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Kris Aquino: "I shouldn't admit weakness, but I'm falling apart because ending a marriage is hell."

by Erwin Santiago posted on August 19, 2010  STATS: 96517 Views | 789 Comments

 

"Bimby gave me kleenex & asked what's wrong mom? I was honest & said mama & papa r fighting. Then he said wise words na super wake up call for me, u r brave mama ko. I asked him if he wanted his papa to come back to live w/ us & he said mama dito tayo (then he said name of condo where we live), papa ko sa other house pero friends tayo no more away-away," says Kris Aquino on Twitter.

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"I shouldn't admit weakness, but I'm falling apart because ending a marriage is hell."

Ito ang bahagi ng magkakasunod na tweets ni Kris Aquino sa kanyang Twitter account ngayong gabi, August 19. Ibinahagi ng TV host-actress sa Twitter ang kanyang saloobin tungkol sa pakikipaghiwalay niya sa asawang si James Yap at ang pag-uusisa sa kanya ng kanilang three-year-old son na si Baby James o Bimby.

Sa unang tweet ni Kris ay inamin niyang "totally heartsick" at wala raw siyang tigil sa pag-iyak ngayong araw. Hindi rin siya nakasipot sa live episode ng Pilipinas, Win Na Win! kaninang hapon dahil may sakit siya.

Sabi ni Kris sa kanyang Twitter post: "Yes I was sick today, totally heartsick & crying nonstop. I shouldn't admit weakness, but I'm falling apart because ending a marriage is hell. Bimby gave me kleenex & asked what's wrong mom? I was honest & said mama & papa r fighting. Then he said wise words na super wake up call for me, u r brave mama ko. I asked him if he wanted his papa to come back to live w/ us & he said mama dito tayo (then he said name of condo where we live), papa ko sa other house pero friends tayo no more away-away."

Sa sumunod na tweet ni Kris ay sinabi niyang mag-o-offer siya ng "friendship" sa ama ng kanyang anak sa kanilang paghaharap sa korte bukas, August 20. Bukas ang unang araw ng hearing kaugnay ng petition ni Kris upang mapawalang-bisa ang kasal nila ni James, two-time Most Valuable Player ng Philippine Basketball Association. Nakasaad din sa petition ni Kris ang pagbabawal na makita ni James ang kanilang anak. (CLICK HERE to read related story.)

Aniya, "And so I face tomorrow's hearing w/ that intention, for bimby's sake, I'll offer friendship to his papa. Somebody text me, may angels tread before u sa path u'll go thru tomorrow. My angel baby james already did."

Bilang sagot naman sa inihaing petisyon ni Kris, humingi ang kampo ni James ng visitation rights para kay Baby James. (CLICK HERE to read related story.) Pero base sa ikatlong tweet ni Kris ay mukhang hindi na kailangang idaan pa sa korte ang kagustuhan ni James na makapiling ang anak.

Sabi ni Kris, "That is the truth in my heart & all that I feel. I know I failed as a wife & james also failed as a husband. But we still have a chance to succeed as parents. And our son deserves the best effort I can give. Di ko man nabigyan si bimby ng complete family, but I can still make sure he'll always feel the love of both his parents for him. Good night. Say a prayer for our hearing tomorrow."

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  • 49  shidax

    08/19/2010 | 11:42 PM
    NAKU! KAYONG MGA SOBRANG MAKAPAG JUDGE NG TAO AKALA NYO MADALI PARA KAY MS.KRIS ANG SITWASYON NYA.BUTI NGA SI KRIS TALAGANG HINDI ABOSADO KAHIT PANGULO ANG KAPATID NYA KUNG ANAK PA IYAN SI KRIS NI GLORIA SIGURADONG TIKOM NA ANG MGA BIBIG NG MGA ABOGADO PATI NA RIN SI JAMES.HINDI KO MASISI ANG IBA DAHIL KALIMITAN DITO MGA BATA BUT FOR ME MATURED NA TALAGANG MAIINTINDIHAN SI KRIS AT SI JAMES.MINSAN KASI SA BUHAY NG TAO KAHIT MASAKIT MAN TATANGGAPIN MO NALANG DAHIL WALA KA NG MAGAGAWA KAHIT MAGLUPASAY KA PA SA PAG-IYAK.KRIS AND JAMES ARE IN PAIN LET'S JUST PRAY THAT GOD WILL GIVE THEM PEACE AND HARMONY IN THEIR HEARTS AND MIND.
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  • 48  sillygirl

