May hugot ba si Sharon Cuneta sa kanyang open letter para sa anak na si Frankie Pangilinan?
Kahapon, August 28, 2023, lumipad na si Frankie pabalik ng New York, kung saan ito nag-aaral ng kolehiyo.
Si Frankie ang panganay sa tatlong anak nina Sharon at former Senator Kiko Pangilinan,
Read: Frankie Pangilinan, family in tow, starts college in New York
Sa Instagram, ibinahagi ni Sharon ang kanyang saloobin sa muling pag-alis ng anak.
Hindi pa rin daw siya masanay-sanay na tuwing pasukan ay hindi nila kapiling sa Pilipinas si Frankie.
Saad ni Sharon, "Hindi pa rin ako masanay-sanay…Tuwing aalis si Kakie ko pabalik ng Amerika, parang pinupunit ang puso ko.
"It never gets any easier…Such a loving and affectionate daughter and sister…tuwing uuwi siya tumatalon sa ligaya ang [heart emoji] ko…tapos aalis lang uli…
"Tapusin mo na yang course mo, Baba… Ayoko na ng ganito laging parang rollercoaster ride!
"I love you with all of my (right now, bleeding) heart, my baby. One year na lang…Ano ba yan tapos si Mielly naman! Waaaahhh!!! @frankiepangilinan P.S. You were right, Mommy - mahirap nga maging mommy!"
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"THANK YOU FOR BEING MY GOOD DAUGHTER."
Matapos ang limang oras, nag-post si Sharon ng isang open letter para sa anak. Dito ay puring-puri niya si Frankie dahil isa raw itong mabait at masunuring bata.
Mensahe ng Megastar para sa anak, "My Dearest Kakie,
"I went into your room just now, hoping to catch the last scent of you…looking at your things…touching your mattress…thinking of how & what you might be doing on the plane now…Did you eat, baby ko? Are you writing/reading?
"As long as you’re comfy. I went to Yellie’s room after yours and asked her if she was okay. She hugged &kissed me & said she was. But I was crying and carrying a box of tissues so she was so sweet and comforting."
Nami-miss daw ni Sharon ang ingay sa kanilang pamamahay kapag naroon si Frankie. Nami-miss din daw ito ng kapatid na si Miel Pangilinan.
"I miss the noise you two make when you are home… I know Yellie misses you - her favorite person in the world - but handles your absence well, though she is considerably more quiet at the dining table when we have meals without you.
"She & I peeked into Gugie’s room and saw that he was already asleep. Then Yellie brought me back to Dad’s and my room and we kissed and hugged goodnight again.
"Daddy came home after taking you to the airport and said it still wasn’t easy. Baba, what I appreciate and miss most about you is how very malambing and loving you are towards Mama…
"I love that you would always take the time just to sit with me in my room and ask me how I am, and just us making kwento and laughing so hard. You and I are so much alike, though there’s some of Dad in you too."
Ayon pa kay Sharon, masuwerte siya dahil nagkaroon siya ng anak na katulad ni Frankie at mga kapatid nito.
Hindi rin daw siya binigyan ni Frankie ng sakit ng ulo. Pinasalamatan din niya ito sa pagiging "good daughter."
Saad ni Sharon, "I’ve been blessed to have you & the 'giants.' You’re turning 23 in Dec. and dear Lord I cannot thank Him enough for 23 years of nothing but good things and times with you.
"No headaches, no horror stories, no disrespect, no bad or sad anything?! I must have done something right in my lifetime.
"Thank you, my Kakie. My girl. My 'Ate.' It’s no wonder you are able to keep the two giant ‘babies’ in line - it is because they adore and respect you. I respect you!
"I am so proud of the woman you have become and I will never stop praying for God to give you the best life-&the perfect husband for you because you deserve only true happiness.
"In the meantime, get that degree already and come home to Mama, to us, for good. I cannot live without you. I love you with all of my heart. Thank you for being a good daughter. Thank you for loving me.?? I miss you terribly already. Goodnight my baby. @frankiepangilinan"
DID SHARON TAKE A SWIPE AT HER OTHER DAUGHTER KC?
Sa comments section, marami ang nakisimpatiya kay Sharon lalo na ang mga katulad niyang ina.
Pinuri rin nila si Frankie dahil sa pagiging mabait nitong anak.
Pero, may iba namang nakapansin na parang may hugot ang mensahe ni Sharon.
Tila may patama raw ito sa isa pang panganay na anak ng singer-actress na si KC Concepcion, anak ni Sharon sa dating asawang si Gabby Concepcion.
Sabi ng isang netizen, hindi rin niya masyadong kasundo ang kanyang ina pero never daw siya nitong ikinumpara sa kanyang mga kapatid.
Aniya, "My mom and I have love hate relationship. But she never compares me with my siblings. Kristina was raised without a father present. The rest of your children have both parents. A child like her would always feel left out. And she would prefer to be in a place qhere she feels most loved and valued"
Mahaba naman ang komento ng isang netizen sa post ni Sharon.
Tila pinangaralan niya ito tungkol sa pagtrato sa mga anak magkaiba man ang mga ama nito.
Sabi ng netizen, Ily @reallysharoncuneta …. but this post seems kinda toxic- specifically to your other kids or kid in particular….. like, you can profess your love and pride to one or some of your kids WITHOUT putting down or comparing the others, no matter how badly you feel they treat you…. Unless, give up ka na as ina to that kid….
"This kind of posts drives the other kids farther away, parang tinutuldukan mo ang relasyon nyo…. Try to be in her shoe, she grew up when you were the biggest star in the planet, broken family, absentee parents (generally)…that’s a lot for a kid, and to cope- she will prolly try you and pull you away all the time to test your love just to have the upperhand/win/get your attention…….
"She’s different from your other kids, i’m sure you know that by now— so, treat her differently, be there, unconditionally meaning no opinions, no comparison to other kids nor to yourself/your time when you were young….. praise & refrain to say anything whenever you see something that you don’t approve of…. It’s hard, but it’ll get better……. just try to keep this kind of post private, it sounds toxic even for us, outsiders, what more for her?"
Sabi naman ng isa pang follower ng Megastar, "@reallysharoncuneta Okay lang naman tudo praise ka sa isang anak mo pero alalahanin mo rin may isa kang anak na hindi kayo okay.. nagmumukhang pinariringgan mo lang yong isa. Ikakaayos niyo kaya yan?"
Sana raw ay ginawa na lamang pribado ni Sharon ang mga papuri nito kay Frankie dahil alam naman ng lahat na may isa pa siyang anak na masasaktan.
Saad nito, "Sana yung mga ganito personal mo na lang sinabi k Khakie kasi meron kang isang anak na masasaktan and the more you do this the more your relationship will be irreparable.
"I know you’re yearning for your other daughter’s love and wishes you would get the same kind of love from her but Mega sana mas maging more understanding and patient tayo sa mga anak naten and ipagpray naten sila.
"Wag naten hayaan lalo lumayo ang loob ng mga anak naten sa aten. Will include you in my prayers Sharon. Stay strong and keep praying."
Walang sinagot si Sharon sa mga komento ng netizens tungkol sa relasyon nila ni KC.