Umalma si Doug Kramer, 43, sa batikos ng netizens na tila nanghihingi raw ito ng papuri sa pagiging tapat niya sa misis na si Chesca Garcia-Kramer, 45, sa kabila ng mga temptasyon sa paligid.
Nailathala iyon sa isang motivational Facebook page noong August 15, 2026. At ang na-highlight sa quote card ay ang mga kataga ni Doug na "I could have cheated on my wife but chose not to."
May mahabang caption din ito kung paano nalalabanan ni Doug ang temptasyon.
Bagamat may pumuri sa kanya, may iba ring netizens ang pumuna kung bakit kailangan pa raw ipangalandakan iyon.
Katuwiran nila, "bare minimum" ang pagiging tapat sa asawa dahil iyon naman daw talaga ang pinanunumpaan sa umpisa pa lang ng kasal.
Nakarating kay Doug ang mga batikos sa kanya.
Sabi ng isang netizen: "Why was this something he felt the need to say? I cringed when I read this?
"So does that mean he's (Doug) had many opportunities to cheat yet he chose not to, therefore he should be praised?
"Aba pucha kung asawa ko magsabi ng ganto, baka matunaw ako sa hiya.
"Get this man and his whole family off social media. He has such weird takes and seems like lagi silang uhaw sa attention."
Umalma rito si Doug.
"I absolutely don't care about praise from anyone, nor am I seeking validation from others opinions.
"I only care about loving and taking care of my wife, my kids, and being accountable to the Lord," sagot niya.
Hindi raw kaila kay Doug na may mga tumatawag sa kanyang "narcissist," controlling," at "selfish."
Pagpapatuloy niya: "I've heard them all.
"I'll be the first to say I'm not perfect; I have so many flaws.
"That is why I need Jesus Christ in my life as an example of how to live a Christ-filled life."
Hindi raw niya maintindihan kung bakit minasama ng iba ang aniya'y maayos niyang pagtataguyod sa kanyang pamilya.
"Btw, you're referring to a family man who has been happily married for 18 years this year.
"23 years loyal and faithful to Chesca.
"We have 3 beautiful, loving, hardworking, God-fearing children, yet you guys still choose to make up something negative?
"Damn if you do, damn if you dont."
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DOUG KRAMER SHOWS FULL CONTEXT OF HIS STATEMENT
Ang problema, aniya, nagpokus lang ang netizens sa naka-highlight niyang quote sa quote card at hindi na binasa ang buong caption ng Facebook post na nag-viral.
Punto ni Doug, "This shows the toxicity of a culture that thrives on splicing quotes, taking things out of context, and bashing."
Kaya in-screenshot ni Doug ang buong FB post at binilugan ang quote niya na nagsasabing hindi lang basta takot sa misis niyang si Cheska ang dahilan kaya siya nananatiling faithful na mister.
Sabi sa kanyang quote: "He said he is accountable to God even more than he is accountable to his wife."
Binilugan din ni Doug ang kanyang quote tungkol sa pagpapahalaga niya sa buhay mag-asawa.
"Protect your marriage. Protect your boundaries. Protect what you once prayed for.
Dagdag pa rito ang Bible verse mula sa Hebrews 13:4 "Marriage should be honored by all."
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DOUG KRAMER ON FIGHTING TEMPTATIONS
May karagdagan pang opinyon si Doug tungkol sa pag-handle ng temptasyon sa isang buhay mag-asawa.
"Everyone is subject to temptation. Everyone. That's the devil's job—to get you.
"In the moment, it might feel right and good.
"Temptation is human, but we're given a choice every single time.
"Being tempted isn't a crime or a secret, it’s reality."
Lagi naman daw option ang taong pumili ng tamang desisyon alang-alang sa asawa at pamilya.
"Every man faces those choices daily, whether in the workplace, at gatherings, or even on social media.
"The real strength isn't pretending temptation doesn't exist, or that you've never been tempted; it's looking it in the eye, turning your back on it, and choosing your wife and kids every single time!
"Loyalty is an active, deliberate choice you make every single day."
Sa huli, idiniin din ni Doug na tingin niya ay walang masama sa pag-angat sa mabuting asal.
"Going back to that statement:
"Tbh, if it means highlighting men's testimonies of standing resilient against temptation and winning every single time because they choose to prioritize their family, then ABSOLUTELY GIVE THEM THE PRAISE!
"We need more leaders in our homes—men who will say,
"I choose my family every single day!"