    08/19/2010 | 11:42 PM
    Kris - the public has been rough on you and though you've given them reason, no one has the right to judge you. The only way we should judge is to say - yeah, Kris made terrible mistakes and I am very capable of doing the same thing because I'm just as human and fallible! Whatever caused your marriage to fall apart is totally between you and your husband. Ultimately, you only have God and your son to answer to. I went through same thing as a child. My very educated and successful parents were good people who made bad choices. It happens because no one is immune to mistakes. My siblings and I sat in the judge's sala with lawyers and I remember feeling sad and lost. The only thing I understood was my parents marriage didn't work out and as a result, though their children had nothing to do with their choices, we all had to pick up the pieces, and we did. There were some rough times growing up and though separate parenting is never ideal, it was not the end of the world. I married as I was finishing col
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  • 47  merlion_25

    08/19/2010 | 11:41 PM
    Kris Aquino's agonies:

    Pilipinas WnW - FLOP
    Marriage - FLOP
    Public Sympathy - FLOP
    Court Ruling - soon-to-be FLOP


    Sino pa maniniwala sa taong pinangangalandakang aalis na Pinas at di na mag ttweet pero ...

    VOILA! Kris Aquino is still Kris Aquino. Selfish, ego centric brat!

    Kris 'the girl who cried wolf' Aquino.

    LOL!
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  • 46  Janiska

    08/19/2010 | 11:41 PM
    INstead na maging asset si kris aquino sa abs, naging liability na siya bwahahaha.... ang tawa ni willie r. siguro sa kanila....
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  • 45  netopia1976

    08/19/2010 | 11:40 PM
    mystic1434...one of the best example of rich, high profile, influential couple who broke up but remain good friends are: Vicky Belo and the husband. When Belo was down and humiliated who came to stay by her side...yong ex-husband nya.
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  • 44  acerpc

    08/19/2010 | 11:40 PM
    mga pinoy sna mag icp kau...magsalamain kau akala nyo Diyos kau kng makapanghusga bt d nyo ilagay srili nyo sa sitwasyon nya pra maintndhan nyo, akala nyo perfect nmn kau...im sure if one fo u maexperience ung sit nya ngaun cguradong ms malala pa kau ke kris...tanging ang Diyos lang ang my krapatang humusga sa atin...THE BEST WAY TO UNDERSTAND PEOPLE IS TO PUT URSELF IN THIER SHOES...
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  • 43  mystic1434

    08/19/2010 | 11:39 PM
    goodlooks punta ka sa website ng kapamilya mas maraming galit na comments doon, just because PEP site ito then u would generalize na kapuso lahat dito. For your info, i have both tfc and pinoytv but i cannot fathom the heartless actions of Kris that's why i am commenting and the public is entitled to know, to comment because Kris and James are PUBLIC FIGURES.

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  • 42  mikkie

    08/19/2010 | 11:38 PM
    You're crying dahil hindi mo inexpect that James would get an overwhelming support from your ex-fans.

    Akalo mo people would still buy your drama.
    Being dramatic is a common trait sa mga taong may histrionic personality disorder or features. They need to do it most of the time, unconsciously to seek attention or to avoid pain.

    Kris, your defenses are very primitive---a sign that your mental health issue is pathological.

    Seek professional help. There's nothing wrong with it. Hindi mo naman kasalanan na nagkaroon ka ng mental health problem kasi most of the psychological disorders stemmed from nature-nurture.
    Maraming geniuses and even great political leaders na may bipoloar, or personality disorder. YOu just need to own it and acknowledge the fact that you need help.
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  • 41  goodlooks

    08/19/2010 | 11:38 PM
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  • 40  ike

    08/19/2010 | 11:37 PM
    I feel sorry for you, Kris, for James and most of all, for Bimby. If you are only selfless just for the sake of Bimby, this won't be happening. I remember when my hubby and I wanted a divorce, I talked with my son who was a 7-year old then. He didn't say anything but when I looked at him, he was so sad. The whole time that my hubby and I were fighting, my kids were not happy. For their sake, I swallowed my pride and shut up. Everything changed into good when I started to keep quiet. There will never be an argument when only one is talking. After a while, I saw my kids smiling again. I tried to change my ways, my hubby did the same, for the sake of our kids. Wag mo na ituloy yong kaso, Kris. Yong ginagastos niyo ni James sa abogado, ibigay niyo na lang sa mahihirap, madadagdagan pa ang mapapasaya ninyo. Even God will smile at you. God bless.
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  • 39  pro_gma_loveskim

