Who should moms like Neri Naig prioritize first: husband or kid?

by Nikko Tuazon
Mar 2, 2017
Chito Miranda with wife Neri Naig-Miranda and son Miguel.

First-time mommy Neri Naig-Miranda recently invited her Instagram followers to a discussion about motherhood.

In one of her posts, the former Star Circle Quest finalist commended mommies who have been making big and small sacrifices for their babies.

Since she gave birth to Baby Miguel last December, she has become makalilimutin.

Part of Neri's caption read, "High Five sa mga nanay na the whole day naka-pajama at nakakalimutan minsan kung naligo na ba o hinde, hehe!

"At kahit maigsi na ang buhok, nakakalimutan pa ring magsuklay!

"O di kaya yung mga nanay na nalilito kung anong araw na, haha!"

Towards the end of her post, Neri asked her fans this question: who should women prioritize? husband or child?

She continued, "Yung latest blog ko, yung laging tinatanong sa akin lagi kung ni minsan ba raw nagselos ako sa mga kaibigan ni Chito?

"'Tapos kuwentuhan tayo dito sa comment section o sa blog mismo. Pasensiya na po sa mga nag-i-email at nag-dm [direct messaging], mahirap po kase na sagutin isa isa.

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"Ano? Patulugin muna natin mga babies natin? Konting ligpit ng kalat, kain ng lunch, pahinga konti 'tapos kuwentuhan tayo dito!"

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Through the comments section, some moms were able to ask the wife of Parokya ni Edgar vocalist Chito Miranda.

An Instagram user with the handle name @tweet070411 asked the Star Magic talent if she feels guilty each time she has "ME time" after taking care of her baby.

The 31-year-old actress revealed that for the first two months, "bagsak ako."

Here's their exchange.

Addressing another user, Neri added, "...kung papabayaan ko sarili ko, kawawa naman ang anak ko, di ba?

"Sa pag-aayos naman, sa ibang mga post ko, kapag lumalabas kami ng asawa ko, nag-aayos naman ako.

"Iba lang talaga kapag may anak ka na."

IG user @mhalen.n reminded Neri about the "need pa rin mag-ayos."

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She added, "Baka iwanan ni mister?"

However, Neri noted that a woman's priority changes once she becomes a mother.

The Kapamilya star further argued that a husband should, first and foremost, understand that their baby's well-being must always come first.

What if the husband will not share his wife's views?

Neri then described what a "napaka-walang kuwentang asawa" is like.

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Chito Miranda with wife Neri Naig-Miranda and son Miguel.
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