Aicelle Santos said her fiancé Mark Zambrano was not just an answered prayer, but he also passed the checklist of all the things she’s looking for in a man.
Their love story started in the summer of 2016, when Mark, who was then a news man in GMA-7, took a chance to get the attention of the Kapuso singer-actress by sending her a direct message on Instagram.
A month had passed before Aicelle got to read his message. She happened to be scrolling through her inbox to personally reply to fans congratulating her for her newly-released record album, Liwanag.
Aicelle recalled, “Sabi niya, ‘Hi, I’m a big fan of yours. Hope to see you around the network.’
“Sabi ko, ‘Ay, taga-GMA din siya.’ I checked his profile, kasi kako baka taga-marketing. Hindi ko alam kung saan siyang department.
"Ta’s nakita ko taga-News pala siya. Hindi kasi ako masyado nanonood ng TV.
“Casual lang reply ko, ‘Yeah, thank you. Hope to see you around, too.’ With no malice.”
Mark, however, has always been attracted to Aicelle.
“Yes, La Diva days pa niya yun," said Mark, referring to the vocal trio that was composed of Aicelle, Maricris Garcia, and Jonalyn Viray. All three were mainstays of the Kapuso musical-variety show SOP from 2009 to 2013.
"Kasi pag nananood yung mom ko sa TV, ta’s lalabas siya, siya talaga yung napapansin ko.
“Gandang-ganda talaga ako sa kanya nun.”
Aicelle interjected, laughing, “May effect pala ako!”
The couple was interviewed when they sat down for PEP Live at the headquarters of PEP.ph (Philippine Entertainment Portal) last October 21.
Mark continued, “For a while, hindi ko na siya nakikita na. Dahil naging busy na rin. You don’t watch too much TV anymore.
“Until nakita ko siya ulit nung nag-Traffic Diva siya sa Eat Bulaga!"
It was a segment in the Kapuso noontime show where Aicelle randomly performs a song in the midst of heavy traffic around the metro.
Mark added, "So sabi ko, ‘Siya na naman!’ Ayun, dun nagsimula ulit.”
MARK ASKS AICELLE OUT ON A DATE
So when Aicelle replied to Mark’s direct message on Instagram, he didn't think twice about making the moves on her.
His next message to Aicelle read: “Can I ask you out on a date?”
This writer reacted, “Ang bilis naman!”
“E, kasi naman, isang buwan ako pinaghintay!” Mark exclaimed.
Then he clarified, “Hindi, loko lang. Hindi ko inaasahan na sasagot siya. I felt, ba’t naman ako bibigyan ng panahon nito? Ba't naman ako sasagutin nito?”
Aicelle admittedly had doubts about going out on a date with a guy she hasn’t even met yet.
But when she fished info about him from a fellow GMA-7 colleague, Aicelle learned that he’s "single" and "mabait naman daw."
She was also convinced by that same colleague to "stop assuming" and just say yes to meeting Mark as he might just want to be friends.
INSTANT YET MEANINGFUL CONNECTION
Aicelle and Mark's date night, however, proved to be a turning point in their lives.
Imagine how they've been working in the same company without ever crossing paths for years.
And then they unexpectedly find themselves sharing a meaningful connection that night they went to dinner that lasted for five hours.
Mark recalled, “Nagulat din ako how we connected, e.
"And me, coming from four years na single, there came to a point na ayaw ko na rin munang mag-relationship.
“And she was actually the first person who told me na, ‘Huy, wag kang nag-a-assume ng mga bagay-bagay.’”
After bringing her home, Mark found himself sitting in the car and thinking about their memorable date night.
“Nung night na yun, basta ang naisip ko lang, ‘Sino ba ‘to? Bakit ganun nararamdaman ko?’ Ang weird.”
He elaborated, “I’m a very cerebral person. I think a lot.
"Ang hirap kong makahanap ng kausap na nagko-connect kami agad.
“That was amazing, yung night na yun. It was also an eye-opener for me.
"Dapat pala may ganun—just open yourself to life in general. Attract positivity.”
The very next day, Mark got in touch with Aicelle and started courting her.
AICELLE'S SECRET CHECKLIST
Aicelle, for her part, felt that same inexplicable connection with Mark.
But she was admittedly guarding her heart well and didn't want another trial-and-error kind of relationship.
She explained: “Mahilig kasi ako sa signs and wonders ni Lord.
“So kapag may event na nangyayari sa buhay ko, ‘Lord, ano ba yung sign mo for me? Should I do this? Should I give this up?’
“And I think when it comes to finding the right guy, may checklist akong ibinigay kay Lord. ‘Lord, ito yung gusto ko, ganyan. Ito, ito, ito.
“So, habang yung process namin of dating, isa-isa siyang natse-check.
"Sabi ko, ‘Wait lang, Lord. Teka muna, parang natse-check lahat. Hindi pa. Masyado pang maaga.’
“I felt, gusto ko later pa ako mag-boyfriend ulit, to really settle down, kasi gusto ko kung sino man yun, yun na.
“E, parang, ang aga niya na...”
What was in her secret checklist?
Aicelle replied, smiling “As simple as sabi ko, ‘Gusto ko palagi siyang naka-collar.’ Sobrang detalyado!
“S, iibig sabihin meron siyang 9-to-5 job.”
Way before meeting Mark, Aicelle said she has already visualized her ideal boyfriend.
She continued, “Oo, nakakatawa. 'Tapos nung unang meeting namin, ‘Ting!’ Naka-collar siya!
