“Huwag nating unahan.”
Ito ang pahayag ni Derek Ramsay tungkol sa estado ng relasyon nila ng non-showbiz girl na nali-link sa kanya ngayon.
Sa press conference ng kanyang bagong weekly comedy series na Mac and Chiz, Martes ng hapon, February 3, iwas si Derek na magbigay ng detalye tungkol sa babaeng diumano'y madalas nakikitang ka-date niya ngayon.
Sinabi lamang ni Derek, “I don't wanna jinx it so I take things slow. After what has happened, I'm very, very careful.”
Ang ibig sabihin ng aktor ay ang kontrobersiyang idinulot ng mga nakaraan niyang relasyon.
Sa ngayon, ang masasabi lang daw niya ay nasa “getting to know each other” stage pa lamang sila ng sinasabing non-showbiz girl.
“Wala na yung putting your best foot forward, that kind of stuff.
“We're enjoying each other's company and we're gonna see where we're gonna go from there.
“We don't want to jump into something because we're attracted to one another.
“There are a lot of things involved and I've learned that through the years.
"Like what I said, I just want to take things slow and see where these things go."
Sa kabila nito, tiniyak naman niyang, “Yes, there's a spark. But everything that I've gone through, I just don't act on the spark.”
DOES NOT MIND THE PAST. Simula nang umamin siyang nagde-date sila ng non-showbiz girl, may mga lumabas na larawan na nilang dalawa.
Napangalanan na rin ang nakikitang kasa-kasama ni Derek na si Joanne Villablanca umano.
Kaugnay nito, lumabas din ang impormasyong si Joanne ay naging girlfriend nina Jolo Revilla at Jeremy Marquez.
Hindi ito direktang kinumpirma ni Derek.
Pero sabi ng The PEP List nominee, “I've never been a person that looks into somebody's past because some of them always better themselves or improve their life.
“So, you look at the person as who they are right now.
“People make mistakes. No one's perfect.
“I can't judge someone for their history or their past.
“What they show in front of me, this intagible thing, this spark, can also change her outlook in her life or her outlook towards you.
"That's what you have to act upon."
Inamin ni Derek na may anak na rin ang idine-date niyang non-showbiz girl.
Pero aniya, “I'm not gonna judge her on her past.
“I think, because she has a child, she has a sense of responsibility, that's something I'd be very attracted to.
"It's not a problem for me."
Sa ngayon, ayaw muna raw ni Derek isipin kung ano ang mga posibleng mangyari sa kanilang dalawa.
Diin niya, “These are all factors I have to take in and see from there if we go deeper and move forward and do a relationship.
“I have to consider things in her life. I have to consider things in my life.
“Sana, when we feel that it's worth it, that's when we jump in there.”
Dagdag niya, “I've been blessed with so many things in my life.
"So, sana naman sa 2015, 15 is my lucky number, I'll be blessed with the right woman.
“I want a family and sana 'yon ang ibigay sa akin ni Lord sa 2015.”