Maine Mendoza's advice on how to get over someone without closure

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Maine Mendoza on dealing with a thwarted romance: "Darating din ang tamang lalaki para sa 'yo, at clearly hindi siya yun."


“Darating din ang tamang lalaki para sa ‘yo at clearly hindi siya yun.”

These are the words of advice of Maine Mendoza to a letter-sender named Carla.

In Eat Bulaga!’s Facebook Live video yesterday, October 3, Maine shared Carla’s dilemma about a thwarted “mutual understanding” with a guy that the former was supposedly dating.

Carla wrote in her letter, “Tapos nakita ko siya na may ka-holdingan hands na iba. Nais ko sana siyang tanungin kung ano nagawa kong mali. Ano po ang nararapat kong gawin?”

Maine initially remarked, “Alam mo, talamak talaga yung ganitong problema.

“Alam mo yung hindi naman talaga naging sila, M.U. lang tapos sa huli naiiwanan din.

“Ang hirap magkomento dito kasi baka may masabi ako na ibang bagay.

“You know me naman, I’m just a simple girl.”

STOP CHASING A GUY WHO'S NOT INTO YOU. On a serious note, Maine told the letter-sender to stay away from a guy who’s already into someone else.

The Eat Bulaga! mainstay explained, “Personally, kung sa akin mangyari ‘yan, hahayaan ko na lang.

“Hahayaan ko na lang siya... hindi ko na siya kukulitin, hindi ko na siya tatanungin, hindi ko na siya kakausapin.

“Kasi magmumukha ako na parang hinahabol ko.

“Na parang alam mo yun? Kahit na ang gusto ko lang naman malaman [ay] yung rason kung bakit niya ako iniwan.”

She reiterated that part of life’s mystery is that not all questions can be answered in an instant.

“Well, mahirap sa iba na walang closure.

“Pero ako, kaya ko naman yung mga ganung bagay. Nasanay na rin ako sa mga ganun.

“So, hayaan ko na lang. Ganoon kasi ang buhay. Move on, move on na lang.”

NO TO RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT LABEL. As for lessons learned, Maine said to be wary of entering a relationship without drawing the line first.

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“Kaya kailangan talaga iklaro mo sa partner mo o kung sino man love interest mo kung ano ba kayo.

“Ang hirap ng M.U.-M.U. lang kayo kasi wala kayong hawak sa isa’t isa, e.

“Puwede mo siyang iwan anytime, puwede ka niyang iwan anytime.”

Most importantly, Maine maintained that what matters is to focus on the present moment and be happy.

“Nakita mo na siyang masaya sa iba, mas mabuting masaya ka na lang din sa buhay mo...

“Huwag mo masyadong isipin yung nangyari dun.

“Hindi ka mauubusan ng lalaki. Marami pa ‘yan!”


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