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Part 2. BB Gandanghari on her sexuality: “My sexuality is an orientation; it’s not a preference..."

by Arniel C. Serato posted on June 3, 2012  STATS: 176882 Views | 33 Comments

BB Gandanghari (left) explains her sexuality to Zoren Legaspi (right) in a taped interview aired on a showbiz talk show on June 2, 2012. In the interview, BB revealed there were three people she wanted to "come out" to. Her mother, the family, and former wife Carmina Villarroel, who is the current partner of Zoren. In reality, BB was only able to speak to Carmina.

 

Photo By: Arniel Serato

Si Carmina Villarroel ang dating asawa ni Rustom.

"At kung meron akong nararamdaman tungkol sa 'yo, hindi siguro sama ng loob o galit kundi pasasalamat actually, na I can see that you’re taking care of Carmina and I’m very happy.

“Ang gusto ko lang naman is mapunta sa maganda si Carmina... and I think that she’s very happy with you. If only for that, wala, wala, [akong] sama at samaan ng loob, wala. Galit, wala.”

Sagot naman ng pasasalamat ang itinugon dito ni Zoren, “Thank you! A, siguro para sa akin isang... how would I say it? Isang malaking tinik ang nawala sa akin…

"Dahil ayoko naman na meron kang sama ng loob sa akin… but you’re really correct, dahil I came when everything was already gone.”

Tugon naman ni BB, “Kung ang pag-uusapan si Rustom ha, kumbaga, bago pa namayapa si Rustom, hindi siguro sama ng loob yun o tampo, kung hindi, of course, at that time, parang siguro wini-wish niya na yung happiness na nararamdaman ninyong dalawa is sana na-experience din niya yun, siguro yun lang yun.”

COMING OUT. Ang sunod na tanong ni Zoren, “Sino yung mga unang pumasok sa isipan mo sa iyong pag-amin na 'This is me.' Sino yung top three?”

Tugon ni BB, “Actually, dalawa lang, e—sa nanay ko [Eva Padilla], siguro kasama na yung pamilya… at saka kay Carmina… si Carmina.”

Sunod pang nilinaw ni Zoren, “Dun sa mother mo muna, ano yung initial reaction niya and how [did] you say it?”

Nilinaw naman ni BB, na isa pa lang talaga ang napagsabihan niya, “Yun na nga, pero alam mo, parang ironic, doon kasi, dun sa tatlong yun, si Carmina lang ang nakausap ko.”

Nagulat naman si Zoren sa rebelasyong ito ni BB, “What? Seriously?

"OK, nung aamin ka kay Carmina noon... nagpaalam siya sa akin and to be frank, I was afraid for her. Sabi ko, 'Teka, are you sure?'

“Alam mo, sabi niya sa akin, 'I think I owe him this.' Kasi the time na she needed to talk to you, pumayag kang kausapin siya… sabi niya, 'In return,' sabi niya, 'Papayag ako.'"

Dito na medyo sobrang naging seryoso ang usapan.

Dagdag pa ni BB, “Dun ko nakilala si Carmina, dun nabuo yung respeto ko sa kanya… bilang tao.

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  • 33  starkings

    06/13/2012 | 09:41 PM
    bakit laging her, herself, she ang mga gamit? pag Beki ba kailangan her sexuality, hindi ba mas tama his sexuality.
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  • 32  Prd2bpnay8

    06/12/2012 | 07:47 AM
    I agree with him that his sexuality is not a choice. He was born a woman trapped in a man's body. The is scientifically proven. I wish that he can find true happiness soon and may his family whole heartedly accept him.
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  • 31  thelastpepbender

    06/05/2012 | 03:10 PM
    i did not watch this and have no plans to watch it. basing on the performance of zoren oh his talkshow with carmina in GMA 7, naku napakBORING mag host. napakaBORING panoorin. kaya di na ako nagtaka natsugi agad yung show nila ni CARMINA.
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  • 30  lostris

    06/05/2012 | 02:00 PM
    maganda tong interview ni zoren kay bb. cguro kung si cristy fermin yan, sangkaterbang bolahan at talinhagaan na naman yan. kung si boy abunda naman, feeling nasa korte and pa deep/ profound epek. i like this one kasi sincere. sakto lang. hindi oa.
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  • 29  milomilo123

