REALIZATIONS. Bagamat hindi nagtagal ang kanilang pagsasama, maraming “realizations” naman daw ang nabigay nito sa kanilang dalawa, lalung-lalo na kay Wendy.
“I think, situations that happened with me and Bruce, and all the situations in my life and his life as well, to finally wake up to something na like a realization na ano, mayro’n kaming mga maling ginagawa even before we met each other.
“‘Tapos na-tolerate lang ‘yon when we met each other, and it did not help us to grow.
“Ako, since napanood ng mga tao sa [Pinoy Big Brother], I was so impulsive, I was ruled out by my emotions.
"So, para akong naging ano... puppet ako ng emotions ko.
“Ang dami kong nare-realize nang mangyari ‘yon sa amin ni Bruce—you started to see things that pushes you, that will hit you that hard para magising ka na things are not just like these, that there’s much to it.”
Pero kung mayroon man daw importanteng aral na natutunan si Wendy sa lahat ng ito, iyon ay huwag magpadala sa iyong emosyon.
“Ako ‘yon, na I’m a very impulsive person and na hindi lahat ng emotions ko tama, hindi lahat ng emotions ko kailangan ko i-act out, and that I should look for my own happiness.
“Kasi right now, hindi ko kasi ‘to na-feel, e, for so many years na masaya 'ko just by myself, because I’ve been to relationship after relationship.
“Ngayon ko lang na-experience ‘yong wala, and na-realize ko na kaya ko pa din palang maging masaya kahit ako lang, with my family—‘yong focus ko nasa mga ibang bagay and with knowing myself.”