Ruffa Gutierrez and her French-Israeli boyfriend, Jordan Mouyal, have been together for more than two years.
And save for her mom Annabelle Rama’s dislike for the guy and their “quickie” breakup in July last year, their relationship has been smooth sailing.
The former beauty queen described it “very quiet” and “very stable.”
At the launch of Watsons Big White Blowout, she elaborated, “Walang drama masyado, you know what I mean?
“He lets me be. I have work.”
More importantly, “He doesn’t mind my mom in the sense na he still respects her and hindi siya yung lumalaban.
“Yung ibang lalaki kasi lumalaban, e. Siya hindi.
“So I think so far, so good.”
Before we could ask if we’ll be hearing wedding bells this year, she quickly said, “Wala pang marriage ano, hello.
“Wala dear diyusko been there done that, di ba.
“Ayoko munang magpakasal dahil iba na talaga pag napagdaanan mo na, e.
“Kailangan talagang maging mas careful ka so hindi iyan minamadali.”
A lot of ladies in her circle of friends have been getting married…
The mother of two threw in, “So, I’m happy para sa mga kaibigan ko na ikakasal, excited ako para sa kanila, it’s a different journey for them.”
But her priority this 2017 is career.
“Kailangang mag-ano muna tayo, work.”
No timeline or deadline?
“Hindi ako nagko-close ng door,” she said.
“Ikakasal din ako in the future. Lahat naman tayo kailangan natin ng special someone in our life, di ba.
So hopefully one day mangyari yun [at] the right time.
“Huwag muna ngayon. Huwag nang madaliin.”
Before she even entertains the idea, Ruffa said she has to consider so many factors.
She added, “Saka iniisip ko rin, kailangan ko pa bang mag-baby o hindi na? Parang feeling ko, okay na ‘ko sa dalawa,” referring to her daughters Lorin and Venice.