    08/19/2010 | 11:37 PM
    I HAVE A FEELING THAT BINAY STOPPED COMMUNICATING WITH HER KAYA SHE'S HAVING SECOND THOUGHTS ABOUT SEPARATING WITH JAMES. binay said that he was not ready for a relationship and he's still grieving kaya Kris is heartsick.
    sorry kris, I ain't buying it.
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  • 38  reitino6

    08/19/2010 | 11:37 PM
    malala na sakit sa utak ng babaeng 2!!!dpat 2 pinapasok sa mental!!!
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  • 37  minute860

    08/19/2010 | 11:37 PM
    hay naku di ako naniniwalang sinabi yun ni baby james!pwe!sempre ang gusto ng bata nanjan mommy at daddy nya noh!unless na brain wash na utak ng anak nya!hmmmp!paproblemahin daw ba ang bata!matanda nga di makaya eh pati bata isasama hay nakuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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  • 36  karylle3ari

    08/19/2010 | 11:36 PM
    paawa na naman... wala na ba talagang kahit konting hiya na natitira dyan sa katawan mo, kris aquino? tama bang paulit ulit mong gamitin ang anak mo para magpaawa ka?

    keep on trying to manipulate people by playing on emotions...haha, it aint working anymore, girl! wake up, kumokonti na ang naniniwala sa yo. sobra ka na kasing SICK! you need to go see a shrink. seriously.
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  • 35  mystic1434

    08/19/2010 | 11:36 PM
    netopia1976 :

    i mostly agree with you hahahahaha!!! manipulation of Kris again at the expense of BB James. When we know that BB james also loves James as his father then gusto niya hiwalay sila ng house: I think at that point, it was Kris saying ahhahaha, not BBJames, the lil kid was just dragged for paawa effect.

    See Kris because you manipulated us most of the time tuloy di na believable ang story mo :

    basta i hope yang mga tweets niya are not just for MEDIA RELEASE na naman!
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  • 34  goodlooks

    08/19/2010 | 11:35 PM
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  • 33  Janiska

    08/19/2010 | 11:35 PM
    Parang The boy who cried wolf ng aesop's fables ang kaso ni Kris tralala aquino. kwawawa naman.... walang naniniwala sa kanyang mga kadramahan. tsk tsk tsk.... baka next scenario, iinom ng maraming sleeping pills para maawa ang public sa kanya.
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  • 32  deal_with_it

    08/19/2010 | 11:35 PM
    I agree. I couldn't have said it better. I addition, maybe Kris is falling apart because she suddenly realized that the people are not stupid as she thought to back up her ridiculous demands and antics.

    Now she's saying that ending a marriage is hell while prior to the public backlash, she was so arrogant and excited to move on, even announced her new future man on national TV.

    It is hell now BECAUSE she realized that if the court does the right thing she is bound to lose lots of money AND she also lost the support of the public. So tired of her paawa scheme.

    AND PLEASE, can someone tell her to STOP using God's name in vain. It is getting old and infuriating!
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  • 31  mystic1434

    08/19/2010 | 11:32 PM
    You panic na kasi you know people are really mad...that's why gumawa ka ng mga TWEETS na down na down ka and you're crying a river...but, but...

    don't ever use that tweets for MEDIA release only. again learn to WALK YOUR TALK.

    Iyak ng iyak ka na naman then u publicize your iyak sa tweet para na naman maawa ang public sa iyo but still matigas pa rin ulo mo, selfish ka pa rin so try to learn WALKING YOUR TALK and not just for MEDIA RELEASE or PAAWA EFFECT.
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  • 30  Kimerald_4ever

    08/19/2010 | 11:32 PM
    nababaliw na ata ang babaing ito, tsk..tsk.. after being prompt about ending her marriage, ngayon naman regrets! may SALTIK talaga sa utak ang mga Aquino na ito.,,tsk..tsk...
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