Karen Bordador confronts "pushy, pessimist" housemate TJ Valderrama

by James Patrick Anarcon
Dec 2, 2021
Karen Bordador and TJ Valderrama
Karen Bordador to TJ Valderrama: "Lagi mong sinasabi, 'Super baldado tayo, super waley na waley iyong grupo na ito.' Sobrang negatron na nga yung sitwasyon, e! Sobrang pessimist mo talaga.”
PHOTO/S: Pinoy Big Brother (ABS-CBN)

Pinoy Big Brother housemates Karen Bordador and TJ Valderrama had a confrontation in the episode aired earlier today, December 1, 2021.

The issue stemmed from a game they played for their weekly task. Karen, TJ, and their groupmates Alyssa Valdez, Jordan Andrews, Alexa Ilacad, and Eian Rances had to build a tower through blocks.

There were times when TJ could not hide his disappointment over teammates who could not get the game right.

This irked Karen, who, after the game, cried and went straight to the bedroom to confront TJ.

She told him, “I’m just letting you know, maybe, kapag time na maglalaro uli tayo, iyong chillax and stop pinpointing.”

When TJ just smiled at her, Karen said, “Natatawa ka pa? Natatawa ka pa! Parang iniisip mo, ‘Waley talaga ito si Karen!’

“I know you’re trying to be the team leader, but that’s not how you do it, dude, especially if we’re playing a game.”

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Karen Bordador and TJ Valderrama's confrontation in Pinoy Big Brother.

To defend himself, TJ stressed how crucial the task was since it would grant their team immunity, thus, exempting the members from being nominated for eviction.

He replied to Karen, “Dude, I’m not perfect, okay? I make a lot of mistakes as you can see, quite obviously. It was intense and I know what’s on the line also.”

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Karen responded, “You know that it’s crucial na we’re playing a game, alam mo iyon? Gets mo ba, ‘tapos even sa harap ng maraming tao, magdyu-joke ka na parang, ‘Si Karen, hindi makakuha ng points,’ parang ganun iyong effect. So paano ako mae-encourage na makakapagbigay ng…”

TJ argued, “I thought we were comfortable already—same food group, same era, we always joke about that so I felt comfortable with you, and I was like, ‘Okay, she’s my girl, I can joke around like this with her.'"

Karen Bordador and TJ Valderrama's confrontation in Pinoy Big Brother.

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But it did not seem that way to Karen, who said TJ was “pushing too hard.”

She explained, “Okay, yes you can, but I’m telling you now, medyo nagpu-push ka too hard to the point na nao-offend na ako, to the point na parang, ‘Okay, baka gusto niya, hindi na tayo magka-groupmates ever.’ But that’s what I feel, that’s why I’m letting you know.”

KAREN CALLS TJ “PESSIMIST"

TJ's negative attitude, according to Karen, added to their team's disadvantage of having less members.

The other group was composed of Samantha Bernardo, Madam Inutz, Shanaia Gomez, Anji Salvacion, KD Estrada, Brenda Mage, and Benedix Ramos.

Karen said, “Lalo na, lagi mong sinasabi, 'Super baldado tayo, super waley na waley iyong grupo na ito.' Sobrang negatron na nga yung sitwasyon, e! Sobrang pessimist mo talaga.”

TJ asked why Karen called him a pessimist.

Karen Bordador and TJ Valderrama's confrontation in Pinoy Big Brother.

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Karen answered, “Tignan mo, 'Oh, we’re so sad, we’re so freaking down' because iyong topic at hand is always… hay!”

TJ defended himself, “I’m not the one who’s talking about that kind of topic.”

Karen replied, “I know, but you’re like feeding it.”

TJ found the accusation unfair.

He said, “How am I feeding it, because of the jokes? You can’t say I’m pessimistic bigla 'tapos you’re gonna leave it like that. That’s not fair.”

Karen then explained that she was just disappointed with the way TJ treated her during the game.

“I’m not saying na I don’t like you, Teej. I'm saying I like you that’s why let’s fix this, gets mo ba? I’m telling you, I’m your greatest supporter and you’re not giving that.”

Karen started crying at this point.

She continued, “Parang you’re telling me na I suck and I’m like okay. Every time, honestly, you’re really pushy, and I let people know na you’re awesome 'tapos you’re making me feel the opposite. And I’m your freaking number one supporter, hindi mo ba na-notice iyon? So nakaka-bad trip talaga!”

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TJ replied, “Okay, listen, I didn’t mean it like that.”

Karen Bordador and TJ Valderrama's confrontation in Pinoy Big Brother.

Karen said, “It’s like kapag nakikita kita, palagi kang disappointed, what am I supposed to feel?”

TJ answered, “You can’t use it like that. Of course, I’ll be disappointed, that was a game right there, and we are fighting for something important that we all could use.

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“I cannot be happy after that one, but right after that, it’s done. It doesn’t linger.”

Karen clarified that she knew where TJ was coming from as far as his side comments and emotions during the task were concerned.

“Oo, nasa moment ka, gets ko na siyempre, we have something on the line, pero hindi ibig sabihin noon… parang feeling ko kasi, ako lang pini-pinpoint mo doon, e.

“Ganito na lang, when it comes to playing, I don’t wanna hear you say, ‘Si Karen, good job, good job,’ alam ko naman kasi opposite sinasabi mo, e.”

To console Karen, TJ said, “But you know what, you actually did a great job, lalo na sa huli.”

Karen replied, “I know I did. I didn’t feel great though kasi parang feeling ko, ayan na naman siya with his face na parang galit na naman. Kaya ako, naba-bad trip na ako. I’m not even playing anymore na it’s not fun anymore. I just don't want anyone to get mad, iyon na lang iniisip ko, and I don’t want to play like that! Gets mo?

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“Hay! Everything about this, sobrang babaw nito. I just don’t want to hear negatron stuff. Yun lang, okay?”

In the end, TJ apologized to Karen and said that he did not mean to hurt her.

Karen Bordador and TJ Valderrama's confrontation in Pinoy Big Brother.

The two were able to fix their misunderstanding as the episode ended.

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Both Karen and TJ are up for eviction this week along with Alexa Ilacad and Samantha Bernardo.

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Karen Bordador to TJ Valderrama: "Lagi mong sinasabi, 'Super baldado tayo, super waley na waley iyong grupo na ito.' Sobrang negatron na nga yung sitwasyon, e! Sobrang pessimist mo talaga.”
PHOTO/S: Pinoy Big Brother (ABS-CBN)
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