Prior to her relationship with Paul Jake Castillo, Kaye Abad opened up about going through three breakups.
Of her three ex-boyfriends, the Kapamilya actress revealed that she was the one who initiated the breakup twice.
“May isang ako yung nasaktan, dalawa yung ako ang nakasakit,” said Kaye in Magandang Buhay’s May 30 episode.
Even though she did not name names, it’s no secret that Kaye was in an unofficial relationship with Guji Lorenzana for almost three years before they broke up in 2014.
She also had a long-term relationship with Parokya Ni Edgar lead vocalist Chito Miranda before they parted ways in 2009.
Kaye’s relationship with former Tabing Ilog co-star John Lloyd Cruz lasted for less than a year.
NO EASY WAY TO BREAK SOMEONE'S HEART. When asked how she handled breaking up with someone, Kaye admitted that it was a tough decision for her to make at that time.
“Ang hirap, ang hirap-hirap nung ikaw yung nakakasakit. Parang feeling mo, ang sama-sama mong tao.
“Pero siyempre, sabi nga ng kaibigan ko, hindi pa nila maiintindihan 'yan ngayon na para din naman sa kanya 'yang desisyon mo.
“Na mas makakabuti talaga kung hindi na.
“So, I think na okay na silang dalawa ngayon, may mga asawa na sila, masaya na silang dalawa.”
Looking back, the 34-year-old actress maintained that she has no regrets because all of them are happy with their respective lives now.
She said, “Wala naman [akong regrets], kasi feeling ko tama talaga yung desisyon ko.”
Guji Lorenzana married his non-showbiz girlfriend last February, while Chito is happily married to wife Neri Naig since December 2014
Kaye, for her part, got engaged to boyfriend Paul Jake early this May.
LESSON LEARNED. If there’s one thing she learned about her past breakups, it’s the importance of open communication between a couple.
Kaye recalled, “Dati kasi nung bata ako, mahigpit ako, e. Selosa ako.
“Tapos kapag may party siya, hindi ko papayagan. Yun yung natutunan ko.
“Plus sa mga kaibigan din, na kahit na paghigpitan mo, kung gusto niya ay gagawa ng paraan, maitatago at maitatago niya.
“So, ako, natutunan ko na maging open na sabihin mo sa akin kung may crush ka o may ka-text ka, okay lang.
“Kasi once na mahuli kita at itinago mo sa akin, ibig sabihin ay siniseryoso mo 'yan para itago mo sa akin, kasi open ako.
“Kung may crush ka, normal lang naman yung crush.
“So, yun, maging open lang.”