Lesbian single mom chides Eat Bulaga! over Senator Tito Sotto’s advice to a gay dad

“I was appalled at how you handled the situation: how you suggested that this guy should go back to the closet so his kids won’t be discriminated is like saying that homosexuality is a sin," says a lesbian mom in a reaction to Senator Tito Sotto’s advice to a gay dad to go back to the closet to spare his kids from discrimination.


Isang single lesbian mom ang nagsulat ng open letter para sa longest-running noontime show sa bansa, ang Eat Bulaga!

May kinalaman ito sa payo na ibinigay ng EB Dabarkads sa isang baklang ama na dumulog sa “Problem Solving” segment ng programa.

Sa May 22 episode ng programa, isang “beki dabarkads” na nagpakilalang Diamond ang humingi ng suhestiyon kung paano maiwas sa diskriminasyon ang kanyang tatlong anak dahil sa pagkakaroon nila ng baklang ama.

Tugon ni Jose Manalo kay Diamond: “Hindi mawawala 'yan. Hindi mawawala 'yan, na darating 'yan sa mga bata.”

Payo pa ng comedian-TV host: “Ang unang-unang kailangan ay ikaw. Ang solusyon ay ikaw. Ikaw ang unang gagawa ng solusyon.

“Kaya mo bang... hindi naman binabago ang pagkatao mo, beki ka pa rin, 'yan ang gusto mo—nagkaanak ka.

"Pero magagawa mo ba na hindi ka na maggaganyan ng hitsura? Pero beki ka pa rin."

Singit naman si Senator Tito Sotto, na nasa loob ng studio: “Sa madaling-salita, ibalik sa closet.”

Sagot ni Diamond sa tanong ni Jose: “Opo, kaya ko po. Kakayanin ko po kahit po, siyempre, mahirap talaga. Pero kakayanin ko po para sa mga anak ko.”

Sinabihan pa ni Jose si Diamond ng: “Baguhin mo na rin kasi ang pananamit mo.”

Pero sinagot naman siya ni Paolo Ballesteros: “Okay naman, a!”

Inulit naman ni Senator Tito ang kanyang sinabing “Balik sa closet.”


Tito Sotto: "Ibalik sa closet!" by stingroyce

OPEN LETTER. Kaugnay nito, isang "single lesbian mom" na nagngangalang Cha Roque ang nagbahagi sa kanyang Facebook account ng isang open letter bilang reaksiyon sa mga naging payo ng Eat Bulaga! hosts kay Diamond, partikular na sa sinabi ni Senator Tito na “Ibalik sa closet.”

Pahayag ni Cha sa kanyang open letter: “I was appalled at how you handled the situation: how you suggested that this guy should go back to the closet so his kids won't be discriminated is like saying that homosexuality is a sin.

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“You made it appear like homosexuality is a disease and that he should keep it from his kids so as not to 'infect' them with it.

“I feel sad for the guy for trusting you with what he is going through only to be treated that way.”

Narito ang kabuuan ng open letter ni Roque para sa Eat Bulaga!, na nai-post niya sa kanyang Facebook account kahapon, May 26:

“An Open Letter to Eat Bulaga from a Lesbian Mom

“Dear Eat Bulaga,

“I am Cha, a single lesbian mom to an eleven year old daughter. I've seen the video of your segment (Dabarkads na beki, may asawa at tatlong anak) and I was appalled at how you handled the situation: how you suggested that this guy should go back to the closet so his kids won't be discriminated is like saying that homosexuality is a sin. You made it appear like homosexuality is a disease and that he should keep it from his kids so as not to "infect" them with it. I feel sad for the guy for trusting you with what he is going through only to be treated that way.

“It was an immature and uneducated move. Eat Bulaga is an institution, you have millions of followers spanning the whole Philippines. Needless to say, the personalities in your show are influential. You even have a Senator blatantly telling this guy to go back to the closet. Don't you have gay or lesbian colleagues or staff in your show? What if the participant was a lesbian mom? Would you ask her to go back to the closet as well? Would you say the same to Aiza Seguerra if she was in the situation?

“I am a lesbian mom and I chose not to hide in the closet, because I love my kid. I don't think she deserves to be lied to and lying to her about who I am is the biggest betrayal. You don't hide secrets from the people you love - more so your identity. It is shows like yours and opinions like those that was expressed in your show that encourages the bullying of LGBT people and their families. It is unfair that my child got bullied because of who I am but the way I raised her equipped with with the strength to face the world bravely. It is unfair that people (like you) will judge her not for who she is, not for how she excels in school, not for her craft but for who her mom is. This is why I chose to come out of the closet and fight for our rights.

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“We (LGBT people) do not want to hide. We want to be accepted, and acceptance is different from being tolerated. It is not okay that you are only okay with us if we keep quiet. It is not okay that you coexist with us just as long as we don't complain about how we are treated.

“You are not in the position to tell this guy "bumalik sa closet" or "bakit kasi nag-asa-asawa" or threaten to hurt him (jokingly). You are promoting a culture of hate. You are telling the world that corrective beating up is okay to make a gay guy become manly. You are telling the world that the only key to be accepted is to hide who you truly are.

“We have the right to our choices. We know who we are and you don't have the right to tell us to be otherwise.

“Judging from all the things you said here, I say I better make my child stay away from your show. I feel more secure with my kid hanging out with my gay and lesbian friends. I am more secure that she will get valuable life lessons from them and not learn rubbish. This incident just proved once again how homosexuality is far more clean than Eat Bulaga and its hosts' opinions will ever be.”

Sa ngayon ay wala pang reaksiyon ang Eat Bulaga! management o maging sa mga host ng programa.

Ngunit mananatiling bukas ang PEP sa anumang reaksiyon o pahayag na nais ibigay ng Eat Bulaga! tungkol sa isyung ito.


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