Bianca Lapus keeps hopes up for baby girl after four boys

by Julie E. Bonifacio
Feb 6, 2020

After four sons, Bianca Lapus has given up wishing for a baby girl—for now.

The former actress said, “Lugi ako, wala akong Bianca... Feeling ko hindi na ako magkaka-girl."

Why not?

“Ayoko na, actually,” said the 41-year-old celebrity mom.

Given her bout with preeclampsia, which caused the premature delivery of her youngest son in January 2019, Bianca cannot easily brush aside her trauma.

But she said, "Hindi pa ako nala-ligate so, bahala na. Bahala na si Lord."

She also added, "Pero feeling ko, kung hindi talaga ako magkakaroon on my own, I’ll plan to adopt one day."

Bianca's oldest, Isaiah, her son with ex-hustand Vhong Navarro, is already in his 20s. Her sons with partner Jimmy Lawrence Velasquez are Exekiel Lawrence, Elijah Lawrence, and Ethan Lawrence,

The interview is held during the first birthday celebration of her youngest son Ethan, who turned one on January 9, 2020.

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WEDDING BELLS FOR BIANCA AND JIMMY?

After 15 years of being together and having three sons, aren't Bianca and Jimmy planning to tie the knot?

"Hay, pinag-uusapan naman namin. Pero alam naman niya yung pinagdaanan ko rin before.

“Ah, siyempre, bata ako nag-asawa noon kay Vhong. So nagka-annulment kami, hindi siya talaga naging madali for me."

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Was she traumatized by the experience?

She replied, “Sabi nga nila, di ba, ang babae more emotional. So siguro, mas medyo matagal lang ako mag-move on from the trauma.

"Na parang, ano kasi ako, e, family-oriented. Parang nung nag-fail, parang I really want na tumagal yung ngayon ko. Forever na siya.”

And without a doubt, Jimmy is her Mr. Right?

“Oo naman. Wala na akong ibang naiisip na puwedeng pakasalan. Magkasundung-magkasundo kami.

"Mahal niya yung mga anak ko. Very hands-on din siya. Yun talaga ang hinihingi ko na maka-partner.

“Saka we’re friends. Hindi ko nga inakala na magkakatuluyan kami.

“Magbarkada kami. May girflriend siya, may boyfriend ako. Kung kani-kanino ko pa siya pinapa-date.

“Ang ending, nagka-developan kami.”

VHONG NAVARRO'S SECRET WEDDING

Her ex-husband tied the knot with Tanya Bautista on November 28, 2019, in Japan.

It was a secret wedding.

Did she know anything about it?

“Actually, late na akong nasabihan. Kaya nung sinabihan niya ako, actually, nagulat ako."

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After inadvertently learning about it from a showbiz reporter, and confirming it through Ice (the nickname of her son with Vhong), she decided to call Vhong.

“So yun nga, so tinanong ko si Ice 'tapos tinanong ko rin si Vhong.

“Tapos yun, medyo naging madrama yung tsikahan namin ni Vhong, but it was really nice. It was parang two good friends na nag-uusap na from our hearts talaga.

“Very sincere talaga na, ayun.

"Yung parang, ‘Masaya ako para sa iyo,’ sabi ko sa kanya. ‘Huwag mong i-miss yung chance na magkaroon ng buo na pamilya. Alagaan mo si Tanya,' 'ika ko, ganyan.

“Okey naman. Siya din, ganyan.

"'Tapos sabi niya, nag-I love you kami sa isa't isa. Kasi sabi niya, parang, ‘Mahal kita.' Pero siyempre, ibang level na ngayon. Eto ay pagmamahal bilang kaibigan.

"And I sincerely want to wish you happiness.'

"'Tapos sabi niyang ganoon, 'Mahal din kita bilang nanay ni Ice... Ikaw din sana.’

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"Idol daw niya kami ni Jimmy. Kasi tumagal kami.

"Okey na okey kami."

Did he invite her to their wedding?

“Hindi na. Parang awkward din naman kasi. Saka may bagong baby din ako. Hindi ako makaka-attend kapag in-invite niya ako.

“Pero parang ano na lang din yun, ah, siguro courtesy na rin, respeto para kay Jimmy, at saka kay Tanya.

"Medyo awkward kasi na nandoon ako. Hahaha. Si Ice nandoon.”

Did she ask Ice about keeping the wedding date from her?

“Nag-sorry nga siya kasi, they had to keep it a secret. Pero naiintindhan ko naman ang anak ko.

"Naiyak pa nga siya nung nag-ano siya sa akin. Siyempre, he doesn’t want to keep secrets from me. But, syempre, nirerespeto rin niya ang desisyon ng Daddy niya.

“So ako, okay lang sa akin yun kasi, at least, ang importante sa akin, napalaki ko ang mga anak ko na nirerespeto nila ang mga magulang nila," she ended.

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Happy with having four sons—(L, clockwise) Ice, Elijah, Ethan, and Exekiel—Bianca Lapus at 41 has not entirely given up wishing for a girl: "I’ll plan to adopt one day."
PHOTO/S: @biancalapus on Instagram
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