justifiable, this is not the right time for it. So I offer you unsolicited advice - be strong, keep your head up high and always ask God for wisdom, strength and grace. My best to you, James and Bimby.
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  • 55  ikzei

    08/19/2010 | 11:46 PM
    OOps marami ng binayaran si mata pobre para ipagtanggol siya coz the few days i ve reading all comments at wala akong nabasa na for Kris aquino and then immediately inalis nila pinalitan at marami ngayong nagtatanggol sa matapobre ibig sabihin marami siyang bayad na mag post paara sa kanya
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  • 54  mystic1434

    08/19/2010 | 11:45 PM
    shidax :

    the reason why Kris is suffering, hindi sana siya mag suffer if nakipag SEPARATE lang siya kasi maiintindihan yun ng mga tao...pero GUMAWA PA SIYA NG MGA EXTRA THINGS NA HINDI NAMAN DAPAT SANA GAGAWIN PERO GINAWA NIYA KASI SELFISH AND HEARTLESS na siya.

    AKALA KASI NIYA TATANGGAPIN PA RIN NG MGA TAO MASKI HEARTLESS NA ANG GINAWA NIYA KAY JAMES.

    ENOUGH MAG SEPARATE, PERO WAG NYANG IPAGKAIT KAY BBJAMES ANG DADDY NIYA. IREMOVE PA NIYA APELYIDO NI JAMES. SO YUN GALIT MGA TAO. HINDI GALIT KASI NAG SEPARATE SILA, GALIT KASI NAGING SELFISH SIYA SA PARENTING ISSUE KAY JAMES AKALA NIYA SIYA LANG ANG PWEDE MAGING PARENT NI BBJAMES.

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  • 53  karylle3ari

    08/19/2010 | 11:45 PM
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    goodlooks
    August 19, 2010
    23:35 PM
    ang daming kapusonegro dito
    hindi natin alam ang tunay na dahilan
    ng paghihiwalay nila
    wag na tayong makisawsaw at bastos
    lahat tayo may dumi sa ating pagkatao
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    excuse me, hindi ako kapuso, pero i loathe kris. dami ko kaya kakilala na kapamilya na disgusted kay kris. haha. gawin bang network war issue na naman ito? hehe.

    laaht tayo may dumi sa pagkatao, pero hindi naman kami katulad ni kris aquino na binubuyangyang sa publiko mga dumi namin. why wouldn't she just simply shut her trap? kasi SHE WANTS ATTENTION! anobanaman, kelangan pa ba i-memorize yan?!? we're just giving her what she's asking for: ATTENTION. LOTS OF IT. kaya instead of ranting at us, you should be happy for your precious kris kasi she's getting exactly what she's asking for. cool, di ba?
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  • 52  pepsiko

    08/19/2010 | 11:43 PM
    Sorry Kris di mo na ako maloloko, at kung maari lang, huwag mo rin idamay ang anak mo; lalo tuloy nawalan ng respeto sayo ang mga tao, di mo lang alam, atat na rin ng patago ang mga kapatid mo sayo
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  • 51  ikzei

    08/19/2010 | 11:42 PM
    She knows people didnt like her actions the past few weeks at alam niyang alam ng tao that she is a L I A R and til now di pa niya sinasabi ang sabi niya that james said something to there son kasi wala talaga imbento lang niya... she ended the marraige only because she wants a man who could help her future plans to run for public office napakababaw na dahilan ng isang katulad mong anak ni Madam Pres Cory aquino...wala kang respeto sa anak mo at sa family ni James yap and to James yap kasi mata pobre ka...
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  • 50  mystic1434

    08/19/2010 | 11:42 PM
    JJ Binay should think Twice. If he is happy now with his kids, though longing for his deceased wife but he rather stay in that peaceful situation right now.

    The moment he would connect himself with Kris in a different level than friendship, then JJ Binay's life will surely be in hell too.

    Unless he will just be doing it for Political reasons but other than that, he better stay where he is now, the moment he is VISIBLY SEEN with Kris, then he surely the public will be FEASTING on him too.
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