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The Unsung Struggle of Maria Theresa Carlson
by Paul Mata & YES! magazine posted on November 8, 2007  STATS: 24029 Views | 2 Comments
"Maria was bubbly, napakaganda, parang Virgin Mary, maputi, ganda ng paa, kamay, legs, parang doll," Carmi Martin described her Chicks to Chicks co-star, Ma. Theresa Carlson (in photo). Photo By: Courtesy of YES! magazine

Meanwhile, Fariñas had things to say, too: The media "violated our rights as husband and wife." He accused Probe of messing up with their lives, interfering in a petty marital quarrel. He said to the Manila Times, "Saan ka naman nakakita ng tampuhan lang ng mag-asawa, ipa-flash mo sa TV?."

Suicide. Maria Theresa Carlson-Fariñas, 38, died on November 23, 2001. She plunged from her apartment on the 23rd floor of Platinum 2000, Greenhills, San Juan. She landed on the condominium's third floor airwell.  (Ironically, the condo is adjacent to the Atlanta building where Nida Blanca died.) Maria was found dead by a roving security guard at 2 o'clock in the wee hours.

Initially, everyone suspected foul play. But San Juan police said there was no indication of anything wrong at the scene and ruled it a suicide. Her husband called it an accident.

A Loyola Memorial services assistant told the GMA-7 news crew, "Walang ulo. Yung utak niya dumikit sa mga ano... nagkalat, pinulot ko isa-isa. Nakakatakot talaga. Wasak ang mukha, durog, sabog ang skull niya.

The househelp who was with Maria at the rented condo unit, said that Maria jumped. Days before that, she was going around the saying, "I miss my baby... don't leave me."

In the weeks that followed her death, her husband, now a congressman,   faced the media relentlessly. In an interview with Butch Francisco in the Philippine Star, he recounted, "I loved being with her. We enjoyed the same kind of things... Okay lang sa kanya that she would be the butt of my jokes. And I really appreciated the fact na inalagaan niya ang dalawang anak ko sa ibang babae.

"During the elections, nangangampanya ‘yan. She'd go on a house-to-house campaign. Pero kapag sinumpong ‘yan... she'd start hearing things. And then, she becomes uncaring. Ang pagkakamali ko, sana naki-ride on na lang ako. May mga pagkukulang din ako sa kanya," the scion from Laoag, Ilocos Norte said.

Postscript. After Maria's death, a women's coalition lobbied arduously to have a law passed in Congress.

The women succeeded in 2004 when Republic Act 9262 or "Anti-Violence against Women and Children Act" was signed on March 8, International Women's Day. Many women are now aware of their rights and how to seek  protection from all forms of abusive relationship. 

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  • MARKY2000

    10/01/2009 | 09:19 AM
    How tragic naman ang nangyari kay Ms.Theresa Carlson mostly known as quot;SI AKOquot; in Chicks to Chicks.Battered wife at hindi man lang siya natulungan nuong panahon na nangangailangan siya ng saklolo.Although we are not in the position to judge kung sino ang may sala or anything pero iyung mahulog siya sa building.Is it suicide or foulplay?Ano na ang nangyari kay FARIŅAS?Wala ba talaga siyang kasalanan?Sana inimbestigahan ng maayos.DAPAT MAGBAYAD ANG MAY KASALANAN SA NANGYARI SA KANYA.WALA BA TALAGANG MAGAGAWA ANG GOBYERNO SA MGA GANITONG KASO?Mula kay NINOY AQUINO tapos NIDA BLANCA,VISCONDE MASSACRE etc. etc.NAKAKA-DESPERATE at nakakawalang tiwala tuloy ang batas sa atin.Parang lahat na lang puwedeng bilihin.
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  • drizzlingmornin

    08/20/2009 | 02:38 PM
    dapat yung mga abusive husband di na binobotohan sa election!.. saka kung abusive ka sa pamilya mo.. ano pa kaya sa communidad na di mo manlang ka ano ano?
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