“'Tapos sabi ko, ‘Lord, gusto ko panganay.’ Kasi panganay din ako.
“Ayoko ng middle child or bunso kasi feeling ko maghahanap lang ako ng lalaking aalagaan ko.
“Gusto ko yung mararanasan ko na aalagaan ako bilang babae. So ganun, little things like that.”
Aicelle found those things in Mark and more.
“Siyempre nandun yung nagko-connect kayo, someone who’ll support your work, someone who is God-fearing, someone who loves his family.
“Long list 'yan, 'tapos check lahat.
“Sabi ko, ‘Okay, Lord, kung siya na, okay.’
"So bago ko siya sinagot, I was really praying and praying."
Mark then quipped, “Buti na lang naglaba ako ng collar nun!”
HOW MARK KNEW AICELLE IS "THE ONE"
It was really perfect timing for both Mark and Aicelle.
Their courtship only took two weeks, but Mark was sure that Aicelle is "The One."
“Naramdaman ko nung naging kami—I told her this before—an overwhelming sense of peace.
“Alam mo yung wala kang questions, kahit maliit.
"Wala kang doubts kahit konti about the person that you're in a relationship with…
“I can only trust myself with that person and that person with myself kung nakikita ko na she can be, first of all, the wife and the mother of my kids in the future.
“Si Aicelle, she’s very mature dahil panganay din siya. She knows how to handle things regarding herself, her family.”
They were in sync, so to speak.
“Lahat yun nakita ko sa kanya, e. As in 100 percent sure ako.
“Kahit bumaba si God dito, tanungin ako sa harap ko, yun din isasagot ko sa Kanya.
"It felt like a big sigh of relief and security and peace sa akin nung nangyari yun."
They were boyfriend-girlfriend for almost two years when Mark finally popped the question to Aicelle on March 7, 2018.
It happened 15 days before Aicelle flew to London for her stint on Miss Saigon UK Tour.
Joking about the timing of his proposal, Mark exclaimed, “Ang dami-dami kayang poging tisoy sa pinuntahan mo! Sabi ko, papalitan ako nito, ha!”
Aicelle said in response, “Kasi exotic yung lola mo, so mabenta ako sa mga puti!”
“In demand na in demand!” Mark added.
And yet Mark thought that being apart from Aicelle for a year was part of God’s plan.
“Kasi nung time na dumating sa kanya yung offer na Miss Saigon UK Tour, naisip ko na agad na may reason yun bakit ngayon yun dumating.
“Kasi kunwari married na kami or meron na kaming isang anak, hindi mo na matatanggap yun. There’s no way you can just pack up and leave.”
Aicelle added, “Siya mas nag-encourage sa akin to really go and accept the offer.
“Sabi niya, ‘Mahal, you can do this. This is for you. It’s your time to grow as an artist, as a person—mag-isa ka, out of your comfort zone.’
"Very supportive siya dun."
TIME APART AND SURPRISE VISITS IN BETWEEN
They did go through some “adjustments” and challenges during the year they were apart.
But the waiting didn’t seem too long since Mark came to visit Aicelle when the Miss Saigon tour was held in Zurich, Switzerland and also in Plymouth, United Kingdom.
That visit in Plymouth was memorable for the couple since Mark arrived five days earlier than planned.
The Miss Saigon show just finished and most of the cast members were gathered outside the building when Aicelle came out bare-faced, wearing a simple sleeveless top and jogging pants.
She seemed surprised that her colleagues were still there when Mark came out in hiding and approached her with her favorite sunflowers in hand.
It was a sweet surprise that made Aicelle cry, as seen in the video that was uploaded in their joint YouTube channel.
Recalling that moment, Aicelle told PEP.ph: “I was expecting him Thursday pa, biglang Saturday nandun na siya, so I wasn’t ready.
“Kasi gusto ko pagdating niya may cooked na adobo na ako, malinis na yung apartment ko.
“So, nung dumating siya, habang yakap ko siya, ‘Mahal, lahat ng maduming damit ko nasa kama pa.’ Hahaha! Yun naisip ko. I’m not ready!”
When the run for Miss Saigon UK Tour concluded in March 2019, Aicelle came home to Manila and was cast in several acclaimed musical plays including Rak of Aegis Season 7 (July to August) and Himala: Isang Musikal (September to October).
Mark, for his part, left GMA-7 after eight years of being part of GMA News Team and transferred to ESPN 5 where he is regularly seen as a sports broadcaster.
AICELLE and mark'S vows
With only a few weeks left before their wedding, Aicelle said she has cleared up her schedule to focus on preparation for the big day.
What can they promise each other as soon-to-be-married couple?
Aicelle told Mark, “Ipinapangako ko na ipagluluto kita. I’ll make sure na kapag pagod ka, sasaya ka pag-uwi sa akin.
"Okay ba yun? I’ll try my best to make our home a happy home.”
To which Mark replied, “I’m sure it will be happy.”
His vow to Aicelle, “I promise to stop buying shoes. Ang sakit nun, ha!”
Aicelle commented, smiling, “In fairness, ha! Tinigilan na niya pag-buy ng shoes niya. Kasi may pinag-iipunan na.”
Then Mark added sweetly, “I’ll try to take care of you the way you deserve to be taken care of.
"Hindi ko puwede sabihin I’ll be the perfect husband, but I’ll try to be."
Full video of Aicelle and Mark's PEP Live interview here: