Inalmahan ni Clint Bondad ang umano'y panghuhusga sa kanya ng isang netizen, na nagsabing tinuturuan niya ang mga kabataang lalaki na umaktong "douche" at pairalin ang "male chauvinistic" na kaisipan.
Nagsimula ito sa Instagram post ni Clint kung saan ipinakita niya ang kanyang before-and-after photo—noong siya ay 14 years old at ngayong siya ay 24 years old na.
Kalakip nito ang mensahe ni Clint sa mga kabataang lalaki na mas mahalaga ang magpakalalaki kaysa problemahin ang makuha ang atensiyon ng isang babae.
Base raw ito sa natutunan niya sa kanyang sablay na diskarte sa pagpapa-cute sa girls noon.
Lahad ni Clint: "About 10 years ago. I remember asking girls what haircut would look good on me. Biggest mistake a guy can do when trying to get girls attention.
"'Cute' does not get you on girls speed dial. I literally grew a p**** in that moment.
"If you are a man you should give flying s***. As long as you are comfortable nothing matters!"
Payo pa ni Clint, importanteng ulit-ulitin sa sarili kung ano ang tamang mindset upang makamit ang anumang minimithi.
Aniya: "Comfortable and KEEPING your BALLS is the goal! Something we men really need to hammer into our brain over and over again!
"After you learn or remind yourself of that again you will have completely different girl problems.
"So here you go! Stay alpha and pray that in 10 more years you look even better!
"GO KILL IT! STAY MOTIVATED AND AGGRESSIVE!"
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#10yearchallenge Yes, I actually had an awkward stage... About 10 years ago. I remember asking girls what haircut would look good on me. Biggest mistake a guy can do when trying to get girls attention. "Cute" does not get you on girls speed dial. I literally grew a p**** in that moment. If you are a man you should give flying s***. As long as you are comfortable nothing matters! Comfortable and KEEPING your BALLS is the goal! Something we men really need to hammer into our brain over and over again! After you learn or remind yourself of that again you will have completely different girl problems. So here you go! Stay alpha and pray that in 10 more years you look even better! GO KILL IT! STAY MOTIVATED AND AGGRESSIVE!
Si Clint ang longtime boyfriend ni Miss Universe 2018 Catriona Gray.
Napapanood din ang Filipino-German model bilang guest co-host sa GMA News and Public Affairs program na Unang Hirit.
Sa comments section, kinontra ng isang netizen ang umano'y "alpha talk" o pa-macho na payo ni Clint.
Hindi raw uubra ang pagiging "aggressive" ng isang lalaki para makuha ang atensiyon ng isang babae.
Kontra-pahayag ng netizen (published as is): "Im sorry Clint I respect you and all but who are you trying to impress here? Men or women.
"If its women which is the fairer sex then you should know that we women are not impressed by all that aggression, male chauvinistic jargon and 'alpha talk' and male Bravado and machismo.
"We are impressed by GENTLEMEN. Who knows how to treat a woman like a lady and a Queen. A man whos caring, kind and who Understands and nurtures her."
Kinuwestiyon din ng netizen kung bakit tila walang girlfriend kung umasta si Clint.
"Besides all this macho advise and attitude is irrelevant being that you have a Girlfriend. @catriona_gray
"You just won the heart of the most Beautiful Girl in fact the Miss Universe who has the kindest Heart of all. So I truly dont understand what 'message' youre trying to convey to these 'Men' on how to pick up Girls."
Dagdag ng netizen, "You should instead be teaching these Boys how to be a true Gentleman. To stay humble, to act chivalrous, to be sensible and romantic, to mind their manners, stay humble and above it all to Love women not challenge them."
TAKEN OUT OF CONTEXT?
Depensa naman ni Clint, mali raw ang interpretasyon ng netizen sa kanyang Instagram post.
Nilinaw niyang wala siyang sinasasabing huwag maging gentleman ang isang lalaki.
Paliwanag ni Clint (published as is): "Nobody said that being alpha means that you can't be all of your above mentioned attributes too.
"Alpha literally means leader. It's a mindset. It's not about being a 'douche' as you might wrongfully translate it as.
"And my post is not about picking up girls its just a back story to why I had a funny haircut in the left picture. That's all."
Ayon pa kay Clint, ang tanging intensiyon niya ay makatulong sa teenage problems ng mga kabataang lalaki.
Lalo pa't napagdaanan na niya ang stage na iyon.
"The message obviously is NOT [meant] for you you in this case.
"Its for young men who need a brother or a friend to motivate them to work on their dreams.
"I can talk about that better as I happen to be a guy as well. If you play sports you get this kind of pep talk from your coaches."
Sa huli, sinabi ni Clint na tinatanggap pa rin niya ang opinyon ng netizen kahit salungat ito sa kanya.
"Appreciate your respone," pagwawakas ni Clint.