Aminado si Dra. Vicki Belo na naaapektuhan siya kapag may celebrity couples na malapit sa kanya ang nasasangkot sa isyu ng hiwalayan.
Sa virtual media conference ng "Usapang Puso, International Women's Day, Break The Bias, Babae Kakaiba Ka Nga Ba" ng Philippine Heart Association, nakapanayam ng PEP.ph (Philippine Entertainment Portal) si Dra. Vicki na madalas kinukuhang ninang sa kasal ng kanyang celebrity clients.
Ang mag-asawang Tom Rodriguez at Carla Abellana, na inaanak niya sa kasal, ay isa sa celebrity couples na mainit na pinag-uusapan ngayon dahil sa napabalitang hiwalayan nila.
Noong September 2021 ay naikuwento pa ni Tom sa vlog ni Dra. Vicki ang love story nila ni Carla.
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Hindi nabanggit sa panayam sina Tom at Carla, pero tinanong ng PEP.ph si Dra. Vicki kung ano ang payo na ibinibigay niya sa mga kaibigang artistang may love problem.
"I have many babies. We call them Belo babies, and all these babies are my babies talaga. This is our family and I will be involved," tukoy ng celebrity cosmetic surgeon sa celebrity clients niya.
"They come here and our house is open. And then they make kuwento. It's enough to just listen to them.
"I try to fix their lives all the time. I'm very pakialamera, but it doesn't work. I've learned already," saad pa ng doctor to the stars.
Wala naman daw talagang perpektong relasyon.
"First of all, for the people out there who follow these people, that think they [celebrities] have a perfect life, I promise you no one has perfect life.
"But on Instagram and on YouTube, it might look like that way because you don't want to put all your negative things there.
"There's no general rule, I'm just all about having a relationship with Jesus Christ. Kasi He's the sumbungan and the most powerful One who really, really helps me all the time.
"I feel so loved by Him because it's an unconditional love."
VICKI ON HER BROKEN FIRST MARRIAGE
Sa kanyang personal na karanasan, naniniwala si Dra. Vicki na may epekto ang family background ng isang tao sa kung paano ito pagdating sa pakikipagrelasyon.
"Because, you know, everybody has a different upbringing.
"And for those people who have young kids, please bring them up well na.
"Because, you know, sana this thing about having separated families, I realized now how important a man is 'coz I see...
"My first marriage, I split up with my ex-husband, Crystal was 6 and Quark was 9."
Matagal nang hiwalay si Vicki sa kanyang first husband na si Atom Henares, at anak nila ang negosyanteng si Crystal at director-producer na si Quark.
Patuloy ni Vicki tungkol sa paglaki ng mga anak: "I felt they were fine, and I really made sure to be friends with my ex-husband para our kids would grow up balanced and well.
"But it really affects them."
ON CELEBS DEALING WITH childhood WOUNDS
Tingin ni Vicki, may hangganan ang pagtitiis sa buhay mag-asawa.
Aniya, "Of course, if you are beaten up already, please go."
Pero naniniwala siyang may marital issues na maaaring subukang maayos pa.
"But on other things, if you can work it out for your children... Not just stay together for the kids, because if it's still an ugly relationship, it doesn't work.
"But if you can somehow find it in yourself to be humble, to see what your fault is rather than always blaming the other party, I think all of these things start there."
Iyon din daw kasi ang napansin ni Dra. Vicki base sa karanasan ng mga iba niyang kakilala.
"When I talk to all these showbiz people, kasi most of them, the ones who are good or the ones who have a family that's very supportive and whose parents are together, they feel loved.
"A lot of them have separated parents or grown up with very dsyfunctional families...
"When I try to show them love, or show them how it feels to have a family, [pero] masyado nang malalim ang sugat, all I do na lang is support when I can and just listen to them.
"They have to go to their own journey. You know, as parents, we want to save our kids and not let them suffer, na sana huwag silang mahirapan.
"Pero di ganun ang buhay, e. Talagang they have to go through it."
VICKI: REAR MEN AND WOMEN WHO'LL BE READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP
Kaya raw prevention is better than cure.
Ipinunto ni Vicki ang kahalagahan ng matibay na pamilya, na habang bata pa lang ang isang tao, nati-train na ito kung paano ang tamang pakikipagrelasyon.
"My advice is for their future, I mean... a family takes a village. The mother is nurturing, the father is affirming. They need to have a strong father figure and a strong mother figure and a very loving one.
"Fathers, don't ever think that your only job... Kasi I always hear that, 'I support naman, I give them a house, I give them a car, I provide for everything.'
"But it's the emotional support that a father can give that is missing.
"So don't think that's your only job, guys, because you really need to be there for your children."
Si Dra. Vicki ay happily married sa kanyang second husband na si Hayden Kho Jr. Halos limang taon na silang kasal.
Puno man daw ng pagsubok at kontrobersiya noong sila ay magkasintahan pa lang, ngayon ay kuntento raw si Dra. Vicki sa pagmamahalan nilang mag-asawa.
Ang anak nilang si Scarlet Snow Belo ay pitong taong gulang na ngayon.