Namayani kay Maxene Magalona ang pagmamahal at pag-unawa sa kabila ng hiwalayan nila ng mister na si Rob Mananquil.
Ngayong Lunes, October 17, 2022, nag-post si Maxene ng litrato niya suot ang wedding gown na ginamit niya noon sa Boracay.
May close-up shot din kunsaan makikita ang wedding ring niya.
Sa caption ng kanyang post, nagbahagi siya ng "7 ways to move on after a breakup."
Hindi man niya pinangalanan ang mister, mahihinuhang ito ang dinaanan niya nitong nakalipas na siyam na buwan.
Matatandaang January 2022 pumutok ang balitang hiwalay na sila—bagay na kinumpirma ni Maxene nang inanunsiyo niyang "single" siya nito lamang October 14, 2022.
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Humigit-kumulang apat na taon din silang nagsama ni Rob bilang mag-asawa.
Idinaos ang romantic sunset wedding nila noong January 11, 2018 sa Shangri-La Boracay Resort & Spa. Bago iyon ay ikinasal din sila sa Santuario de San Antonio Parish Church noong January 8, 2011.
Balik sa IG post ni Maxene, mahihinuha sa payo niya tungkol sa breakup na pinili niyang maging maayos ang hiwalayan nila ng asawa.
Masakit man ang breakup, naniniwala si Maxene na walang magandang idudulot ang sisihan kung sino ang nagkamali.
Magpokus daw sa pagdarasal para sa sarili at sa ex-partner na tuluyang mahilom ang sakit na dala ng nasirang pagsasama.
Narito ang kabuuan niyang post:
"1. Grieve. Cry. Feel the pain and let it all out. Express your anger and sadness in healthy ways instead of distracting yourself from feeling uncomfortable emotions. Drown yourself in your tears if you have to but never drown yourself in alcohol or a pool of negative and unhelpful thoughts. Grieving is an integral part of the process. You cannot move on without properly grieving a loss.
"2. Pray for yourself and your ex. Constantly, sincerely and wholeheartedly. No matter how angry or hurt you are, learn to pray for you and your ex. This will help you soften your heart and develop more compassion for yourself and others. The pain that you are feeling may be intense and overwhelming but as long as you pray, God will help you process your way through it.
"3. Surrender to the present moment and accept the situation as if you chose it. It doesn’t matter anymore who is right or wrong—the fact remains that your ex’s vibrational energy is no longer a match to yours and vice versa. This is the reason why the relationship is not working anymore. There is no point in pointing fingers. Gracefully and lovingly let go of the relationship.
"4. Be grateful for all the lessons you learned and the knowledge you gained in the relationship. Every relationship we encounter in this world is meant to teach us something about ourselves. Going through heartbreaks makes us stronger, more resilient and a lot wiser.
"5. Understand that your ex is also just like you—a soul who is figuring its way through this lifetime. Their traumas, pain and suffering are just the same as yours. Try to see them this way instead of a person that you 'own' or 'control' just because you were in a relationship together. (No one owns anyone in this Universe, btw. ????)
6. Focus on yourself. Use this as a time of personal growth and development. This is the perfect opportunity for you to turn negative energy into positive energy by healing yourself. Try a new hobby. Exercise. Connect to yourself on a deeper level through meditation. Find God within.
"7. Let go and let God. Move forward with grace and lightness in your heart."
Kalakip nito ang hashtag na "#MovewithMaxene" at "#MoveonwithMaxeneMagalona."