Ruffa Gutierrez wants to leave all the pains of 2007 behind

"Kahit na siguro na may pagmamahal pa kami ni Yilmaz sa isa't isa, orwala na, gusto ko, kung ano man ang naging relasyon namin ngayon, e,i-close na yung chapter na ‘yon kasi maraming bagay-bagay na masasamangnangyari na hindi ko makakalimutan," says Ruffa Gutierrez about her relationship with husband Yilmaz Bektas.



The Buzz co-host Ruffa Guttierez took the spotlight yesterday, December 30, concerning her controversial breakup with Turkish husband Yilmaz Bektas. With this issue that Ruffa is facing, is it still possible for them to make amends and get back together again? Or will Ruffa start the New Year as a single person?

"My relationship now with Yilmaz is very complicated," Ruffa explained. "May mga times na nag-aaway kami at nagsisigawan kami, may mga times na nag-iiyakan kami. So, wala pa ring closure kami ni Yilmaz."

Ruffa's co-host Boy Abunda asked: "What was that relationship like?"

"Siyempre, nag-uusap kami ni Yilmaz dahil may mga anak kami," she said. "Siguro kung wala kaming anak, e, hindi na dapat kami mag-usap. Because every time we talk, it's emotional. Sana lahat ng pains na nangyari this 2007, e, sana maiwan this 2008. I don't want to bring any negative vibes this 2008."

She continued, "Kahit na siguro na may pagmamahal pa kami ni Yilmaz sa isa't isa, or wala na, gusto ko, kung ano man ang naging relasyon namin ngayon, e, i-close na yung chapter na ‘yon kasi maraming bagay-bagay na masasamang nangyari na hindi ko makakalimutan. Ngayon, if ever na mahal pa rin niya ako at gusto niya akong ligawan ulit, e, kailangan mag-start fresh siya. Magtrabaho siya at hindi pa sure kung sasagutin ko siya o hindi."

How about the kids, do they miss their father?

"They miss their dad very much. As a matter of fact, si Venice, nanaginip kagabi. Sabi niya, ‘Dad! Dad! Dad!' Umiyak siya."

What did she tell Venice to soothe her?

"Siyempre, hindi ko naman puwede sabihin na ‘Bubba [Yilmaz] flew to space kasama si Kokey.' Mahirap. Siguro the best way to do na lang is to hug her."

Does Yilmaz get time to speak to his little angels?

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"Lagi silang nag-uusap, so okay naman yung communication nila and sana si Yilmaz, e, patuloy pa rin maging dad sa mga anak niya. He's the perfect dad."

There's the impression among people who say that Ruffa Gutierrez is rich because Yilmaz left her with a huge amount of money. What's her take on this?

"Hindi po totoo yun," she said. "As a matter of fact, nung umalis ako sa Istanbul to come back to Manila, e, dala ko lang, e, tatlong maleta. Marami akong things na naiwan dun, mga material na gamit na para sa akin, e, it doesn't really matter dahil I didn't work hard for it.

"If they think na maraming ibinigay sa akin si Yilmaz o malaking halaga, nagkakamali po kayo dahil po si Yilmaz, wala pong ibinibigay sa akin ni singko. Nung naghiwalay kami, he's not supporting me and he's not supporting the kids. So lahat ng ginagawa ko ngayon ay para sa anak ko."


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