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Former actress Lotis Key recalls fond memories with ex-flame Dolphy

by Nerisa Almo posted on June 29, 2012  STATS: 36928 Views | 15 Comments

“Our years together were marked by hysterical kuwentuhan that made us laugh so hard we’d both get asthma attacks,” recalled former actress Lotis Key about her past romantic relationship with Comedy King Dolphy.

Photo By: Nerisa Almo / http://mnchristianwriters.org

It’s not a secret that Comedy King had fallen in love with several women in the past, and one of them was former ‘70s actress Lotis Key.

In the book Dolphy: Hindi Ko Ito Narating Mag-isa, which was launched during his 80th birthday celebration in 2008, the legendary actor admitted, “I almost married her.”

The Comedy King was, of course, referring to Lotis.

Lotis, who is now based in Minnesota, attested to this in a letter she gave to ABS-CBN North American Bureau Chief Nadia Trinidad, which was published in ABS-CBN news website yesterday, June 28.

The writer-actress said she and Dolphy clicked because “we could both die laughing from our own jokes.”

In a trip to Las Vegas when they were still together, Lotis said that Dolphy brought gold wedding rings for them.

This gesture, however, did not end in church because Lotis wanted the award-winning comedian to talk to his children and their mother first.

Lotis reasoned out, “I didn’t want to hurt them.”

Dolphy never gave in to her request but he was still persistent about his intention to marry the Filipino-American beauty.

Lotis recalled, “He never did it, but every few months [he] would bring out those rings and lay them on my dressing table, my pillow, my plate, and just look at me and raise his eyebrows.

“I’d laugh and say, ‘What are we going to do? Run away and live on a desert island? These kids are a part of your life. You have to talk to them!’”

Lotis was so conscious about not hurting anyone’s feeling during their affair that she apologized to one of the women who was linked to Dolphy when she met her once.

She narrated this incident, “In San Francisco last year, someone pointed out a woman to me and whispered; that’s one of the mothers.

“I went over and introduced myself.

“I asked her forgiveness for the pain I’d unwittingly caused so many years ago.

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  • 15  hooney

    07/03/2012 | 02:09 AM
    si Dolphy ay parang si Erap lang at Bong Revilla, babaero, mabuti siyang tao pero aminin na natin na babaero siya at kaya na rin naman tumagal siya kay ZsaZsa dahil kailangan nila ang isat isa, matanda na si Dolphy nung naging sila ni Zsa zsa at ang lalake pag tumatanda na naghahanap na ng babaeng makakasama niya, companionship baga, at si Zsa Zsa naman wala ng choice kundi panindigan na lang dahil andiyan na yan eh, at anung mahal na mahal siya ng pamilya ni Dolphy, respeto na lang yun sa daddy nila, kung mababasa niyo mga interviews ng ibang anak ni DOlphy mas gusto pa rin nila si Alma dahil mapagbigay daw sa kanila, it takes 2 to tango pero merong isa pa rin na mas mabigat ang kasalanan, well past is past na naman kaya yung iba wag na gawin masama ang mga nakakaawa dati dahil imbes pulos simpatya pasasamain niyo lang ang image ng idol niyo, hindi naman lahat ng tao mangmang sa mga nangyari noong unang panahon
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  • 14  Monicafer

    06/30/2012 | 06:43 PM
    Sayang at hindi nagkatuluyan si Dolphy at Lotis. She's such a beautiful, talented and good mannered woman. Her message on her relationship with Dolphy is very touching. It only shows the love she had with Dolphy, but unfortunately, I am sorry to say that he was not man enough to fight for this love. He could have given up the other women in his life and pursue Lotis, but it didn't happen. On Alma, everybody knows that Alma was very popular at that time. They were in Manila Hotel when Alma woke up one morning and found a note from Dolphy asking for apology for leaving her. This is one reason that Alma denied visitation right to Vandolph. The rest is history.
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  • 13  myrth

    06/30/2012 | 01:37 AM
    You're so nice Ms.Lotis. bihira ang tulad mo. saludo ako sa iyo.i like you and your principle.
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  • 12  liwayway

    06/30/2012 | 01:18 AM
    their life together was full of laughter pala. that part is enviable.
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  • 11  bantaybata

    06/29/2012 | 11:46 PM
    she's a born again christian and the vice president of a certain CHristian writers group in Minnesota
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  • 10  bessie31

    06/29/2012 | 08:48 PM
    Lotis Key has always been a classy lady.
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  • pinay123

    06/29/2012 | 07:54 PM
    i heard when i was a kid that lotis key is maricel soriano's aunt/relative, is that true?
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    lanalang08
    06/30/2012 | 09:28 AM
    nope. hindi totoo. dahil half american si lotis and maricel has no american blood. kaya they are not related. akala lang nang lahat related sila dahil noon panahon pa nang john and marsha may relasyon si tito dolphs and lotis kaya akala ay related si maricel kay lotis. dahil parang anak na rin ni tito dolphs si maricel noon.
    winged_angel
    07/11/2012 | 10:00 AM
    lanalang08 I'm not gonna say na related sila because I do not know that for a fact, but dun sa reason mo na they can't be related because Lotis is half American, while Maricel is purely Filipino, medyo natawa lang ako. Di ba pwedeng sa Filipino side ni Lotis sila related? hehe
  • spicy_tuyo

    06/29/2012 | 07:44 PM
    Awwww! Who said lovers can't be friends? Not true in this case, ha. In my old age now, I think of you and smile. Naks! Iba talaga ang tunay na salita kesa mga pa-sweet na pick-up lines.
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  • landstown

    06/29/2012 | 06:18 PM
    ang sweet naman at ang bait ni ms.lotis key
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  • lotuss