    06/05/2012 | 09:40 AM
    may closure na si carmina at bb kailan kaya ang closure ni piolo at kc.......abangan natin ito sa dbuzz
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  • 28  BelleGrey

    06/05/2012 | 01:08 AM
    Its a sin to be a homosexual. n
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  • 27  xeteh7

    06/04/2012 | 11:18 PM
    shucks guys grabe na talaga tapatan nila MR and AL parehas pala silang may tig tatlong magazine covers for this month. MARIAN RIVERA- meg, rouge, total fitness ANGEL LOCSIN- sense style, woman today, mavenjune-july issue pero d pa nilalabas
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  • 26  shellphone

    06/04/2012 | 10:16 PM
    Ang cheap!
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  • 25  ambrossia

    06/04/2012 | 10:12 PM
    kung naghalikan na lang sina BB at zoren malamang naging talk of the town ito!!!
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  • 24  ambrossia

    06/04/2012 | 10:02 PM
    napag-usapan ba talaga ito? hindi naman a!....
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  • 23  arvor82

    06/04/2012 | 08:29 PM
    Kawawa naman BB Gandanghar, nagpapka-kontrobersiyal para lang mapansin. Hay!!!!
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  • 22  pepe2

    06/04/2012 | 06:30 PM
    So kailan si Piolo magladlad.
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  • 21  thelastpepbender

    06/04/2012 | 04:04 PM
    di bagay kay rustom yung ganyan. TAOB sya kay PAOLO BALLESTEROS pag nagbihis babae. balik na lang ni RUSTOM yung pagbibihis lalaki nya.
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    gayfairy
    06/17/2012 | 02:44 AM
    neng, syensya n at late bloomer ang lola mo, lol!
  • 20  T_Steigert

    06/04/2012 | 04:01 PM
    bravo humandynamics!!!
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  • 19  wilfredonggago

    06/04/2012 | 01:15 PM
    Si Bebe G., napaka-edukado at napaka-sibilisadong tao. Pati sa pakikipag-usap at sa interview, halatang may utak, may breeding at marunong sumagot kahit napaka-delicate ng subject. Naaawa ako sa sinabi niyang "hindi choice ang pagiging bakla kundi orientation" na if given the choice, 100 times siyang mag-iisip kung yun ang choice niya.He could have said, "hindi ko pipiliing maging bakla" kundi yung choice of words niya, considerate pa rin sa bakla kingdom. Wala kang maipipintas sa interview na ito. Wala. Hanga ako kay Rustom.
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  • 18  alibangbang

    06/04/2012 | 12:42 PM
    sa filipino star sabi doon old friends si papa p at rustom p....kailangan pa bang ememorize yan!!! lol
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  • 17  K4rm4

    06/04/2012 | 11:59 AM
    Its was Piolo Pascual. I admire you alot BB. Mabuhay ka!
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  • 16  humandynamics

    06/04/2012 | 11:21 AM
    You can't compare piolo and KC to carmina and rustom.. first off, rustom confessed to carmina thats why carmina respected his silence during that time. EH SI PIOLO NAG CONFESS BA?! second, rustom has humility and piolo is arrogant. pinapalabas pa nilang masama si KC maski siya ang nalinlang at niloko ng mapagkunyaring piolo. sampung taon walang girlfriend satisfied na sa katitingin yun pala may ka shower na espada?! kaloka haha
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  • 15  syetedos

    06/04/2012 | 10:42 AM
    bakit dinadamay pa dito si Piolo at KC? Whatever happened to them is totally different from BB Gandanghari story. Di ko ma-gets and konek. That celebrity is Erik
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  • 14  alime

    06/04/2012 | 03:55 AM
    sino yung sikat na male celebrity na binanggit ni BB na nagkagusto kay Rustom? If it is Piolo Pascual then it can be told tapos na nga talaga ang career ng bakla at manlolokong Piolo Pascual na ito na pati ang born again Christians ay isinasali sa kasinungalingan nya...
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