    06/29/2012 | 05:46 PM
    WOW !! ang ganda ng ugali mo ms lotis key.. siguro kung ako yan magaala LOLIT SOLIS ako HARBAT NG HARBAT he he he
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  • ehemm

    06/29/2012 | 05:45 PM
    hmmm, they look alike. pero kilig ako dun sa "sunshine of his life... will always be connected... like two giggling kids..." this makes me smile lols
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  • starqueen

    06/29/2012 | 05:38 PM
    Dolphy had a relatively low key private life when he was with Lotis Key. As in there was some mystique about him in the 70s. Gumulo lang ang buhay nya when he hooked up with Alma Morena. And the rest is history na. And its true, she was the only one who never really gave him money issues. Dolphy was still seeing Baby Quizon - mother of Eric, etc when he was with Lotis. Pero I dont remember hearing any scandals etc. Lotis knew her place and that was why they never got married. I wonder how Dolphy would have been if they remained together.
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    pearl102
    06/29/2012 | 11:35 PM
    Excuse me, hindi sa gusto ko si Alma...simula't sapul magulo na ang buhay ni Dolphy sa dami ng babaeng naanakan niya at lalong gumulo noong dinagit niya ay isang babaeng MAY ASAWA at ANAK na iniwan dahil sa kanya. At isa pa, iba ang mga showbiz reporters noong 70's compare sa 80's, 90's at lalo ngayon.
    eminem
    06/30/2012 | 12:57 AM
    talagang magulo ang buhay ni dolphy nung sila ni pa ni ALMA , huwag na kasing ipagtanggol! mahilig kasi sa mga barkada palibhasa kasi bata pa, hanggang sa pag a-out of the country nila ni dolphy karay karay niya yung mga barkada niyang WEA dancers, kaya naiinis si dolphy dahil nawawalan sila ng privacy
    pearl102
    06/30/2012 | 01:30 AM
    Of course sasabihin nyong magulo dahil sa lahat ng nakalive in ni Dolphy si Alma lang ang big star...isa na siyang ALMA MORENO noong nakuha siya ni Dolphy.
    leenavi
    06/30/2012 | 04:36 AM
    Sorry, nawala talaga ang respeto ko sa kanya bilang isang tao hindi artista ng inagaw niya ang isang babaeng may asaw at anak.
    tranix
    06/30/2012 | 08:34 AM
    ang pagkakaroon nang madaming anak sa ibat ibang babae eh di nangangahulugan na magulo na ang buhay. ang katotohanan ay malinaw naging mabuting tao si Dolphy sa kabila nito. pakinggan ninyo ang mga tao sa paligid halos lahat nananalangin na humaba pa ang buhay . at pakinggan mo si Lotis Key di ba napaka sarap pakinggan ang mga salitang binitiwan niya after all those years. at kung may nangyari mang agawan nang asawa i think you used the wrong word. walang agawang nangyari maaari iwanan. at wag isisi lahat sa dalawa dahil di natin alam ang tunay na nangyari. nasisiguro ba nating walang kasalanan ang kabilang panig ? remember it always takes 2 to tango. at sa kabila nito it's a living truth na hanggang ngayon magkasama pa sila at mahal na mahal siya nang pamilya ni Dolphy dahil nakita nila ang katapatan nito.
    pearl102
    06/30/2012 | 09:29 AM
    Anong sabi mo Tranix, maraming anak means hindi nangangahulugan na magulo ang buhay?? You mean hindi magulo ang buhay ni Dolphy, sa dami ng susuportahan nyang mga anak?? Bakit sa tingin mo ay hindi mapakasalan ni Dolphy si Zsazing or kailangan pang sabihan ni Lotis Key si Dolphy na kung gusto siyang pakasalan ay kausapin muna ang MGA anak?? Hindi mo ba nabasa yung last two articles ni Zsazing?? Nabasa mo ba yung balita sa kabilang broadsheet na nag aaway away na ang members ng isang showbiz family kung magkano daw ang makukuha nilang datung sa kaban ng kanilang yaman.
    pearl102
    06/30/2012 | 09:35 AM
    Walang agawang nangyari, maaring IWANAN?? Kung iniwan mo ang asawa mong lalaki bakit hindi mo binitbit ang nag iisa mong anak?? I am not against adoption pero masasabi kong masuwerte pa yung Nicole dahil inaruga ni Zsazing.
    Monicafer
    07/01/2012 | 10:04 PM
    Yes, Dolphy kept a low profile at that time dahil he was with another woman, another movie star. He had kids with her, one of them was a classmate of my daughter in grade school.
  • greencardholder

    06/29/2012 | 05:07 PM
    Ito ang inaabangan ko.. Ang ganda talaga at bait ni Ms. Lotis Key na akala ko noon tunay na nanay ni Eric Quizon..
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    winged_angel
    07/11/2012 | 10:02 AM
    WHen I saw her picture in an old magazine, akala ko din siya ang Nanay ni Eric, but my mother told me na iba daw.
  • hototguy

    06/29/2012 | 03:40 PM
    ang ganda nya noon kapanahunan nya, di ko namukhaan dito. sweet and charming na babae si Lotis Key.... sayang at di ko na nakita pa sa tv after long long years!
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  • winklebee

    06/29/2012 | 03:23 PM
    maganda pa rin si ms lotis key... nagkapamilya na kaya sia?? wla kasing nabanggit eh......
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    Uripon
    06/29/2012 | 03:32 PM
    low key lang kasi si ms lotis key. di na nag-elaborate about her current life.
    Tyler11
    06/29/2012 | 09:45 PM
    Napangasawa nya dating player ng U-tex- basketball team noong '70s, Bambi K. Lotis Key starred in some hollywood movies and TV shows. Andoon sya sa Untamed Heart etc. She still writes and I think directs/creates plays. She's based in Minnesota.

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